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    On my own again.

    Today is the first day where I have been completely on my own at the villa where I work.

    Everyone has left on holiday leaving me behind for the month to deal with the maintenance and upkeep.

    So I have a month where I will have absolutely no one to talk to.


    Could you cope with that situation?

    I wondered how many of you have no one to talk to on a regular basis.
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    Re: On my own again.

    I had weeks at work where the only person I'd talk to was the one who handed me my fast food on the way home.

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    Re: On my own again.

    On my own...

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    Re: On my own again.

    I am pretty independent and a loner by nature. At work I'm often on my own. Being in a relationship has sometimes been rough on me adjusting to always having someone around, and having to compromise on EVERYTHING. Not that I am complaining (too much) but there are times when I hear of people in your situation and think that must be close to heaven, and I am a little envious.

    Enjoy the time to yourself while you have it to reflect on life, rediscover who you are, and what YOU like in life, being a little selfish and not why you're there for someone else. I think it's healthy to remember who you are, and not get lost on who you are to other people.
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    Re: On my own again.

    I enjoy being alone. I work from home and my partner is gone most of the day, however I have a cat, two dogs, three chickens and two ducks, so never really alone. I do find myself talking to my pets.

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    Re: On my own again.

    You can now roam the villa in your undies or stark naked.


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    Re: On my own again.

    David, do you socialize with your neighbors or go into the village/town?

    Are you only talking about the house?

    I've lived alone most of my adult life, but I have had roomies at times.

    Just had two Couchsurfers through for a couple of days, but they are better left for discussions in the (no) manners thread.

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    Re: On my own again.

    I think it's ok to be alone once in a while. I have gotten used to going practice alone and slowly got used to living alone. Of course I didn't mind company. My car was sent to the garage for repairs 2 months ago so I went back for almost two months. Other than my family members I didn't meet anyone from college. Gave me some time to think about things.

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    Re: On my own again.

    Go into Nice for a bit of fun. Does the bus stop near you? I seem to remember when I visited there were buses all over. Go down to the nude beach for a perve?

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    Re: On my own again.

    I'm a very social person. Spending a long time alone is difficult for me. I hope you can cope though. If you keep yourself busy it should be a little easier. Using the internet to chat to people (like you're doing here) can be a huge help.

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    Are you going to be hauling trade in now the coast is clear ?
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    Re: On my own again.

    A month alone sounds like a dream to me, but I'm not sure in the place where I normally work/live. I would prefer to go somewhere else, specifically to be on my own. Otherwise, I might feel some of the loneliness you anticipate.

    Nonetheless, being on your own gives you opportunities to look inside that aren't as available in the day to day jibber jabber. Maybe you could get into the spirit of things by watching a movie like Into Great Silence or reading about Milarepa.

    “Why is it that we rejoice at a birth and grieve at a funeral? It is because we are not the person involved.” ~ Mark Twain

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    This song immediately came to my mind.

    If you could just put a light bulb over every gay person’s head, people would see just how well-lit their streets and cities are.
    -Alexey Odintsov

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    Re: On my own again.

    David, the one thing I learned in my post-Dave life was that I cherished my solitude.

    I love being around people, but I also love my alone time.


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    Re: On my own again.

    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    Are you going to be hauling trade in now the coast is clear ?
    In my younger days I would have been out cruising the first night searching for some bed company.
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    Re: On my own again.

    For those kind members who have showed concern over my month alone please don't think I am a prisoner here unable to venture out into the wide world.

    I like my solitude but will take advantage of having more free time to take myself out and about.

    I was just wondering if others had experienced long moments of being on their own and whether people thought they could cope.
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    Re: On my own again.

    Working with the public on a daily basis, I find I relish opportunities for solitude. A month alone in a villa outside Nice sounds like paradise to me!

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    Re: On my own again.

    Quote Originally Posted by dpnice View Post

    I was just wondering if others had experienced long moments of being on their own and whether people thought they could cope.
    Our periods of solitude enable us to look within, and contemplate our place in the sun beyond the apparent predictability of our every day matters, our trials, and tribulations often wearing us down.

