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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    why no a tip yaself ans no remeba who ya is afta

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    Im all about it. I actually find it hot, especially when the guy is straight. I think its hot to pay for sex. And if the only way I can eat a hot guys ass is if I pay for it . . . so be it. No shame

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    I paid an escort once and trust me...I did not have to pay for it. Quite the opposite...but that was the beauty of it.

    I have an invisible sign that tells guys to build me a picket fence....I easily attract obsessive and over confident pushy type A personalities. I used to truly believe I had some kind of magnet inside of me and I wanted it gone. I never once even thought to myself "Gee...I wish I had a date"...or..."Gee...where can I meet some guys?",...or "Gee...I wish I could find a lover".....and this was my state of mind at the time. I hated dating of any kind and I used to like the bi or straight guys because they just wanted sex and it was such a nice escape. Usually I got a lot of expectations from guys along the lines of "I thought we were going out" or "When you said this I thought it meant that". A lot of emotional blackmail and manipulations and sickening grand gestures of "love" that would make me vomit in my mouth..

    ...so when the escort approached me one day just after I had opened the bar because he ran out of money in a poker game and wanted back in the game...I was initially taken aback and then suddenly I was turned on. He proposed that he suck my dick and I pay him enough to get back in the game. I told him that I didn't like blow jobs but if he let me fuck him then I would pay him. He tried to renegotiate because "fucking should be more" but I said no thanks and a couple minutes later he had his pants off and he was bent over a bar stool. I really loved it because everything was exactly as it should be...no hidden agendas...he wanted money and I wanted to have sex with NO STRINGS ATTACHED! That is what turned me on...we fuck and he goes and I don't have to deal with anyone else's "feelings".

    He came back in later that day and I offered to pay him for the night...what a turn on. I told him to not tell me anything about himself and I would do the same...just be a fuck toy. I had a great time. I couldn't wait to see him again though I didn't have a number and one night when I was talking to this guy in another club someone came up behind me and covered my eyes and put a drink in front of me...it was him...and he told the other guy I was talking with to get lost. YIKES... That should have been a clue for what was to come.... I thought that was weird considering our arrangement. He was happy to tell me he wanted us to fuck again but this time no money. I was uneasy because that was the turn on for me and I knew it but he was such a great fuck I went along with the idea...I did notice he had that usual possessive thing I get from guys but I thought maybe he just wanted sex again so I ignored it. Bad idea. The sex was not as good...he wanted to get romantic...he asked me to drive him to his home as he left his car and when I did... SURPRISE...I met his wife and six kids...I was his "friend from work" OMG! He didn't even bother telling me ahead of time. While I was sitting in the kitchen he was grinning at me and getting off... like we "had a secret". UGH. So not my style. Long story short...he turned out like most of the other guys except he came with a lot of "ahem" surprises. He was actually worse because he "thought" we were already lovers because we had a few hot fuck sessions. F U C K. So much for that. I still remember the first day and night though and the freedom paying for it gave me..it was exhilarating.

    I prefaced with that rather long story (sorry about that) for a reason. It's nice to see only a few of the posters having value judgements about hiring an escort. Ignore them. You are a consenting adult and you should do it if you like and don't let anyone else define your experience for you. Having no strings sex on your terms with a consenting and willing partner can be fabulous! The best thing about it in my opinion is that it is what it is and if you have ever had to play games with someone you will find it is worth every cent because the time and energy those games waste can never be recovered. Had I known that I would have paid a lot sooner because my time was worth more than the money I would have paid. I was only single for a fraction of my adult life and I tried to enjoy myself as much as possible.

    ...use your instincts and feel out the guy...make sure he makes you feel comfortable...even if all you want is conversation and companionship versus sex... because if he doesn't he is not doing his job. Remember.....we all prostitute ourselves every day of our lives so there is no shame whatsoever in exchanging sex for money...people exchange their labor for money all the time and if you get rid of other people's value judgements it is exactly the same situation.

    PS...if you do decide to go for it...have fun!

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    Hiring escort for taste, kink/ sexual connoisseur is allowed in my book and common sense of most people here, no?
    But expecting an escort to fulfill/fix your relationship issue/longing/loneliness is a much delusional and Im sorry to say that kind of gay man are the most "pathetic."

    If I heard someone posted a thread about "escort might fall in love with me" then Im gonna throw the "pathetic" comment.

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    ^Didn't you just do that already?

    Quote Originally Posted by BFizzle View Post
    Initially I was SCANDALIZED by the number of yeses in this thread, but, upon taking a second look at the posters, I'm not surprised they had to pay for it.

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    ^
    with today's budget- I cant effort them yet. But leaning towards I wait until my time is over.

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    I meant calling the idea of hiring an escort for a means other than taste or kink "pathetic"... but okay.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MoufOfKhaos View Post
    Such a shining personality you have.
    Right? I could be an escort, too.

