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    Singer Steve Grand (aka Steve Starchild, Steve Chatham and Finn Diesel)

    Watch this new music video. What do you think? It's not every day when we see a gay contemporary country singer. I think he's got potential as a singer. He is definitely a hit with his looks.


    Too bad it's a depressing, lonely ending.

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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    Wow , that had me almost in tears , what a stunning man , and , yep he does have a voice , i think i have found another fave singer .
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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    Bump!!! - Hope it reaches itunes, soon!!!!!

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    Steve Grand - Gay CountryPop singer. Thoughts?


    His most recent release, the first under his real name "Steve Grand". The song is written and performed by him. The straight man he's lusting after in this video is Fratman Taylor Handheld.


    Released back during his Steve Starchild days, cover of Lady Gaga's You and I


    It would also appear that he's done modeling work for DNA magazine under the names Steve Chatham and Finn Diesel.

    So what ya think, this guy have a shot at the big time? That top video received 50,000 views in 24 hours

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    He definitely has an amazing look and voice. He's done other covers under the name of Steve Starchild, including Lady Gaga's You and I.

    He's also done work for DNA magazine under the names Steve Chatham and Finn Diesel. The straight boy in his video is Taylor Handheld from Fratmen.tv

    I sincerely, hope those images don't come back to bite him in the butt considering the conservative audience of country music =x

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    The song is okay. He's got a good enough voice. And the video is a story most of us gay boys can relate to (falling for a straight mate, and having our advances rebuffed). But sadly, I don't see him making it big (or getting any airplay at all) in the country music scene.

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    ^ too bad

    he should have remained in the closet then come out

    i dont think the world is reaady yet unless the girls think they can convert him then he has a chance

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    Re: Steve Grand - Gay CountryPop singer. Thoughts?

    i like him wish him well

    pray he doesnt turn to porn

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    i like this

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    Re: Steve Grand - Gay CountryPop singer. Thoughts?

    Hes cute, but I was hoping the guy would have came back in the end of the video and kissed him..

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    Re: Steve Grand - Gay CountryPop singer. Thoughts?

    Not really my thing(there was one country singer on LOGO a few years back that I was all for - I wonder if he's the same guy?), but i'm glad for the diversity - and he is a looker at least.

    Glad you said country pop, because he's WAY more Taylor Swift than anything...
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    He should sign with David Geffen.

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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    I think the song is wonderful, love the clip. Heartbreaking. He's got talent.

    Hopefully, once he gains more attention he'll get some support through bandcamp.

    http://stevegrand.bandcamp.com/
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    its sad how so many gay men are trashing his video.sad sad just go view the comments

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scottyboi View Post
    .... He's done other covers under the name of Steve Starchild....He's also done work for DNA magazine under the names Steve Chatham and Finn Diesel....
    He wants to build a public profile using 4 different brand names?

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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    Quote Originally Posted by RRUGER View Post
    its sad how so many gay men are trashing his video.sad sad just go view the comments
    dunno about that. seen more gay guys loving the video simply because they find him "cute" than the actual content and message of the video itself.

    with that said, i don't like the song or the video. i actually find the video quite disturbing. if anything, it basically presents all the NEGATIVE aspects of gay culture and problems that affect the gay community.

    -the drug and alcohol abuse issue among lgbt persons

    -closeted men that feel the need to hid their actions and behaviors from their wives and girlfriends and the gay men that chose to mess with them know this.

    -the whole entire "chase after that straight guy" bullshit knowing that a guy is straight.

    -drunken hookups and one night stands.

