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    Please help

    I've been with this guy for two yrs. we were both married and he has two kids. I got divorced but he is still technically married. We have lived together for two yrs. when we first got together things were great. I knew that we loved each other. About a yr ago he stopped saying he loves me. He does not kiss me anymore. Anytime we get intimate, I have to initate. When I ask him about it, he just says I'm overreact ing He will not talk to me. I want to leave him but I am totally in love. I don't know what to do. Please help

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    Re: Please help

    Hi, Hillboi.

    How did you manage to join four years ago but never post?

    Your predicament has no easy answer.

    If you think he doesn't love you, and he's unwilling to discuss it, what is there to hold onto? Will he consider counseling with both of you going?

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    Re: Please help

    should be pretty obvious hes trying to cope with something and hasnt told you about it.
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    One year is enough time to realize something that seemed great was just that, but has otherwise ran its course. And you've held on for another year. Be good to yourself and don't play the martyr.

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    I suggest that you stop initiating sex, and see how long it takes for him to get horny enough to initiate or to ask you what is going on. It should give you a good idea how he really feels and where you stand.

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    Re: Please help

    Dump his ass.

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    Doesn't sound like he wants to be in this relationship. Also, technically married? And you're ok with that?
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    You'll need to stop playing his game if you want things to change. Don't let him intimidate you into shutting up about the relationship problems as you see them. Do keep in mind that any ultimatums that you make have to be carried out, otherwise you lose all credibility.
    "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."--Dr. Seuss

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    Re: Please help

    dont use "i am totally in love" as an excuse for letting yourself be mistreated, or stupid behaviour in general. im sorry about your situation and i dont mean to be unkind, but if you act like a doormat because youre "totally in love", you have nobody to blame but yourself.

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