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    Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    **Everyone Has That 1 Question That They Keep Asking Themselves about Themselves, Basically the Question of “Why Do I Keep on or Why Do I Always,” Questions Like That**

    Example: My friends and I were talking about this Question last night, and one of my female friends said “She always find herself asking herself…Why do most if not all of my relationships only last for several months opposed to years?”


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    Why don't I have a bigger dick?

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    Why Am I so Attracted to Straight Guys, especially Straight Guys with Girlfriends?

    Why are Straight Guys or The Idea that a Guy is Straight so Appealing to Me?

    Why Am I so Attracted to Wild Cocky Party Boys (Straight Guys) who “Think with Their Dicks?”

    “I am super serious; the thought of having a secret affair with a straight guy who has s girlfriend is such a turn-on for me and something that I fantasize/ obsess about more than any normal person should”

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    will i ever be happy and confident with myself as a person where i won't let the littlest, pettiest things bother me?

    will i ever amount to anything?

    will i overcome my battle against depression and ocd?

    will i ever find the man of my dreams that likes me just as much as i like him?

    who will be my first hookup, boyfriend, date, guy that i have sex with, give me my first kiss and etc?

    will i stay in new jersey forever?

    what does my future look like?

    will i get married?

    will i be able to come out to other family, friends and etc and be able to live comfortably as an openly gay man?

    will i be miserable for the rest of my life?

    will this painful saga ever end?

    will i go to law school?

    will i be able to pay back my loans?

    will i finally get a decent job to live off of?

    will i be able to be independent where i can move out of my parent's house and basically live on my own?

    i do believe that over time i will get the answer to these questions.

    i DO know that i was able to answer one of those questions that have haunted me for the longest which was "am i gay, straight or bi?", "if i am gay or bi, will i ever accept it", "will i come out the closet?" "will i go to college, what will be my major and where will i go?" "will i ever get a job?" and blah blah blah. welp, i'm gay and i'm out to my family @ least.
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    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Quote Originally Posted by ilovejstrokesdonk View Post
    Why Am I so Attracted to Straight Guys, especially Straight Guys with Girlfriends?

    Why are Straight Guys or The Idea that a Guy is Straight so Appealing to Me?

    Why Am I so Attracted to Wild Cocky Party Boys (Straight Guys) who “Think with Their Dicks?”

    “I am super serious; the thought of having a secret affair with a straight guy who has s girlfriend is such a turn-on for me and something that I fantasize/ obsess about more than any normal person should”

    Quite the opposite-..I often pissed when I found a hot sizzling looking straight guys getting wank job because "I know they can do sooo much better!!"

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    "Do I really need a partner or am I a true spectating loner?"

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Where are my flaws?

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Why couldn't I have been a normal person. Why didn't I have a normal life. Why do I have a small penis, and a high sex drive...that one is just so unfair!

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    How does I CHANGE the WORLD for the BETTER???

    You know -- just LITTLE OLE ME...

    "Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it..." Goethe

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Quote Originally Posted by swerve View Post
    How does I CHANGE the WORLD for the BETTER???

    You know -- just LITTLE OLE ME...

    The world isn't going to change ofr the better. It will get much worse though. I know it's being getting worse for 52 years...

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Why have I been so fortunate? well, yes I am gay, but tbh I love being gay, even in the closet it's a good life I would not change and yes I have little dick, about 5 1/2 " man, I love it, hours of fun!
    ok, so I have no formal education, hell I am a "drop out" yep, only went through the 9th grade, yet I have made a good living in a variety of fields, real estate, numismatics to name a couple of things,
    life has been so good, got some nice cock in my youth, yummy!
    To be frank, once a therapist mentioned to me that I had a lot to cope with, he asked how I had managed to stay away from booze or drugs,
    my reply was that I felt fortunate, blessed, lucky, I have never been hungry, never been homeless, never been sold at auction, never been put in a box car and sent to my death,
    so yes, my question is, why me, why was I spared?

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    The question I ask myself most often, and have been asking it for several decades now, is: What would my life be like if everything I did didn't cause me pain?