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    The OP has never had sex with a man, so, no doubt, has a number of concerns. Hiring an escorts of his choosing at a specific time and place will eliminate part of his uncertainties and will give him the confidence to seek other partners.

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    Great advice until this part.
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    I am curious about in and out rate, and why are some of them are against in rate? i took a look thru some profiles, and some say NO IN Rates.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Benvolio View Post
    The OP has never had sex with a man, so, no doubt, has a number of concerns. Hiring an escorts of his choosing at a specific time and place will eliminate part of his uncertainties and will give him the confidence to seek other partners.
    I feel a bit softie over that too..I think somewhat I understand and we'll must understand his situation too.
    But Im just concerned that some guys addicted to escorts because they always feel inadequate enough with real guy (attachment, emotional, acceptance, etc), for that reason I thought is dangerous and damaging. Why? I know an old friend who's like that and he's miserable.
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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Question? How much does an escort cost? Anyways OP if you really want to do that, o for it. Their is nothing degrading about hiring an escort.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I'm just looking to see who responds to this thread.

    (There's nothing wrong with it...)

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    Quote Originally Posted by eastofeden View Post
    ...

    ...use your instincts and feel out the guy...make sure he makes you feel comfortable...even if all you want is conversation and companionship versus sex... because if he doesn't he is not doing his job. Remember.....
    we all prostitute ourselves every day of our lives so there is no shame whatsoever in exchanging sex for money...people exchange their labor for money all the time and if you get rid of other people's value judgements it is exactly the same situation.

    PS...if you do decide to go for it...have fun!
    THIS! ^

    It's a "business arrangement."

    Here in the States it's illegal to solicit or to offer sex for money.

    I've "given it up" for money, and I'm not ashamed of it.

    Turns out that some guys have "objectified" me for years.

    They didn't want to "date" me, or even get to know me, they just wanted "me."

    They wanted to freely touch me, grab my package, lick me, pretty much have their way with me.

    I thought it might be creepy, but in the end, there was nothing creepy about it.

    I can see both angles.

    I use to think, "How can I give up my body to someone that I'm not attracted to, or to perform sexual acts on someone whom I really don't want to be romantically involved with?"

    A "business arrangement."

    I give them what they want, they give me what I want.

    NSA = No Strings Attached.

    To the OP of this thread I say, "Find the hottest dude that you can find, within the price range that you can afford, tell him what you've told us here, then let him do what you're paying him for."

    Just based upon that information, he'll have an idea of what you "need."

    If that guy has been doing this for awhile, he will resist doing anything to you that you're uncomfortable with, he's just offering his body to you for a price, and if all that y'all do is end up cuddling, you got what you needed, and he got paid.

    NSA = No Strings Attached.

    If you're inexperienced, what better way, and on what better terms can you get that experience?

    Your way...and with someone who's willing to trade.

    Let us know how it went.

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    Go for it! I've done it on occasion. Depending on your mood, sometimes the hassle of looking for a hook up, dealing with flakes or guys who want a relationship, yada yada, is just too much. You're horny, you've got a grocery list of stuff you wanna do and you find a hot guy to play with. Use common sense; be safe; go someplace neutral. I've met some cool guys who needed to trick for various financial reasons but were smart, sweet and university-educated. I even know a part-time college professor who loves sex, writes porn and just enjoys tricking. Not everyone is rough trade looking to steal your credit cards and give you an STD. But I repeat, keep your wits about you and go about it the right way. Think with your head (the one on your shoulders) and not your dick when going about finding an escort.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by rm71182 View Post
    I think it would be helpful to be with a guy for the first time where there was nothing at stake--no feelings, no possible relationship, no pressure, etc. It could be...educational?
    This was my attitude for my first gay sex experience. I had played with toys; I wanted to experience real gay sex. I did not hire an escort though. I contacted guys on Manhunt and Adam4Adam that I thought were attractive. I informed them I was a gay virgin and wanted to experience gay. I was surprised at the number of rejections I received.

    I finally found a guy who agreed to pop my cherry ass. It turned out we clicked really well together. We spent the entire weekend together rather than just having one hookup. We had marathon fuck sessions all weekend.

    He fucked me in all kinds of position. He had me convulsing with lust, especially when he rimmed and tongue fucked me. WOW!

    I have had sex with women, but this was the best sex of my life at that time! I hope your first gay sex experience will be as wonderful as mine was.

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    Did the OP hire anyone?

