So I finally came out to my mother indirectly yesterday and she told my father today. Shit hit the fan today basically and he's very upset. I didn't see him today but i feel the tension in the air. I didn't even want to come out to him until after med school. He is very closed minded but so far I don't think I will be thrown out of the house. My mom knows that my good friend is actually my boyfriend so at least we don't have to live a lie. I'm scared though about my future.