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    Well...

    ...my VIP membership has expired, which is one reason as to why I kept active as long as I did. I've met many, though I was not exactly the most active member. I've been distant simply because this is not the site I had joined over a year ago. It's tense, childish, and embarrassing. I believed we were a team united, but it seems many turned against one another. I'm not for that.

    I wish all of you — not some — all of you the best. I'd offer a way to keep in touch...but let's not kid ourselves. Do you think that would stay true to its word? Those of you I spoke to in private, the few of you there were, you have a special place in my life.

    To the rest of you, I wish we had gotten to know one another better. Whether I wasn't 'cool' enough, or just gave off a vibe that said, 'hey, let's not talk to this loser because he's not pretending to be someone he's not'. Whatever the case is, it's in the past. I observe, unspoken, often feeling unappreciated. But it's a damn website, right? Whatever.

    Take care of yourselves, men. I may drop in sometime to lurk, but my posting days here are done.

    Brandon

    (I'm not self-deleting, by the way...why bother?)
    Last edited by counterspade; June 12th, 2013 at 12:04 AM.

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    Goodbye Brandon.

    Find your truth out there.

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    I tried chatting with you early on, you were pretty nice to me. I always thought you were a nice guy, however it seems you ended up just posting your pictures and looking for attention, for example this thread. Always the 'woe is me' shtick.

    Anyway, if you start posting and join in maybe you'll enjoy your time here more. Most folks here are pretty decent so I don't know what you are on about.

    Best of luck to you Brandon.

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    Bye, I'll miss your posts.
    I couldn't get my mind off you all day.
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    Re: Well...

    I think i was one of the first people who talked to you here, i hope you found at least a little bit of what you were looking for here.

    Haven't you already run a similar thread as this ?
    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
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    Never spoken to you but I wish you all the best. Sit back and enjoy the ride I say.
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    Are the people who look and think like you ..." - Colours of the Wind by Vanessa Williams

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    Re: Well...

    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I tried chatting with you early on, you were pretty nice to me. I always thought you were a nice guy, however it seems you ended up just posting your pictures and looking for attention, for example this thread. Always the 'woe is me' shtick.

    Anyway, if you start posting and join in maybe you'll enjoy your time here more. Most folks here are pretty decent so I don't know what you are on about.

    Best of luck to you Brandon.
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    Sad that you feel that you have to go , i have enjoyed reading your posts , take care my friend...............

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    Re: Well...

    This comes as a surprise, but it's your decision.

    Good luck with everything. Hopefully the coming years will be less rough than the previous one has been.

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    Re: Well...

    I always assumed you were one of the more popular JUBbers. Odd how others see us differently than we see ourselves, isn't it?

    For what it's worth, I have great respect and admiration for your devotion and commitment to your family, especially since your parents are often a burden to you. You are a strong man and I hope one day you the life you want.

    JUB tends to run hot and cold. So if you feel underappreciated, wait awhile, someone will come along to love you up again. As I have said before, you shouldn't want to be loved by everyone.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Re: Well...

    To be perfectly blunt...you missed a lot of opportunities to actively participate in discussions where you might have made a real contribution. JUB has always been more or less a drop-in centre for the depressed, the bored and the drama queens...I have no idea why you somehow thought that we were all on the same team. Life isn't like that. Just because we all hang around the same water cooler some of the time, it doesn't mean that we all see the world through the same lens. JUB has always been childish so you must have hit the place on a strange week. Honestly though, except for the threads where you told us about your family issues, or work issues or posted your pic...I still have no real sense of you or your aspirations...or your opinions on many things. I'm sure that you are a great guy and lots of fun, but maybe you just hold yourself back.

    If you were an outsider, it is because you have kept yourself an outsider...no one here pushed you out of the room through a window.

    BTW. If I had a buck for reading every one of these types of goodbye threads from someone who feels the need to give us all a grumpy shout out about their imminent departure....I'd have been able to buy a round of drinks for everyone here.

    But good for you. The time you used to spend here can be used to go out and garden or volunteer at some local organization. Hopefully the best thing will happen for you and you will find a great BF and not look back. We all wish you the best and hope that sometime you'll return to let us know how life is going.