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Quote Originally Posted by peeonme View Post
    Why have I been so fortunate? To be frank, once a therapist mentioned to me that I had a lot to cope with, he asked how I had managed to stay away from booze or drugs,my reply was that I felt fortunate, blessed, lucky, I have never been hungry, never been homeless, never beensold at auction, never been put in a box car and sent to my death, so yes, my question is, why me, why was I spared?
    I agree. I feel the same way on those points. However, I've never been happy, never been loved, never loved anyone, never had sex, and never really enjoyed life...so what's the point???

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Awwwww

    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    will i ever be happy and confident with myself as a person where i won't let the littlest, pettiest things bother me?

    will i ever amount to anything?

    will i overcome my battle against depression and ocd?

    will i ever find the man of my dreams that likes me just as much as i like him?

    who will be my first hookup, boyfriend, date, guy that i have sex with, give me my first kiss and etc?

    will i stay in new jersey forever?

    what does my future look like?

    will i get married?

    will i be able to come out to other family, friends and etc and be able to live comfortably as an openly gay man?

    will i be miserable for the rest of my life?

    will this painful saga ever end?

    will i go to law school?

    will i be able to pay back my loans?

    will i finally get a decent job to live off of?

    will i be able to be independent where i can move out of my parent's house and basically live on my own?

    i do believe that over time i will get the answer to these questions.

    i DO know that i was able to answer one of those questions that have haunted me for the longest which was "am i gay, straight or bi?", "if i am gay or bi, will i ever accept it", "will i come out the closet?" "will i go to college, what will be my major and where will i go?" "will i ever get a job?" and blah blah blah. welp, i'm gay and i'm out to my family @ least.

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    Is there intelligent life on other planets??? (Microbes don't count)
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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Quote Originally Posted by birddog7 View Post
    I've never been happy, never been loved, never loved anyone, never had sex, and never really enjoyed life..…
    I get the feeling you're in a bit of a rut. Can you take a holiday in another city? My friends tell me I become a new person when we go on holidays.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gsdx View Post
    The question I ask myself most often, and have been asking it for several decades now, is: What would my life be like if everything I did didn't cause me pain?
    For reals?

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    Every day for a number of years now i ask myself "Why" or "Is that it" .

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    What's the purpose of my existence in this world?

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    If I am being honest ...

    My number one question since 1986 has been WHAT THE FUCK were those three large angular black lion cat things that walked slowly in front of my car....like a parade. I have cussed the Universe out for that one so many times because I watched them for a good 10 minutes and soaked in every detail and I don't know what the fuck they were to this day.

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    Not one. I just do it. Philosophical questions should generate answers that lead us to actions..celebrating life.

    Be prudent, always but never procrastinate for time is fast ebbing...and time lost is never replenished.

    Living is a high risk adventure then we die. Celebrate life knowing that today we live and tomorrow...tomorrow we may not reach.

    Thinking should lead to doing..and in doing...do more living...for our today, may not reach tomorrow.

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    Why do Americans vote against their own self interests.....essentially....how can Americans be so dumb?
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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Great thread.



    1.) What's my purpose in this world? (Most asked by FAR)


    2.) Is it possible for me to be happy? (I've come up with "no" as my answer here)


    3.) Why is my penis so much smaller than everyone else? Why do other men have so much (physically) that I don't? Why did God give me such fucked up genetics?

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    I like this thread too, it has me thinking. My first idea was to be a smartass and say....where the fuck is my wallet? But I see the guys taking this seriously. So that got me thinking even more. I've had a pretty fortunate life, so I'm not really one to question myself on a philosophical level. Sure I have regrets, things I could have done differently, who doesn't? But I'm having a hard time coming up with an answer to this. I wonder why? That's It, that's my question....why?
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    Why do I keep sabotaging myself?

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    I keep wondering what I ever saw in women that's attractive and why didn't I try cock years ago

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    I have absolutely no regrets about the events in my life; it could have been better, I could have been better but what the heck I have never really suffered serious problems. So I don't really need to ask "why?" as far as I am concerned.

    But I have, from a very early age, always wanted to know why the general public have to be such sods. Good and generous people are so rare to find, why?
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    Why are gay men so obsessed with cock size? This whole thread is devolving into a discussion about that very subject. What ever happened to "what is the meaning of life" sort of self-inquiry?
    Your post comments are forwarded to the CIA.