    -body issue problems among gay men (the whole superficiality and vanity that surrounds gay culture especially gay men)

    -racism and racial undertones="all american guy"

    -narcissism=the guy feels that he has to have the other guy where he's trying to do a drunken hookup, put him in a situation like this and etc.

    won't even get started with the song. if anything, the song and video unintentionally promotes the negatives and is hard to watch if you're aware of them.

    most people that like the video and song either think the model/singer is cute, like the whole fantasy aspect of it and/or clearly aren't really looking at the video and song for what it is. it shows how some people think. everyone is entitled to their opinion BUT with the issues going on in the lgbt community, it's sad to see how they waltz their way into a what is supposed to be an "innocuous" concept which fails miserable.

    with that said, i think that mr. steve grand and whoever he's working with trying to label himself as the first openly gay country singer and the video, that comes off more of borderline porn, come off to be a ploy for attention. unless he makes a song with substance, this will be disregarded.

    i love HOW folks are so quick to label other gay men that bring up the criticisms of this video to be "haters" or bring him down when they basically break down the reality of the false images of the video. i think that's ONE major problem in the gay community today. it seems like the FALSEHOODS are often celebrated and praised and the REALITIES are ignored and shoved to the back despite the REALITIES reminding us of who we are and who we're NOT.
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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    Won't be buying it, but he's hot.
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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    I love Country music!
    And I love him!

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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    nice music vid. definitely a story that a lot of us have lived and felt! and definitely tender feelings!

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    i knew it....

    i really hope theres nudes or an xxx video somewhere

    sexy guy

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    dunno about that. seen more gay guys loving the video simply because they find him "cute" than the actual content and message of the video itself.

    with that said, i don't like the song or the video. i actually find the video quite disturbing. if anything, it basically presents all the NEGATIVE aspects of gay culture and problems that affect the gay community.

    -the drug and alcohol abuse issue among lgbt persons

    -closeted men that feel the need to hid their actions and behaviors from their wives and girlfriends and the gay men that chose to mess with them know this.

    -the whole entire "chase after that straight guy" bullshit knowing that a guy is straight.

    -drunken hookups and one night stands.

    -body issue problems among gay men (the whole superficiality and vanity that surrounds gay culture especially gay men)

    -racism and racial undertones="all american guy"

    -narcissism=the guy feels that he has to have the other guy where he's trying to do a drunken hookup, put him in a situation like this and etc.

    won't even get started with the song. if anything, the song and video unintentionally promotes the negatives and is hard to watch if you're aware of them.

    most people that like the video and song either think the model/singer is cute, like the whole fantasy aspect of it and/or clearly aren't really looking at the video and song for what it is. it shows how some people think. everyone is entitled to their opinion BUT with the issues going on in the lgbt community, it's sad to see how they waltz their way into a what is supposed to be an "innocuous" concept which fails miserable.

    with that said, i think that mr. steve grand and whoever he's working with trying to label himself as the first openly gay country singer and the video, that comes off more of borderline porn, come off to be a ploy for attention. unless he makes a song with substance, this will be disregarded.

    i love HOW folks are so quick to label other gay men that bring up the criticisms of this video to be "haters" or bring him down when they basically break down the reality of the false images of the video. i think that's ONE major problem in the gay community today. it seems like the FALSEHOODS are often celebrated and praised and the REALITIES are ignored and shoved to the back despite the REALITIES reminding us of who we are and who we're NOT.
    all perception i didnt se none of that.

    cant gay bi have just fun...str8 people do all these things too but when a gay person does this oooohhhh omg god forbid.

    plesase chill and jus enjoy the music

    rolling eyes.

    everyone is entitled to their opinions but i do see a lot of judgemental queens qa lot that have nothing to say but negative shit

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    His Model Mayhem page for one of his personas says he doesn't do frontals but there are some butt shots

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    Quote Originally Posted by RRUGER View Post
    all perception i didnt se none of that.

    cant gay bi have just fun...str8 people do all these things too but when a gay person does this oooohhhh omg god forbid.

    plesase chill and jus enjoy the music

    rolling eyes.

    everyone is entitled to their opinions but i do see a lot of judgemental queens qa lot that have nothing to say but negative shit
    that's because you're NOT looking at the video in that kind of light. when you look @ the video and reflect it back on the issues in the gay community, then all those things make you think for a second about the message that is being sent. that message isn't positive which is why i don't see how people are saying this is a step forward for gay folks. it's NOT.

    i don't see how somebody is being negative when they're looking at the realities of outthere that affect many gay people which were reflected in the video.
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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    that's because you're NOT looking at the video in that kind of light. when you look @ the video and reflect it back on the issues in the gay community, then all those things make you think for a second about the message that is being sent. that message isn't positive which is why i don't see how people are saying this is a step forward for gay folks. it's NOT.

