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    So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    This is not my proudest moment. But part of me thinks, "so what? I've got money; he's got time, let's do this." I've never been with another guy before (I'm 26 and was a closet-case until just this past year). I think it would be helpful to be with a guy for the first time where there was nothing at stake--no feelings, no possible relationship, no pressure, etc. It could be...educational?

    Hell, I'm not even sure I'd have sex with him. Part of me just wants to sit across a restaurant table from a hot guy for a few hours. Has anyone here hired an escort before? (There have been old posts on this but I wanted to get current feedback.) I know the legality is tricky in most states/countries (which is why I'd probably just opt for a massage).

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Intriguing question, and thank you for it. I, myself, and interested in seeing/reading responses to this, just out of curiosity.


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    In the past, I thought only certain guys would hire an escort.

    But if I had the money, Im 48 and I like muscles and since my body isnt suddenly going to have muscles which can take years to get, then you are merely paying for what you want

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    http://www.daddysreviews.com/
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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I've hired them in them in the past, although to call them escorts is making it classier than it was lol. Low rent would be more accurate. Damn I hate some of the crap I got up to when I was a idiotic drunk.

    Still, that said I wouldn't rule out ever do it again. Sometimes you just need a human touch.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by rm71182 View Post
    Hell, I'm not even sure I'd have sex with him. Part of me just wants to sit across a restaurant table from a hot guy for a few hours. Has anyone here hired an escort before? (There have been old posts on this but I wanted to get current feedback.) I know the legality is tricky in most states/countries (which is why I'd probably just opt for a massage).
    If you do not think you would have sex with him, then just treat is as though the exercise is akin to being in an interactive movie. If he is an escort worth his salt, he should be able to make you feel at ease, and help you have a good time; it should be like you have just met a long lost friend.

    Should you end up having with him, do not feel bad the next day because you have paid for a 'prostitute' - one way or the other we are all sell our souls, just in different forms. At the very least, you both know the possible conclusion to hiring an escort. And he did not lie to you about the expectations. And I am sure it would be an educational experience.

    I would be intrigued to hear of the outcome of your decision.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I think it is a very sensible way to get over that first step.
    Straights do it all the time. Many a Father/Uncle has taken a straight virgin to a Cat House for their first time

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    Don't do it.
    You don't need money to get the attention of a hot guy. You need only to be yourself.
    Hiring an escort is degrading. Shows that you can get the attention you need only through cash.

    Just get to know someone or hook up. Even that's better than paying for an illusion.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by rm71182 View Post
    This is not my proudest moment. But part of me thinks, "so what? I've got money; he's got time, let's do this." I've never been with another guy before (I'm 26 and was a closet-case until just this past year). I think it would be helpful to be with a guy for the first time where there was nothing at stake--no feelings, no possible relationship, no pressure, etc. It could be...educational?

    Hell, I'm not even sure I'd have sex with him. Part of me just wants to sit across a restaurant table from a hot guy for a few hours. Has anyone here hired an escort before? (There have been old posts on this but I wanted to get current feedback.) I know the legality is tricky in most states/countries (which is why I'd probably just opt for a massage).
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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I understand human nature much until I have no reason to judge you. And perhaps- it's suck that sex isn't abundant/quite approachable/well regulated as any other material such as food/possession. From what I'm observe now, it's more like a luck and each person has different luck, nevertheless we all have different scene to be satisfied.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I've hired escorts for sex myself, though not very often - I think no more than eight different such guys in my lifetime. Generally I am able to hire the body-type which I had trouble finding hookups with even thirty or forty years ago - escorts tend to be more attractive, muscular, etc. than the ordinary man. (NOT *ALWAYS* TRUE, OF COURSE - just a tendency.) Being overly attractive is an attribute which can help an escort be successful in what he does, as people who do the hiring are usually/often looking for somebody out of the ordinary, whether it be looks, versatility, or what. Being versatile, also, contributes to an escort being successful, because repeat business AND great word of mouth ("I had a FANTASTIC time with a guy that I hired from ManToMan - ask them if Carl is available - you won't be sorry!") also helps guarantee more business.

