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    Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    Soo, I just wanted to bring something up that has been frustrating me lately and that is the lack of classy men with good values who are happy with who they are, in the dating scene. I'm 22 now, and I've tried different avenues when dating, like meeting guys online, going out to bars, through friends, and local gay social events.

    I'm looking for a guy who is clean, normal, respectable. Someone I can be proud to take home to my parents. That means no tattoos, no piercings, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, doesn't use foul language, and takes care of his body. You don't have to be a pro bodybuilder, but hitting the gym a few times a week and eating healthy foods is what everyone should be doing anyway. I'd think more gay guys would be into that.

    I myself possess all of the qualities I have just mentioned, and have to believe someone else out there does as well, but right now I'm feeling super alone and hopeless. So what do you guys think?

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    I knew a guy who was all of those things you mentioned once...he was the part time doorman at the club I worked at. The rest of us all had flaws you would find unacceptable though. He turned out to be a mass murderer. Yep...Mr Perfect killed a bunch of folks (everyone thought he was perfect except for me...I thought he was a creep)

    The moral of the story...be careful what you ask for.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    A word of advice which you will probably ignore anyway : don't have so high expectations. If you wait to meet your perfect Prince Charming, you risk waiting all your live.

    Meet people and try and discover what make them special. You may be surprised to like people who don't meet all your criteria at first glance.
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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    Someone has unrealistic expectations for dating which is why you're single. Yeah it's good to have some standards [I wouldn't date a smoker either] but they have to be realistic.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    Quote Originally Posted by eastofeden View Post
    I knew a guy who was all of those things you mentioned once...he was the part time doorman at the club I worked at. The rest of us all had flaws you would find unacceptable though. He turned out to be a mass murderer. Yep...Mr Perfect killed a bunch of folks (everyone thought he was perfect except for me...I thought he was a creep)
    Wow. Is that a true story, or did you just make that up?

    The OP wants "classy men with good values who are happy with who they are." Would such a guy murder people?

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    Quote Originally Posted by 80KGold View Post
    Wow. Is that a true story, or did you just make that up?

    The OP wants "classy men with good values who are happy with who they are." Would such a guy murder people?
    Quite True. ...and he was all of those things the OP mentioned.

    My point....if all you want are superficial qualities then you might end up with a psychopath.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    Well if what you're saying is true then maybe I will be single all my life. How can I help what it is that attracts me to a guy? I understand you say I may need to lower my expectations, but that's just depressing. Has the world gone to such crap that there are no other guys out there like me?

    I can't make exceptions. When I see a tattoo or a piercing of any kind, my dick goes down. It disgusts me. When I smell smoker's breath, I want to vomit. In order for me to share a life with someone, I need them to be at least semi-active. I don't want a lazy ass boyfriend who sits around all day eating big macs.

    Okay I guess if he drinks...maybe I could accept that, I mean, yeah lots of gay guys drink. But don't be an alcoholic. I myself don't see the appeal in getting drunk, so I always order water or virgin drinks at clubs, but if you drink, whatevs but you wouldn't believe how many guys can NOT handle their liquor. And that is crazy unattractive.

    And as for the foul language, I mean, geez I'm young! And I can speak proper English without swearing after every other word, so why can't the rest of the population? It's just "Fuck I met this fuckin guy who was a fuckin douche and I fuckin thought we fuckin had something and then he just fuckin left me for some other fuckin twink." Gutter. Mouths. Everywhere. Cursing once in awhile may be tolerable, but...it still kinda offends me. Sorta. :/

    *Sigh*

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    with that laundry list of things you are looking for, you probably better start preparing for a single life.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    There's having a standard, and then there is slapping anything away that you consider to be imperfect.

    It seems that you're searching for a statue - the man that has it all. I'm actually shocked that you didn't say he needs a career, not a job, needs to be making X amount of money, goes to church on Sunday, can share the household chores, wants a child one day, is out, does charity... it's all so clinical and cold.

    Lighten up a little bit. The world isn't going to hell in a hand basket because someone drinks with friends or has a couple of tattoos. Not to say you can't be... well, you... but you're in Las Vegas. Have some fun in your life.
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    Have you considered cloning?

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    You have a weird understanding of what "classy" means. But don't tell me there isn't a single gay guy who doesn't meet your physical requirements. Maybe you should attend Brigham Young University an activate your Grindr in work out gym there? I'm sure you will find a nice Mormon who looks 1950s classy in khakis and hand woven cardigans who doesn't smoke or have tats and eats organic only.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    I think your major problem is using the word "normal" and classifying yourself a such. The other thing...when anyone came to me and told me what the problem was with "men" (almost every night for 20 years)...I figured out early on that the problem was almost never with the other men. Just sayin' ...