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    It is true in life and JUB, you get out what you put in.

    Good luck.

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    Re: Well...

    I honestly don't ever remember reading a post from you though I don't go into every thread so maybe I didn't see those threads you posted in. Another thing...it takes me a long time to distinguish someone based on their personality..is it that way for everyone?

    It looks like you have alot of friends here but if you feel unappreciated maybe it is good to take a break at least. I sincerely wish you the best!

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    Re: Well...

    From what I have read in your past posts, you had a rough year in your personal life...changing jobs & moving. Having to take care of your siblings is a huge responsibility for a young man like you. I hope you will find balance, fulfillment and happiness in life (no internet forum - a virtual reality community with people you have never met - can do that for you).

    I remember you have a knack for creative writing. Hope you will pursue that as a side job or your main career in the future.

    I believe in the law of attraction. It has worked well for me.
    From Wikipedia: The law of attraction is the name given to the belief that "like attracts like" and that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, one can bring about positive or negative results.
    Good luck and I wish you the best in life, Brandon

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    Wow. I'm actually surprised at you - I pegged you as one of the more level headed people here, friendly, intelligent, and yes, attractive. No, I never talked to you in private(I think i've sent like 5 PMs in 6 years), but out of all the newer members, I can genuinely count on one hand the number that have actually seemed approachable, and until this post, you were one of those.

    But i'll be blunt - if this is the way you want to go out, you might as well have just self deleted and been done with it. Frankly, this is a side of you better left unseen.

    Cya later, or never, whichever.
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    Good luck, Brandon. I wish you happiness and all the best in everything always.

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    well, see you around, dude. don't be afraid to shoot a message sometime.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    Fair enough. Goodbye.

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    Bye.

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    I don't believe our paths have crossed, Brandon. I'm sure you're a swell guy and have your ups and downs in life, just like the rest of us. If this is your time, so be it. Good luck and best wishes.

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    Life in the real world is what's important. Hopefully you'll find a place to be comfortable in.

    If not then I'm sure you'll find this advice from the Monty Python folks helps.



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    Re: Well...

    Every time I hear/read "It used to be better" "It used to be more fun" ect I wonder, if you saw this coming why didn't you do something??? Why didn't you make the effort to maintain quality control? If you sat on your ass and watched everything go to hell in a handbascket, then you are at fault.

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    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
    - anonymous quote.

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    Re: Well...

    Do people really come here to make life long friends?
    Do members really need the approval of others to feel part of a community?
    Is this a chat line or a forum for reading others' opinions and experiences?
    If no one sends you PMs or comments on your posts does that make JUB worth less?
    If JUB doesn't provide the sorts of threads you like participating in whose fault is it?

    I am never going to meet any of the members here, nor develope the sort of internet relationship involving e-mails, etc. but they all provide me with an interest through their comments, opinions and experiences for which I am extremely gratefull.

    I have always found JUB a fun place to be, not necessary to my well being but a pleasant distraction nonetheless. A place filled with strange, amusing, intelligent and interesting entities.

    Let's hope you continue to enjoy life remembering that JUB is a passtime not a way of life, like a book you pick it up when you have the time and leave it on the shelf when life becomes busy. If you don't like the book then it is up to you whether you continue to read it not.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Fly View Post
    Every time I hear/read "It used to be better" "It used to be more fun" ect I wonder, if you saw this coming why didn't you do something??? Why didn't you make the effort to maintain quality control? If you sat on your ass and watched everything go to hell in a handbascket, then you are at fault.

    Oh, good. Finally. I've been waiting for someone who's in control and willing to take the blame and responsibility for the current climate of the forum to show up.

    Not that it bothers me much, mind you, but you'd make a lot of other folks very happy if you'd do something about SLOPPYSECONDS.

    And, that weird reddish/pinkish/brownish color of those envelope icons - is that even a legal color? I don't think so. It bothers me a lot. Please do something about that, too.

    OK, that's it for now.

    Thanks bunches **big hugs**

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    Re: Well...