    i don't see how somebody is being negative when they're looking at the realities of outthere that affect many gay people which were reflected in the video.
    what kind of music do you like?

    what kind of movies do you like?


    please answer

    i just hate people bringing their morality issues on one video when basically 95 percent of the videos nowadays is filled with filth.

    drinking really? who doesnt drink? he wasnt drinking in excess where he lost his job they were having fun. do not project your miseries unto this innocent video of a teen or a young guy experiencinh life.

    whats so wrong about chasing str8 men? if they like it let them do it? who are you tell me its a wronfg stereotype to chase a str8 guy. arent we fighting for equal rights and yet here we are judging people.

    let me tell you, you dont have the right to tell me whats a wrong stereotype and whats a right stereotype. Your way is not the right way.

    i do drink, party and have fun i am not a fucking PRUDDDDE and if you are then thats you live your life, but i still have a job and i am top of my class.

    i speak 5 diferent languages and i can relate to this video does that make me a negative steroetype...please

    the poor guy wasnt even doing coke drugs, barebacking amonsgt other vile things

    HATE IS HATE
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    I agree with Refugi. We're not "hating" this little video, we're conscious that it's a highly-confected, story that displays some unhealthy behaviour that gay guys get up to obsessing over the unobtainable.
    Last edited by pat grimshaw; July 5th, 2013 at 01:07 PM.

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    ^ hows is it unhealthy, when pratically some gay guys chase twinks handsome guys they can never attain but everyone wants the hott guy then end up alone. there are many behaviours, if you cazn live it thats your choice.

    so i guess every video should just not reflect reality and just be role models all through according to your taste and standards.

    you know whats funny, its sad that people like you exist because you will always have a negative thing to say.

    if the guy was in the closet ooohhh the twerp is in the closet

    if he is bisexual ohhh ihe is really gay

    if comes out saying he likes men ohhhhh he is portaraying a negative stereotype

    if he acts fem ooohh the network tv has too many fems

    we dont know this people personally in their lives, please STOP PASSING YOUR JUDGEMENTS.

    i can understand people saying i dont like the vid its no5t my taste but to say and accuse so art and say thats how it is, is completely hateful and jealousy.


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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    I think that some may be reading too deeply into the video. In addition, some are adding their own morality to the video. I may need to watch the video again, however, I simply saw a man who is having fun with his friends and he has developed feelings for a specific friend. At some point, he misinterprets his friends signals and decides to pursue as he felt that his friend may have felt the same. He realizes the friend does not feel the same, the main character apologizes, and the friend accepts the main character, regardless.

    I do not see any kind of stereotype of gay men. Many people, especially younger, drink and party. This is not an idea exclusive to gay men. Many people have misinterpreted signals at some point, in some way. It does not matter if it was someone of the same sex or the opposite sex. If anything, the setting of the video is perfectly aligned with being Southern, not gay. After all, it is a country song that happens to be about gay male.

    As for Steve Chatham, Steve Starchild, Steve Grand or Finn Diesel, I noticed that he has taken down his ModelMayhem profile. ModelMayhem still has his Finn Diesel or Finn D. profile. I guess it does not matter since his pictures can be found across the internet anyway. I knew of him as a model before I ever knew he did music.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AngelFromAbove View Post
    I think that some may be reading too deeply into the video. In addition, some are adding their own morality to the video. I may need to watch the video again, however, I simply saw a man who is having fun with his friends and he has developed feelings for a specific friend. At some point, he misinterprets his friends signals and decides to pursue as he felt that his friend may have felt the same. He realizes the friend does not feel the same, the main character apologizes, and the friend accepts the main character, regardless.

    I do not see any kind of stereotype of gay men. Many people, especially younger, drink and party. This is not an idea exclusive to gay men. Many people have misinterpreted signals at some point, in some way. It does not matter if it was someone of the same sex or the opposite sex. If anything, the setting of the video is perfectly aligned with being Southern, not gay. After all, it is a country song that happens to be about gay male.