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    I feel in love with a guy at first sight. Even though he turned out to be much like what you describe, I didn't know that at the time and didn't care. I was a teenager and in love. He had his faults and so do I but it doesn't affect the love you have for someone. Now, I am not talking about murderers and crazies. I'm talking about little things that make us all different. I think your best bet is to fall in love right off the bat and you'll find you can accept in a man alot of what you thought you could not. I've tried to understand this notion of falling in love with someone the moment you set eyes on them. I know most people would say it isn't possible. All I know is that the feeling that went through me the moment I saw him remained there for 35yrs. It also did for him. All I know is, it happened to me and is possibly the most amazing thing that has happened to me in my entire life. In fact, that moment was so intense I could not speak or even move for a few minutes, I just stood there and stared at him.I vowed to make him mine right there and then and I did, thank god.

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    ^Thanks ibill, that's the kind of romantic moment I would love to have myself, and I'm glad you were able to experience it. I am a sucker for romance, true love, fairy tale happy endings come to life, etc.

    And from what the majority of you are saying, perhaps I do need to do some soul searching of my own, if I want to be able to find Mr. Right, instead of Mr. Right Now.

    That's why I wanted to get some fresh opinions. Maybe it is me, maybe I do have a ghost of a man in my head that may not even be real. I guess I just won't give up, and I'll keep looking, and try to keep my mind more open.

    Thanks guys

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    Quote Originally Posted by eastofeden View Post
    Quite True. ...and he was all of those things the OP mentioned.

    My point....if all you want are superficial qualities then you might end up with a psychopath.
    I got what you meant, man.

    However, I doubt that a good guy would be, simultaneously, a serial killer and a classy man with good values who is happy with his identity.

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    Quote Originally Posted by 80KGold View Post
    I got what you meant, man.

    However, I doubt that a good guy would be, simultaneously, a serial killer and a classy man with good values who is happy with his identity.
    Well...I used an extreme example to make a point...

    I think what constitutes a "good guy" for me is quite different than the OP. None of those qualities either together or alone suggest a man of substance for me. I much prefer to know who the man is....not what he appears to be. That is where I spend my time.

    I have had a fairly successful love life and have been with my soul mate for 27 very happy years now so I know a thing or two about quality men...and it goes so much deeper than anything the OP mentioned ...for me anyway. BTW...if we throw out the words "normal and respectable" as I find those words completely subjective.... my lover met all but one of those qualities...though none of those qualities were important to me.

    I think is is wise for the OP to rethink his search....

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    How bout?...

    Are there any "fun" guys left for me to date?


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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    OP lives in Vegas. Nuff said.
    Your post comments are forwarded to the CIA.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    In Las Vegas? Haha!....You're a basically a smoker if you've spent any significant time in any bar, casino, or club out here. But I don't get how you were planning to find a guy who doesn't drink at a bar?

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    How old are you?


    Quote Originally Posted by The Fly View Post
    Have you considered cloning?

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    It's nice to have 'standards'. But it should not be limiting you. Don't wait for the man that ticks all the boxes. He doesn't exist.

    What my limited experience has taught me is also this : when you think you're searching for someone, a perfect someone, in reality you may not be really searching. It's easier to think you're out to find love and a magnificent one, when in fact you're not ready and are very afraid to fall in love and be out of your comfort zone.
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    This thread...


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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    Quote Originally Posted by 80KGold View Post
    Wow. Is that a true story, or did you just make that up?

    The OP wants "classy men with good values who are happy with who they are." Would such a guy murder people?
    Think Ted Bundy, The Green River Killer , ect .

    Alas i do not qualify as a classy guy because i have my dick pierced and i also have some GREAT art work inked on me .
    You know what ?--------------None of that mattered when i received my 1st Degree or the MB Chp that i worked my bollocks off to achieve .

    The fact that i have stunning Hazel/green eyes a dick just over 9 inches , i throw myself out of planes as all my mates on here can verify .
    And just under the 6 ft mark , i may not be "classy" but , i sure am sizzling.................

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    eh, you dont sound like someone whos very easy to get along with, youre probably happier alone.

    the good news is, youre still pretty young and presumably inexperienced. you still have plenty of time for getting off your high horse.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    You're a 22 year old, non-drinking male in Las Vegas, who is looking for a serious, long-term relationship... based on the numbers, I would say you're the exact opposite of "normal". Don't fret! You're just ahead of your time. Most of your peers will catch up in about 4-5 years (I said, "most").