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Why are gay men so obsessed with cock size?
    LOL at "gay men." I think it's funny when gay men blame "gay" on something that's generally not specifically gay-related. Many men wonder about that and have every right to be concerned with that part of themself as any other part (like height, hair, musculature and many of the other things men wonder about their looks or things that are closely associated with manhood.).

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    .
    Why don't I "fit in" very often.

    In the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chrisrobin View Post
    .
    Why don't I "fit in" very often.
    I find myself asking that daily, and other such head-scratchers, like why do I feel like a stranger in my own life, and what's the damn point of humans having free will and being self-aware? If "ignorance is bliss" are we "fabulous freaks of nature" or rather some twisted cosmic joke?

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    ^So annoyed that the Blackhawks lost yesterday.

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    Is there life after death? I have been very fortunate in my life and I've experienced immeasurable anguish too. I don't ask why. But I do ask, is this it? Do we feel in the afterlife? Will I remember and be remembered when and where I go?
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chrisrobin View Post
    .
    Why don't I "fit in" very often.
    No one does... Some people are just lucky enough to be oblivious to it, while others are overly aware.

    I think people sometimes try too hard to force themselves into a niche that's not for them.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ilovejstrokesdonk View Post
    Why Am I so Attracted to Straight Guys, especially Straight Guys with Girlfriends?

    Why are Straight Guys or The Idea that a Guy is Straight so Appealing to Me?

    Why Am I so Attracted to Wild Cocky Party Boys (Straight Guys) who “Think with Their Dicks?”

    “I am super serious; the thought of having a secret affair with a straight guy who has s girlfriend is such a turn-on for me and something that I fantasize/ obsess about more than any normal person should”

    It pleases me to know I'm not alone. I fucking HATE that straight men turn me on so fucking much. Furthermore the ones with girlfriends. While I know I would never attempt to ruin anyone relationship "Karma is that bitch", all the dudes I crush on would kick my ass 1,2,3. I'm just glad I don't obsess the way I use to during my teens for straight guy, constantly thinking about them, spending my life with them and shit. Nowadays I just become a bit more bitter everytime I crush on a guy who is straight and out of my league. It makes me wish I was a girl sometimes. Dick would come so much easier if I was one. It something that really bothers me and although it doesn't affect me nearly as bad as it use too, it;s me angry at the person and mostly myself. The life of being gay and unattractive. Oh wait a old men give me the pervy smile from time to time. Guess I should be thankful for that... NOT! Fuck my emotional needs
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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Quote Originally Posted by diamondstar View Post
    It pleases me to know I'm not alone. I fucking HATE that straight men turn me on so fucking much. Furthermore the ones with girlfriends. While I know I would never attempt to ruin anyone relationship "Karma is that bitch", all the dudes I crush on would kick my ass 1,2,3. I'm just glad I don't obsess the way I use to during my teens for straight guy, constantly thinking about them, spending my life with them and shit. Nowadays I just become a bit more bitter everytime I crush on a guy who is straight and out of my league. It makes me wish I was a girl sometimes. Dick would come so much easier if I was one. It something that really bothers me and although it doesn't affect me nearly as bad as it use too, it;s me angry at the person and mostly myself. The life of being gay and unattractive. Oh wait a old men give me the pervy smile from time to time. Guess I should be thankful for that... NOT! Fuck my emotional needs
    How well I know these feelings. I too, sometimes wish I had been born female. Unattractive, now aging, and a small penis as well, it just plain sucks.
    Oh well, I won't have much to confess at the pearly gates...

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    Thankfully i stopped falling for straight guys i know the feelings its so annoying having something you can't have.

    Mines are


    Will i ever make any REAL friends?
    Will i ever get into a relationship?
    will i stay in this straight small town forever? (God i hope not)
    Will i be happy in this new field I'm going into?
    Why wasn't i born good-looking and light skinned
    Will i ever be able to lose this weight?
    Will people stop looking at me as the same immature class clown person from high school?
    Last edited by USEDCAR; June 18th, 2013 at 12:26 PM.

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    Re: Concerning Yourself, What Is The 1 Question You Have Been Asking Yourself for Years Now?

    I pretty much had the same questions many of you posted. I soon realized it was pointless, move on, deal with it, there will be a tomorrow.

    I'm not so sure now. My world is crumbling around me and I don't see a way out. I feel like I'm waiting for the judge to pass sentence after the trial...

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