    As for Steve Chatham, Steve Starchild, Steve Grand or Finn Diesel, I noticed that he has taken down his ModelMayhem profile. ModelMayhem still has his Finn Diesel or Finn D. profile. I guess it does not matter since his pictures can be found across the internet anyway. I knew of him as a model before I ever knew he did music.
    thank you. very well said

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    Quote Originally Posted by RRUGER View Post
    what kind of music do you like?

    what kind of movies do you like?


    please answer

    i just hate people bringing their morality issues on one video when basically 95 percent of the videos nowadays is filled with filth.

    drinking really? who doesnt drink? he wasnt drinking in excess where he lost his job they were having fun. do not project your miseries unto this innocent video of a teen or a young guy experiencinh life.

    whats so wrong about chasing str8 men? if they like it let them do it? who are you tell me its a wronfg stereotype to chase a str8 guy. arent we fighting for equal rights and yet here we are judging people.

    let me tell you, you dont have the right to tell me whats a wrong stereotype and whats a right stereotype. Your way is not the right way.

    i do drink, party and have fun i am not a fucking PRUDDDDE and if you are then thats you live your life, but i still have a job and i am top of my class.

    i speak 5 diferent languages and i can relate to this video does that make me a negative steroetype...please

    the poor guy wasnt even doing coke drugs, barebacking amonsgt other vile things

    HATE IS HATE
    you sound VERY unaware and uneducated about issues going on in the lgbt community and how they may impact you at some point in your life. as far as i can tell with you, they have BUT you don't realize it yet but when you get older, you will. you are not as educated as you say you are otherwise you would have understood where i was coming from with what i said. i hope you're NOT one of those guys that suddenly care about these issues when you are directly impacted by them. i deal with LIFE, LIFE doesn't deal with me. maybe you can afford to not pay attention but as a black male, i can't afford to do that. so yeah, it's in my nature to pay attention to things since that's how i survive day to day in society. so yeah, when i see videos like this, i simply don't look @ it like how you do where you see it as some innocent fantasy so don't make me feel all bad for being REAL. I DON'T HAVE A CHOICE IN TERMS OF BEING REAL OR BEING FAKE. I CAN'T AFFORD TO BE FAKE. you sound like one of those people that live under a rock until one day, that rock is kicked away from you and you end up getting exposed to what's REALLY going on.

    you can dismiss what others are saying BUT the reality is that the problems won't GO away until folks acknowledge them and not waltz around them as if they don't exist such as yourself.
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    Cannot agree more. Why cant gay bi have just fun...

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    you sound VERY unaware and uneducated about issues going on in the lgbt community and how they may impact you at some point in your life. as far as i can tell with you, they have BUT you don't realize it yet but when you get older, you will. you are not as educated as you say you are otherwise you would have understood where i was coming from with what i said. i hope you're NOT one of those guys that suddenly care about these issues when you are directly impacted by them. i deal with LIFE, LIFE doesn't deal with me. maybe you can afford to not pay attention but as a black male, i can't afford to do that. so yeah, it's in my nature to pay attention to things since that's how i survive day to day in society. so yeah, when i see videos like this, i simply don't look @ it like how you do where you see it as some innocent fantasy so don't make me feel all bad for being REAL. I DON'T HAVE A CHOICE IN TERMS OF BEING REAL OR BEING FAKE. I CAN'T AFFORD TO BE FAKE. you sound like one of those people that live under a rock until one day, that rock is kicked away from you and you end up getting exposed to what's REALLY going on.

    you can dismiss what others are saying BUT the reality is that the problems won't GO away until folks acknowledge them and not waltz around them as if they don't exist such as yourself.


