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    Kissing is gross?

    So I met this guy last week and we have been hanging out. We've had sex a couple of times, but he absolutely hates kissing. How abnormal this is?
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    I know kids can sometimes be grossed out by kissing, but I've never come across another adult who hates kissing. The thought of him exchanging saliva with another human being may gross him out, and I don't think there's anything necessarily wrong with that, but if that's something that's important to you, it may be a deal-breaker between you two.
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Well it's not really a deal-breaker, but it caught me off guard. I have a feeling that if things get serious between us he may become more comfortable and finally get into kissing. We shall see!
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    If he doesn't change his mind about it, dump him.
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Kind of my thought process, Bendy. I'm willing to give it a chance because we get along great and he's really cute.
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Has he told you why he doesn't like kissing?
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Tell him that both of you will use this before making out...


    I wouldn't kiss anyone with bad breadth.
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    He didn't say why he's against kissing, except for it's "just gross."
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Is he gay?

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    He says he is. It's possible he's bi...
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Hopefully you can help him understand that kissing is magical & very entertaining

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yuki Sohma View Post
    Hopefully you can help him understand that kissing is magical & very entertaining
    That's the plan and the hope
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    If he thinks kissing is gross , what is his opinion on oral and anal ?
    Sounds like you might have an uphill struggle here .

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Hopefully you could help him realize kissing is great. As they say it's in his kiss

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    I fear that he's a hopeless case. I'll give it some time but I'm not holding out much hope.
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    was thinking almost everyone would kiss but no one would lick up the same amount and type of saliva later , separately . Humans are so weird .

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    I think that a lot of it may have to do with the person's prior experiences. I have had someone come at me with their mouth open like they were going to eat my face. Then there are others who start with closed lips. Some people automatically think that kissing means playing tonsil hockey or tongue wrestling. Talk with the person, and see if he has a reason that he is willing to talk about. I know one guy who doesn't like to kiss other guys with an open mouth, because he has gotten a sore throat from one partner doing that, so he is concerned about catching something.

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    I know a lot a guys that wont kiss, straight and gay.. I don't think its abnormal to not like kissing. not a big deal.

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    I've known a few marines (I was in the military) that would be all over my dick but refused to kiss. They claimed kissing is gay.

    Really? You can suck my dick, but not kiss???

    The first time I kissed a guy was kinda weird, but I liked it. Lets have hope for your guy.

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    i came across a guy online once who wanted to meet for a sexdate. he was quite attractive, but then he said he didnt really like kissing, and we ended up not meeting. i got the impression he had issues with intimacy. i think for some kissing is more intimate than fucking.

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    ^Apparently so and we have so few examples in life of seeing men kiss outside of porn.
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    I couldn't live without kissing but here's an interesting medical fact that is often dismissed by most people....
    The most bacteria-laden organ of the human body is the human mouth. That's a medical fact. Just sayin....

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    more so than the anus?

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    considering how exposed the mouth is to everything and the amount of food (and other things ) we put into it, i'm not surprised that it has the most bacteria

    i think these days kissing and cuddling is considered more intimate than sex but that's just me. maybe he didn't want to get intimite/attached and just wanted to fuck around.

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Only bi and straight men will not kiss, looks like your friend is one of them.

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Quote Originally Posted by Maestoso View Post
    Only bi and straight men will not kiss, looks like your friend is one of them.
    I'd tend to agree with you, but I'd think that there has to be at least one gay guy who doesn't like kissing. Who knows, it doesn't look like there's much of a future with this guy anyways. Oh well...
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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Quote Originally Posted by Orlandude View Post
    I couldn't live without kissing but here's an interesting medical fact that is often dismissed by most people....
    The most bacteria-laden organ of the human body is the human mouth. That's a medical fact. Just sayin....
    Soz mate .
    The mouth is not an organ , your tongue is , the most bacteria-ridden organ of the body is your Skin , which is also the largest organ you have .
    Thats a fact , just saying .

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    Ok you guys calm down we have billions of bacteria all over our skin, and there is a shit ton in our mouth but most of the bacteria isn't necessarily bad people. And I'm pretty sure that most of you guys have done much nastier stuff than kissing, I know I have.

    This is definitely a deal breaker, I'd probably just forget about him and move on

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    Re: Kissing is gross?

    For me kissing is the ultimate act to let someone know that I want more than just sex. If the kiss doesn't work, it's a total deal breaker.

    My previous lover was grossed out by kissing too. The funny thing is, after I "taught" him how to kiss, he turned out to be a good kisser, and was very passionate about it. But yes, you need the trust from the other person to really "convince" them, so unless you really like guy, I don't see how you can invest so much on making him kiss you.

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