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    Quote Originally Posted by m1thousand View Post
    Did the OP hire anyone?
    Haha no, I ended up drowning my bout of loneliness in a healthy dose of alcohol (and some really good cocaine). Seriously, I can't believe the life this thread took on after my initial post. My whole point was (and I think I said this verbatim)...I have money, the escort is providing a service in exchange for money--why not let the invisible hand of the free market work its magic? Yes, I'm a virgin (when it comes to guys), and I think there's real value in the idea of "breaking the ice" in a setting where there's no strings attached. But some of you acted like I wanted to use Rentboy as a substitute for a relationship? I never equated temporary companionship with a permanent relationship; I was pretty up front about what I was looking for. And fuck whoever said my time would be better spent in the gym. First of all, I didn't ask whether you thought I was attractive (I wouldn't fuck you either, by the way), and second, that's the whole point--it's a temporary bit of fun to tide me over until I make the physical and psychological adjustments that are necessary after 26 years in the closet to start testing the waters of normal relationships. Where do you get off presuming how I should spend my time or money?

    In the end, I didn't do it because I have a good job and can't afford the risk of being arrested. So that was that. I haven't ruled it out in the future though.

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    That's odd you say you backed out of the idea because "you have a good job and can't afford the risk of being arrested." Yet, in the previous paragraph you admitted to alcohol abuse and doing cocaine. I also see your avatar is a tray of alcohol and prescription pills which leads me to believe that you regularly enjoy abusing substances that can be highly addictive. Are you sure you're really protecting your job? Because last time I checked, you can be sent to prison for possessing "really good cocaine."

    I would suggest that you work on yourself before you worry about sex. Drugs and alcohol abuse can do a lot to your self-esteem and confidence where you still find yourself in the closet as a 26 year-old virgin. If you can let go of those handicaps, I believe you will develop the confidence to pursue normal and healthy relationships with other gay men.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Just_Believe18 View Post
    That's odd you say you backed out of the idea because "you have a good job and can't afford the risk of being arrested." Yet, in the previous paragraph you admitted to alcohol abuse and doing cocaine. I also see your avatar is a tray of alcohol and prescription pills which leads me to believe that you regularly enjoy abusing substances that can be highly addictive. Are you sure you're really protecting your job? Because last time I checked, you can be sent to prison for possessing "really good cocaine."

    I would suggest that you work on yourself before you worry about sex. Drugs and alcohol abuse can do a lot to your self-esteem and confidence where you still find yourself in the closet as a 26 year-old virgin. If you can let go of those handicaps, I believe you will develop the confidence to pursue normal and healthy relationships with other gay men.
    Yeah, I saw a comment like that coming. It's a fair point, but no, I have a trusted dealer and I partake in the privacy of my own home. All my pills are prescription (it'd blow your mind if you even knew how many medical conditions I have). And what can I say, Cristal is just perfect for washing them all down with.

    But see, meeting an escort, in my mind, raises fears of sting operations, etc. Perhaps I watch too much TV news, but oh well. We all have to decide how much risk we can live with (and there's no two ways about it -- I love me some good coke).

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    ^
    A real escort is perfectly legal to hire. What everyone here is talking about is prostitutes, not escorts.

    A real escort is a professional: he knows the area, knows all the restaurants and entertainment venues, so he can take his client to whatever atmosphere is desired. He can listen for hours attentively, play a number of sports if you need a partner, or carry a conversation when necessary. His job is to provide an enjoyable evening.

    If a real escort decides to engage in sex, that's an entirely different arrangement, with an additional price; it's definitely not part of the standard rate.

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    Is it that common, though, for somebody to hire an "escort" only for purposes which fall entirely within the strict meaning of the word?
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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by Kulindahr View Post
    ^
    A real escort is perfectly legal to hire. What everyone here is talking about is prostitutes, not escorts.

    A real escort is a professional: he knows the area, knows all the restaurants and entertainment venues, so he can take his client to whatever atmosphere is desired. He can listen for hours attentively, play a number of sports if you need a partner, or carry a conversation when necessary. His job is to provide an enjoyable evening.

    If a real escort decides to engage in sex, that's an entirely different arrangement, with an additional price; it's definitely not part of the standard rate.
    That's a really, really good point, and so easy to forget in conversations like these.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kulindahr View Post
    ^
    A real escort is perfectly legal to hire. What everyone here is talking about is prostitutes, not escorts.

    A real escort is a professional: he knows the area, knows all the restaurants and entertainment venues, so he can take his client to whatever atmosphere is desired. He can listen for hours attentively, play a number of sports if you need a partner, or carry a conversation when necessary. His job is to provide an enjoyable evening.

    If a real escort decides to engage in sex, that's an entirely different arrangement, with an additional price; it's definitely not part of the standard rate.
    This sort of thing is not realistic for most people.
    Only millionaires can do this sort of stuff.


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    coor rich folk need nanny

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    Quote Originally Posted by Adrock-JD View Post
    ^ Good analogy.