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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    you sound VERY unaware and uneducated about issues going on in the lgbt community and how they may impact you at some point in your life. as far as i can tell with you, they have BUT you don't realize it yet but when you get older, you will. you are not as educated as you say you are otherwise you would have understood where i was coming from with what i said. i hope you're NOT one of those guys that suddenly care about these issues when you are directly impacted by them. i deal with LIFE, LIFE doesn't deal with me. maybe you can afford to not pay attention but as a black male, i can't afford to do that. so yeah, it's in my nature to pay attention to things since that's how i survive day to day in society. so yeah, when i see videos like this, i simply don't look @ it like how you do where you see it as some innocent fantasy so don't make me feel all bad for being REAL. I DON'T HAVE A CHOICE IN TERMS OF BEING REAL OR BEING FAKE. I CAN'T AFFORD TO BE FAKE. you sound like one of those people that live under a rock until one day, that rock is kicked away from you and you end up getting exposed to what's REALLY going on.

    you can dismiss what others are saying BUT the reality is that the problems won't GO away until folks acknowledge them and not waltz around them as if they don't exist such as yourself.
    oh now i am not educated because i disagree with you. what does being black as to do with anything.

    Please stick to the points.

    stop putting your morality on the video. you see those things because you are blaming whats the infractures in your life and projecting it o the video.

    dude are kidding me, they were having a drinks by the campfire, he was having a drink with his buddy who just broke up with his girlfriend then you are are implying what creepy old gay men do stereotypically to drug men and take advantage of them. OMG that goes on inthe real world also, its a pity its magnified in society when a gay person does that which is SADD.

    get over it, i dont see that, it was an innocent video and you are turning it around to be failures which you have gone through in your life.

    Dont personally attack me and stick to the topic.

    acknowledge what exactly, steve brand video is what is killing the LGBT community..oh please.

    you have yet to answer me on what movies you like and what music you like, lets see if any of those people are such beautifula nd shinning examples to society.

    why dont we start putting disclaimers on videos we watch of youtube now.

    stop hating on the fine ass dude

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    Quote Originally Posted by suffice View Post
    Cannot agree more. Why cant gay bi have just fun...
    thank you

    i know right, you cannot even watch something and enjoy it for face value and some hateful person destroys and makes it about their cause.

    Then they want to bring in being black. i am mixed black white latino. what does that have to do with the video.

    the guy said would you be my all american boy. He never said i am the all american boy. geez

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    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    I agree with Refugi. We're not "hating" this little video, we're conscious that it's a highly-confected, story that displays some unhealthy behaviour that gay guys get up to obsessing over the unobtainable.
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    ^

    I don't understand what the point of the title "All American Boy" is.

    The song's lyrics say nothing; are 'gay boys' and 'all-American boys' mutually exclusive? I know that the two stars of the video are in the erotic-fantasy-modelling industry and Fratpad. And I know 'All American Boy' is an erotic-fantasy-modelling company which refuses to do gay stuff just like the hero in the story. But I don't understand the point of the title other than that Bruce Springsteen's advice that placing the words USA and American in a song title will double its sales.

    I have to say Belamo is a lot more admirable and obtainable than these gym-buffed hunks from the erotic-fantasy industry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RRUGER View Post
    ^ too bad

    he should have remained in the closet then come out

    i dont think the world is reaady yet unless the girls think they can convert him then he has a chance
    And this mentality is exactly what's wrong with us.

    God forbid someone try to build a career actually being out and honest from the get-go.

    More power to him. If that means he faces a bigger uphill battle to establish a career...then I would think he understands that. And for him to take that on is pretty damn amazing.

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    As much as I support the story and enjoyed the music video, there will never be an openly gay American country music star. Middle America is way too bigoted, and lets be honest, that's the crux of the country buying country music.

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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    Its country music and as a casual listener to today's country, the songs are filled to the rim with alcohol references, hell pot smoking is even making casual drops in the lyrics.

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    Quote Originally Posted by RRUGER View Post
    thank you

    i know right, you cannot even watch something and enjoy it for face value and some hateful person destroys and makes it about their cause.

    Then they want to bring in being black. i am mixed black white latino. what does that have to do with the video.

    the guy said would you be my all american boy. He never said i am the all american boy. geez
    I dont understand, why people have to bring race to this discussion? With implication that all American boy has to be white? what a racist!

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    As much as I support the story and enjoyed the music video, there will never be an openly gay American country music star. Middle America is way too bigoted, and lets be honest, that's the crux of the country buying country music.
    So he deserve to be destroyed by gay community?

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    Country singer Steve Grand is out and proud.