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    It's not just about finding the right guy, it's about being the right guy. There is nothing wrong with having an ideal and I don't think you are asking too much, but when your standards are carved in stone, you get a rep as being too rigid and not allowing for the humanity of others. Some things we look for in others are non-negotiable, like fidelity, but other things should not stop us from opening up to another person, such as a guy who likes to have a beer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcrawford18 View Post
    Soo, I just wanted to bring something up that has been frustrating me lately and that is the lack of classy men with good values who are happy with who they are, in the dating scene. I'm 22 now, and I've tried different avenues when dating, like meeting guys online, going out to bars, through friends, and local gay social events.

    I'm looking for a guy who is clean, normal, respectable. Someone I can be proud to take home to my parents. That means no tattoos, no piercings, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, doesn't use foul language, and takes care of his body. You don't have to be a pro bodybuilder, but hitting the gym a few times a week and eating healthy foods is what everyone should be doing anyway. I'd think more gay guys would be into that.

    I myself possess all of the qualities I have just mentioned, and have to believe someone else out there does as well, but right now I'm feeling super alone and hopeless. So what do you guys think?
    They are definitely out there.

    Maybe you'd find the guy of your dreams at the gym? Or in a running club? Or even a volunteer organization.

    But make sure you cut some guys a little slack. You could throw away a diamond because you think it is just glass.

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    `

    They/We are out here/there....
    but, the pricks get far more play since they have less scruples....
    and thus are the majority of the examples everyone sees.

    We have been looking for normal people for many years now and have yet to find one anywhere close to us.


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    ^That's because the very idea of normality is a sickness.

    Thank hell people are starting to erradicate it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MoufOfKhaos View Post
    ^That's because the very idea of normality is a sickness.

    Thank hell people are starting to erradicate it.
    ^This right here.

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    Oops sorry guys, I hadn't updated my profile before, so I guess I should just explain that I moved away from Vegas. Because, whoa yeah the guys there definitely all had issues. Now I'm in Ohio, much better. But still difficult to find men of my taste. Still not giving up though

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    In today's society it's definitely difficult to find someone with each of those qualities, but they definitely exist. Heck, I'm 19 and I have those qualities so at least there is one person in the world that it's like you too.

    I don't advice you to settle, but neither demand too much. Once love finds you, it will come in any package so you have to be ready to recognize it and go with the flow. Cheer up, you are just 22 so there will be A LOT of time for you to find your perfect match.
    He sounds to me, he sounds like sex on the radio.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    Quote Originally Posted by tcrawford18 View Post
    Oops sorry guys, I hadn't updated my profile before, so I guess I should just explain that I moved away from Vegas. Because, whoa yeah the guys there definitely all had issues. Now I'm in Ohio, much better. But still difficult to find men of my taste. Still not giving up though
    Seems like you got a bit of advice and a lot of disgruntled "I don't fit the mold" guys. No matter. DON'T settle!!

    Here is the thing, plenty of guys exist that are just what you are looking for but you cannot find them in the normal gay hookup methods. Let's face it the bar or grndr are for finding fuck buddies and sometimes it becomes more but that is very unlikely. Something like POF, A4A and GuySpy are equally filled with one timers but sometimes there are romantics on those places.

    So if apps and clubs aren't turning the trick (no pun intended) then maybe you ought to get involved in something you think your perfect mate would be involved in around town. Working on the AIDS project, volunteering for habitat for humanity, volunteering at the VA hospital, and so on. I don't know you well enough to know what you give value to, but you do and you can figure it out.

    Don't settle! I said it again because it is true. If you start out a relationship with the concept that a person has a giant metaphorical wart on their nose then you will never un-see it. You are 22 and want real relationship. Likely that means you will be waiting until you are older because most 22 year olds simply wanna get their rocks off. While you wait you will find some things you are looking for get more restrictive and some go away completely. But don't settle, because as soon as you do then the right guy, or what you think is the right guy will pop into your life.
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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    There's lots of guys like that, but you might need to compromise on one or two things. You're 22 as well, so you have a looong time to find the right guy, and there's lots of them out there.
    Of course, it's possible that you'll find a guy who completely fits your criteria, and for a guy like you, it won't be too difficult... but if you compromise, you have a much greater chance of finding someone, and who knows? You might find someone who's absolutely perfect, that you would have passed up due to your high standards.