    Moments of philosophical reasoning trying to fit the pieces together is not a matter for the aged person, only but for all who understand that we are on a voyage of self discovery ....and then, we die.

    I would recommend reading, or re-reading Homer's, The Odyssey for I have learnt that our moments of silent reflection invigorate, and reinforce my determination to keep enjoying life's invitation to celebrate life....yes, I'm the eternal optimist.

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    Re: On my own again.

    Quote Originally Posted by dpnice View Post
    For those kind members who have showed concern over my month alone please don't think I am a prisoner here unable to venture out into the wide world.

    I like my solitude but will take advantage of having more free time to take myself out and about.

    I was just wondering if others had experienced long moments of being on their own and whether people thought they could cope.
    There really are both positives and negatives to the situation. So, I think you ought to try to find the ways in which it isn't only an exercise in coping, but also an exercise in thoughtfulness.

    No one doubts that degrees of social isolation have a profound impact on us humans. In prison, solitary confinement can have dramatically negative consequences for the detained. An anchorite might choose the exact same circumstances as such a prisoner, and be transformed.

    You're a good guy. Check in with us, and take heart. Good things may come of this.
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    Re: On my own again.

    Assuming I knew my honey was coming back...I would LOVE IT! I have an involuntary pied piper thing where I always have people around me....I don't do it on purpose...it just happens....I often fantasize about being alone. I love solitude.

    I hope you make the best of it!

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    Re: On my own again.

    I don't know if I could do a whole month without seeing or talking to anyone. I can handle having no one in the house with me but seeing people outside as I go to the store to get groceries or my daily paper. Being totally alone in my home I am totally fine with.

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    Re: On my own again.

    When you're accustomed to being surrounded by people and interacting with them, it can be difficult to adjust when you suddenly find yourself all alone. Adapting is relatively easy for me though, because even when I'm in a large group of people I spend most of the time in my head anyway.

    There might be an initial period where you don't really know what to do, but as you start to acclimatize yourself to being alone more than usual, I think you'll really enjoy it. They say boredom is the product of a lazy mind, but I think you're far too thoughtful to fall victim. Enjoy yourself!


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    Re: On my own again.

    Quote Originally Posted by dpnice View Post
    I wondered how many of you have no one to talk to on a regular basis.
    I love it (I'm a hyperintrovert), but at the same time, being stuck at home on medical leave and living alone has almost driven me stir crazy. Kik instant messenger has helped, but only to an extent. Even for a hyperintrovert, the loneliness kills my spirit sometimes.

    I'm ready to go back to work!


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    Re: On my own again.



    Someone is bound to post this sooner or later

    Back to topic, I am quite a reserved person, so I can spend days until weeks without interacting with others. Sometimes I enjoy the solitude/silence, sometimes I don't.

    I'm quite sure though there MUST be someone left behind besides you. Oh well, you have JUB should you feel lonely
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    Re: On my own again.

    I'm quite happy living by myself, but during the summer when I'm not working a regular schedule, I do need to get out of the house and have human contact at least every two or three days. Otherwise I get antsy.
    Recently I heard a 'wise guy' story that I had a party at my home for twenty-five men. It's an interesting story, but I don't know twenty-five men I'd want to invite to a party. ~Joan Crawford

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    Re: On my own again.

    It depends on what things to fill in my time. I might have a project I've been wanting to do and my time will be whittled away doing that.

    The thing with living by oneself is food - you either end up batch cooking for one and freeze stuff only to reheat it later, or go out to eat. The latter for someone on a budget is perhaps as a treat, and nothing you can sustain on a frequent basis as was the case when I was single, a student, and living away from home. Occasionally, even flatmates had to go home, leaving one with housesitting duties and you bask for a while in having the place to yourself. Pretty soon, you miss them and leave to go and fill in the time elsewhere...


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