    He's over playing it safe.
    Singer Steve Grand has put his early music career on the line by not only revealing he is gay, but kissing a man in the viral video clip for his debut single, 'All-American Boy'.
    'I fought with who I was for most of my life,' the rising country music star wrote for The Center Orlando.
    'In every way a young person can fight with himself.
    'But starting today, I’m laying it out there. I’m done playing it safe.'

    In a move sure to divide conservative country music fans - and the congregations of churches at which he performs on Sundays - Grand sings about his unrequited love for a man in a heterosexual relationship.
    In the video clip, which has attracted more than 337,000 hits, Grand's character falls hard for another young man.

    They lock lips in a lake, but Grand doesn't snag the man in the end.
    'First original song and music video,' Grand wrote on Facebook.
    'Holding nothing back. Time to be brave. Time to free my spirit and live my American dream.'

    The Chicago resident said he is proud of his self-funded debut track, which he has released without the backing of a record label.
    'I feel like most music industry people wouldn’t like the idea of me “pigeonholing” myself by telling this story as I have,' the ab-tastic crooner wrote for The Center Orlando.
    'But I don’t believe the world sees change until it sees honesty. So I went in on my own. I went all in.
    'I’m nervous/excited/horrified/anxious about the effect that all of the choices I am making (and have made throughout my journey of discovering myself as a man and as an artist) will have on my future.
    'But then I remind myself that I never really had a choice.
    'This is the story I’ve been aching to tell my most of my life… the universal story of longing to be loved…it is what I hold dearest to me.'

    The buff singer wrote the heartbreaking song during a drunken piano jam session at a party, the vocals in the basement of his supportive parents’ house and worked with a friend to mix the instruments.
    It will be interesting to see how the inherently conservative country music industry responds to this brave young star's admission.
    The Dixie Chicks are still trying to bounce back from a decade-long black balling after Natalie Maines declared in front of a crowd:
    'Just so you know, we’re on the good side with y’all. We do not want this war, this violence, and we’re ashamed that the President of the United States is from Texas.'
    Pretty boy with a good voice, sexy
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    Re: Country singer Steve Grand is out and proud.

    First, I applaud the stance he is taking. It is one thing to come out to your family and friends. It is another to come out to an industry and put your career on the line too.



    Next, this guy is gorgeous! Looks great, has a fabulous body, a nice ass (which he shows as he jumps into the lake) and he can sing county music! WOW! The perfect man does exist!

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    Homophobia kills!

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    Re: Country singer Steve Grand is out and proud.

    The song is quite acceptable and the message conveyed in the video extremely positive.

    It certainly gives a good impression of being gay and not having the freedom of choice that heteros have in choosing "friends".

    But of course he is young, muscular and goodlooking; now will the image he gives help those who don't have those advantages?

    I am pleased to have watched as it seems quite a big stride in the right direction.
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    Re: Country singer Steve Grand is out and proud.

    Love it, love it, love it!
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    Re: Country singer Steve Grand is out and proud.

    That story in the video could fit my life, or probly every gay guy crushing on his best friend. Too bad he didn't get the guy in the end. Cool song and video. hes a cutie.

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    Re: Country singer Steve Grand is out and proud.

    Good for him! I hope he sets a positive precedence...
    You're just ugly enough to be wise.

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    Re: Country singer Steve Grand is out and proud.

    ive been into country music for a while now. im definitely gonna give his album a spin when it comes out.

    speaking of queer country, lets remember: k.d. lang!


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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    A friend shared that with me on YouTube. It's really good, and I hope he makes it big! It might make straight people feel uncomfortable, but it's about time that non-stereotypical gay music like this becomes more mainstream.
    The song speaks especially to us; falling in love with someone we can never have. Yes it's a sad song, but it's realistic, and it's a situation we all went through, time and time again.

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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    Quote Originally Posted by suffice View Post
    .Education does not buy you happiness.
    I'd be rather be unhappily aware than an a happy fool.

    "The unexamined life is not worth living."

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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    Well, he's hot. Don't see him launching above his own two feet though in country music.
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    Re: Steve Grand - All American Boy

    Great song. Great looks. Great Video!!! Very brave young man. I'll buy it just because. No stereotypes in that video that can't be found in ANY young gathering.
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