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    “We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly”.

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    Much luck with all that
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    I think there are loads of guys like that out there. I met a few of them. Pity they were straight though. But point is, I don't doubt they exist. I believe that there are people like that out there for you, you just have to find them in the right places.

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    I am pretty sure they are out there, just don't give up trying My coach got a year plus skating offer back in Ohio and she told me the people there are pretty great so it probably shouldn't be too much of a problem.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    Thanks to all of you who told me not to "settle." Yeah that word doesn't even sit right with me. Definitely don't want to do that. But a lot of you have good points too, I'm still young and have lots of time to look for a guy that can make me happy on all counts.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    Just wait. Once you fall in love with someone, you'll fall regardless of what flaws they may have.

    And love usually finds you when you're not looking for it. So I suggest just go with the flow, live life while you're still young and the right guy will come along

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    Quote Originally Posted by tcrawford18 View Post
    Soo, I just wanted to bring something up that has been frustrating me lately and that is the lack of classy men with good values who are happy with who they are, in the dating scene. I'm 22 now, and I've tried different avenues when dating, like meeting guys online, going out to bars, through friends, and local gay social events.

    I'm looking for a guy who is clean, normal, respectable. Someone I can be proud to take home to my parents. That means no tattoos, no piercings, doesn't smoke, doesn't drink, doesn't use foul language, and takes care of his body. You don't have to be a pro bodybuilder, but hitting the gym a few times a week and eating healthy foods is what everyone should be doing anyway. I'd think more gay guys would be into that.

    I myself possess all of the qualities I have just mentioned, and have to believe someone else out there does as well, but right now I'm feeling super alone and hopeless. So what do you guys think?
    T,

    First off, from your profile pic - you are incredibly sexy (picturing T blushing). Seriously! As for what your question is/was, my answer is yes.

    I think you have found what I have found, that probably 90% of those good guys that you described above, have already found their "one". I can't recall if my age shows on my profile or not, but I have a good 15 years on you. With that said, I didn't start dating guys till I was 31....so a few years now.

    For various reasons, I have been single (mainly by choice) for a few years as I wasn't that interested in the drama, and the promiscuity which seem to be trademarks of the majority of interactions I had with other gay/bi guys.

    First of all my friend, do not get discouraged. Your post made me smile (not just because you are cute - again if that "is" your pic by your name above ); I want all those things that you want. I've not always been the healthiest person in terms of diet, and people do change over time (in my case for the better).

    I do believe that the bars, and many on-line sites offer a "quick" matchup for someone. The majority of gay guys - from what I've seen - are just wanting a thrill for the night, and maybe by the simple fact that we are bi/gay, we don't seem to know what we want and can't be loyal.

    There are a few good sites out there I think, but you really have to weed through the ones you don't want. I hope I don't get flamed out for saying these things, but these are my opinions.

    T if we were closer, I would grab a coffee with you if you were interested - for what that is worth (though we do have the age diff to deal with).

    My suggestion would be to try and find things you are interested in. For me, I've started playing hockey, and taking better care of myself over the last year. I try to take interest in people - and besides the fact that I'm not out - I just try to keep my eyes open for potential "the one". I have been somewhat satisfied not being out there dating for a while, but I do miss being with someone, and I miss kissing.

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    i have no clue what i just walked in on... and i thought i was picky! lol

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    Re: Are there any classy guys left for me to date?

    To the OP,

    I don't drink, smoke,do drugs or curses. I don't own any tattoos or piercings. I don't bleach or dye my hair.

    And I consider myself a pretty nice, decent, clean cut guy. Many people think that I have a "harmless" image, I'm too shy and quiet and "boring".

    If only we are in the same country....oh well.....

    I think there are nice decent guys out there....but you just have to look harder to find them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcrawford18 View Post
    Thanks to all of you who told me not to "settle." Yeah that word doesn't even sit right with me. Definitely don't want to do that. But a lot of you have good points too, I'm still young and have lots of time to look for a guy that can make me happy on all counts.
    I think you were close when you lived in Vegas....maybe you should have gone to Utah instead. Alot of gay mormon guys have all of those qualities. Seriously...if you don't want to settle Utah might be a good option or you to consider.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tcrawford18 View Post
    Thanks to all of you who told me not to "settle." Yeah that word doesn't even sit right with me. Definitely don't want to do that. But a lot of you have good points too, I'm still young and have lots of time to look for a guy that can make me happy on all counts.
    ^This is a fantastic way to look at it..................

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