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    Advice for finding a guy for first time

    I posted here awhile back with some questions concerning bottoming..

    Anyway the urge continues to get stronger.. i have decided to go ahead and go and try it.. excited, scared nervous, all in one..

    Question is what is a good way to find a discreet guy for my first. Discreet because I'm closeted right now.. As I'm not sure if I'm bi or gay. Used ro consider myself Bi. but have only jut traded handjobs and blowjobs a handful of times however The older I get and the more I think about myself the less I think of women the more I think and fantasize about guys. Plus I've been with several women and have never felt satisfied fully after sex.. Always a meh that felt good but whatever feeling.

    Well as they say you wont know till you try and I want to try.

    Ps: I honestly think ill consider myself gay after anal sex. Unless it does nothing for me. Then I'm back where I was..

    Any advice will be appreciated.

    Thanks in advance

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    Re: Advice for finding a guy for first time

    Ah Kentucky! This scenario sounds all too familiar! But first, some background information is needed.

    What preparations have you done to prepare yourself for your first fuck? Have you worn a buttplug, played with dildos, stuck objects up your ass? Do you know how to be clean "down there" inside and out?

    My first time was WONDERFUL! ! ! ! Then again, I prepared for it.

    Homophobia kills!

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    Re: Advice for finding a guy for first time

    Quote Originally Posted by KentuckyGuy View Post
    Any advice will be appreciated.

    Thanks in advance
    Yup. Goal-oriented sex always seems over complicated.

    It looks like your goals are
    • To figure out physically how to have anal sex
    • To remain totally anonymous
    • To use this to figure out if you are gay or not.



    That's way too much going on to actually have a good time, in my humble opinion.

    Anal sex is a skill that you have to learn. You're horny for it, but until you master the skill, you can't say if you really like it or not. Which is also why you shouldn't use one experience with a stranger to decide if you are gay or not.

    Also, you don't have to fall in love with a guy to have fun with him. But instead of a random stranger, I really think this would go so much better with a horny friend who could break you in and help you learn how to do it. Have you at least tried a few toys? Have you figured out your own ass in the shower or whatever?

    Oh, and liking anal has nothing to do with being gay. If you like men, whatever you do with them makes you gay, and it doesn't have to be anal.
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    Re: Advice for finding a guy for first time

    why dont you find someone to have anal sex with the same way you found guys to have hand- and blow-jobs with?

    as a general rule, though: the more you want to stay anonymous, the less likely youre gonna have good sex. good sex usually happens with guys youre comfortable with. also, if youre paranoid about anonymity youre more likely to attract users and other creepy types.

    you should also know, liking or disliking anal sex really doesnt say anything about your sexual orientation.

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