    I wonder if buying sex/companionship could become addictive. Would one ever want to "bother" with anything other than a prearrangement where you have all the control? Are escorts masochists by definition even if they perform as a sadist when payed to do so?
    But that's what the escort wants, the escort wants to make you feel like as though they are a close friend. An escort isn't going to try to be rude, they want the money. So the escort is basically an actor, they are acting, trying to be as nice as possible to get money out of the john. Once the john gives them what they want which is money, some johns get the false impression they are "in love" with the escort, and the escort plays on these insecure guys for their MONEY. So if the OP wants to get an escort more power to him but he has to realize IT IS A FANTASY IT IS NOT REAL.

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    Better yet if you are 26, become an escort. My private message button is to the left....
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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by Telstra View Post
    This sort of thing is not realistic for most people.
    Only millionaires can do this sort of stuff.
    I can afford the "boyfriend experience," but I think the question becomes: do you really want to engage in that level of artificial intimacy? I like the idea of hiring an escort to maybe liven up an otherwise boring Saturday (meet for lunch, do some shopping together, maybe a day trip--it's always interesting to get to know someone else--then go out that night and, like one person said, maybe have sex later for an extra fee. I mean, what does that usually run, 2-3k? Maybe more if the guy is super hot?

    But I think you've gotta be careful that you see things for what they are. Anything beyond that, I definitely wouldn't do. I think my "fun Saturday" idea is fine, but I'd never take an escort with me for a full vacation. Nor would I make the "fun Saturday" idea a regular thing. But it seems like lots of people do. Someone who sees the same escort on a regular basis for pure sex is one thing (that's like finding a good masseuse), but who *regularly* indulges in the boyfriend fantasy? I'm not sure how to feel about that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MorrisseyX View Post
    But that's what the escort wants, the escort wants to make you feel like as though they are a close friend. An escort isn't going to try to be rude, they want the money. So the escort is basically an actor, they are acting, trying to be as nice as possible to get money out of the john. Once the john gives them what they want which is money, some johns get the false impression they are "in love" with the escort, and the escort plays on these insecure guys for their MONEY. So if the OP wants to get an escort more power to him but he has to realize IT IS A FANTASY IT IS NOT REAL.
    Your post illustrates a theme in the larger debate about legalizing prostitution and money-for-sex. It's the idea that somehow, one of the participants in the transaction is a victim: either the prostitute is being taken advantage of, because society has left him/her with no other options for employment, or, as you imply, the escort/prostitute is like a drug-dealer pushing a "dangerous" product.

    What if neither is the case? What if it's just two consenting adults engaged in a commercial transaction? Yes, sex is different than, say, hiring a roofer, but what ever happened to personal responsibility? If a john gets "addicted" to the extra affection, then that's his f*cking problem. It's the same with drug addicts -- no one forced them to become addicted. Yet people act like drug dealers are at fault for "ruining" their clients' lives. I take issue with that. I'm tired of laws designed to babysit me. If I want to hire an escort for sex, and he agrees, who's being hurt? Just like if I wanna do some coke in the privacy of my own home (or even better, hire an escort *and* do coke lol...)

    Now, every measure should be taken to make sure no one is being forced into prostitution, let alone this trafficking of underage prostitutes which is horrifying and which I see on the news these days. Isn't the best way to stop that legalization? Bring it out of the shadows. Then, if people still want to argue that it's exploitative, all you have to do is look at porn and tell me why legal prostitution would be any more exploitative than porn?!

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    Quote Originally Posted by frankfrank View Post
    Is it that common, though, for somebody to hire an "escort" only for purposes which fall entirely within the strict meaning of the word?
    It depends on what you mean by "common". There are actual escort services in every major city, and generally speaking their employees are impressive. One I met said for the service he worked for he was required to be certified in first aid and CPR, on top of everything else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kulindahr View Post
    One I met said for the service he worked for he was required to be certified in first aid and CPR, on top of everything everyone else.
    I bet!

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    Quote Originally Posted by rm71182 View Post
    I can afford the "boyfriend experience," but I think the question becomes: do you really want to engage in that level of artificial intimacy? I like the idea of hiring an escort to maybe liven up an otherwise boring Saturday (meet for lunch, do some shopping together, maybe a day trip--it's always interesting to get to know someone else--then go out that night and, like one person said, maybe have sex later for an extra fee. I mean, what does that usually run, 2-3k? Maybe more if the guy is super hot?

    But I think you've gotta be careful that you see things for what they are. Anything beyond that, I definitely wouldn't do. I think my "fun Saturday" idea is fine, but I'd never take an escort with me for a full vacation. Nor would I make the "fun Saturday" idea a regular thing. But it seems like lots of people do. Someone who sees the same escort on a regular basis for pure sex is one thing (that's like finding a good masseuse), but who *regularly* indulges in the boyfriend fantasy? I'm not sure how to feel about that.
    I would do it for that ...


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    And it can be equally sexy for the person doing it.

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