    Perception is reality. If Brandon perceived the site as tense, childish and embarrassing, then it was for him. Similarly, if he had originally perceived it as a "team united," then surely a bit of time on the boards disabused him of that illusion, as it was never true.

    But, to Fly's point, much of what Brandon criticized was within his power to change, unlike the snarky bits about envelope colors and esoteric trolls like Sloppy. Brandon commented about the atmosphere, and one can hardly describe site graphics and pseudo-Jamaican jibberish as the atmosphere of the posts on this forum.

    It was within Brandon's reach to post threads of the type he mentions, that build online friendships or that get acquainted. To his detractors' points, he did not, and did more or less come to the forum to air personal pain at family, employment, and the like.

    I welcome him back, and think he will find a better JUB than he described, but it isn't as simple as "y'all are wrong and you didn't bother to get to know me either."

    We all have rough patches to get through, so I don't blame Brandon for seeing the site as the problems. At his age, there is a lot of time and opportunity ahead for him to make it all better in his life. I hope he does and that he comes back to share it.
    Last edited by Dejavudoo; June 13th, 2013 at 06:23 AM.
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    Re: Well...

    Don't we all come here with some expectations? For some they are just looking for a chuckle, while others need advice and counsel of a serious nature. Sometimes, when these expectations are met, we might come to believe that that is how JUB always is. Then disappointment sets in when they are not met. We charge that JUB has changed and is not the place it once used to be.
    There are days I would swear a gang of 12 year old posters have been released on the place. There are other days when the wisdom and intelligence and humor of the place seem to shine through. I have to say the latter seems to be fewer and farther between than was once the case. I guess, in that sense, I am saying that JUB has changed.

    I think Brandon came here with real life problems. Many people do. Perhaps he needed support, empathy, attention or affirmation and didn't find it. There are just some needs that cannot be fully met by an online group of people. We need real life friendship and love. Even in real life, others cannot meet all our needs.

    Brandon, be well and take care of yourself. Life has thrust a burden on you that you should not have to bear. You are the support for your mother and siblings that should have fallen on a father, not a son.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Re: Well...

    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    Don't we all come here with some expectations?
    True. I came to JUB strictly for gay porn. Needed free jerk off material...ain't gonna lie. I know I'm not the only one. Yeah...you know who you are

    Then I discovered discussion forums, advice...that turned into self help therapy (why pay someone over $100 an hour for advice? )...chuckles/banters with other members...made a few friends along the way. For me, JUB and its members are entertaining. Like a good group of buddies, a few of us aim to crack each other up for good laughs

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    I definitely came here with expectations.

    Three years later, and I still haven't found gay dwarf porn.

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    ^I managed to find ONE porn with a dwarf guy jacking off... I don't know if he's gay, bi or what, but he's built, he was hot, and I think he had an ankle bracelet on.

    I favorited it somewhere.

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    well, compared to another rival gay forum which i think has a lot of shitty douchebags on there and there's some dudes who i really don't like and wouldn't hesitant to spaz out on or punch them right in the face, kick their ass and all of that shit, realjock, this place is way better. there's plenty of people that are cool and down to earth compared to that bitch ass realjock place with a bunch of fake ass fabios swearing on their dicks that they're hot and that they're desirable when they ain't shit. very FEW of those dudes are cool though. that's my opinion. this site is works for some people. for others it doesn't.
    one thing about the closet/you don't have to hurry/it will be bad tomorrow/so brother, don't you worry

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    I've seen threads from 2006 of people saying 'JUB isn't what it used to be'. It's what you make it. If you think you should should self delete just have a wank and calm down. Smdh

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    Quote Originally Posted by counterspade View Post
    ...I may drop in sometime to lurk....Brandon
    Brandon, I'm hoping you'll post some pics.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post
    Brandon, I'm hoping you'll post some pics.
    Too late. The man who's not self-deleting has gone.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I've seen threads from 2006 of people saying 'JUB isn't what it used to be'. It's what you make it. If you think you should should self delete just have a wank and calm down. Smdh

    It is not at all possible for JUB to be what it used to be. Ever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by unloadonme View Post
    Too late. The man who's not self-deleting has gone.

    As I recall, setting up a new account is far less trouble than self-deleting.

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