Well to start this off I'm bi and going into my senior year in college. I'd been in a relationship with this guy I met off grindr for 5 months since January and was my first actual gay relationship. I've had 2 ex girlfriends. I did all my firsts with him (kiss, sex, cuddle). Does anyone have any advice on how to cope? I really did think I love him cause I'm hurting pretty badly right now. He was the first one to say he loved me, but his excuse for dumping me was that he couldn't reciprocate feelings that were never going to materialize. He wanted to start a new chapter in his life and I was not going to be apart of it. He wants to remain friends but every time I think of him I just hurt. I went home for a month and brought him back for 2 days with me (my family doesn't know i'm bi) and things seemed a little rough cause we had fought over some things a few days before. And throughout my stay at home he seemed alright but towards the end distant at times. Then he called out of nowhere saying he wasn't going to feel the same and tried to dump me on the phone and I talked him out of it. That's when he promised to give things a chance when I got back to campus. Well I get back the second line out of his mouth is "We needs to go separate ways".