    And, let's face it, the first thing that usually comes to mind when considering some kind of hookup with a complete stranger, is how they look. Their looks are the very first thing we see, usually.

    I don't even rule out hookups possibly becoming something more or something completely different and far removed from the original reason, such as friendship. This has happened with two of these guys, in fact...we have maintained friendships long after the fact.

    I DO NOT SEE ANYTHING SHAMEFUL IN HIRING AN ESCORT. The result is a full agreement between two adults, with an exchange of money. Most of us, at one time or another, or perhaps often, do things with our money which are much more shameful.
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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I have hired many escorts over the years, and still do. I recommend it as a way to have your first sex. It certainly is not degrading. Escorts are often the cream of the crop. Great looking guys who take care of themselves, are clean, and who are not primarily interested in their own pleasure. You have the advantage of shopping through a website and choosing the one most appealing to you. Rentboy.com is the best in most cities. I prefer to meet in a hotel room.
    You of course are nervous about your first time, but trust me, when you get alone with him, and he takes off his clothes and gives you a big hug, the ol' hormones will kick in and your fears, nervousness and self consciousness will fade away. I suggest that you do not take him to dinner first, and do not waste a lot of time talking first. I may give you cold feet. Just jump right in.
    Most are healthy, but as always, you should learn to protect yourself from disease. Learn about safer sex and practice it.
    Here is a website for clients and escorts, including reviews, and a forum. www.daddysreviews.com
    I predict it will be a beautiful experience for you.
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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Hey, my first time was with an escort. He was VERY nice, and I definitely had some big mental barriers to break down. He sure did that for me and I'll always remember him for setting me on the road to being truly myself.

    No regrets whatsoever. There is nothing degrading about it. I USED to feel that way, but I honestly don't know where I picked up ideas like that.

    I'd say go for it, and live a fantasy at the same time. I've been thinking about hiring a young twink myself, since I never had one and am not likely to get one at this point in my life. But it let's me have the fantasy at least once.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I've never hired an escort, but I don't really see anything immoral about it... just be safe if/when you guys take it up to the bedroom.

    I'm kinda glad my first time was just with a fuck buddy. we had fun and he was really sweet, but it was never anything more than that, so I don't have to look back on my first time mixed with feelings of a bad breakup or something.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Rm71182,
    do you have your sights set on any guy you might hire?

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    If you want to, go for it. Personally, I wouldn't, but that's me.

    If you're not up to what comes with hiring an escort, save your money.
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    Just remember that the person you are going to hire is, before being a sex worker, a human being, and no amount of money give you the right to treat him otherwise...

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    I say do it!
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    Do it, and make sure you get your money's worth out of his hide.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    why do that when you can log on to adam4adam or even use this site to do what you're thinking about for free? you are NOT guaranteed to get your rocks off with an escort and you're losing money. you might as well meet up with someone from grindr, a4a, jub or elsewhere and hang out. don't get an escort unless you're sure of what you want to do with him.
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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Hiring an escort is degrading. Shows that you can get the attention you need only through cash.
    Oh, bullshit. There's no shame in hiring an escort. If you want a very specific type of guy or a very specific type of interaction, there's nothing wrong with paying for it. I don't think the OP is under any illusions. He's not expecting the guy to fall in love with him or anything.

    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    why do that when you can log on to adam4adam or even use this site to do what you're thinking about for free? you are NOT guaranteed to get your rocks off with an escort and you're losing money. you might as well meet up with someone from grindr, a4a, jub or elsewhere and hang out. don't get an escort unless you're sure of what you want to do with him.
    Thing is - if you're looking of a very specific type of guy, you can ask all you want...but they're not guaranteed to say yes. And with those guys, you have to take THEIR considerations on board. With an escort, it's a straightforward thing with no misconceptions.

    Lex

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I haven't but definitely would should the occasion arise. I've been single for awhile now and have thought about it when I am seriously in the mood and my fuck buddies are no where to be found. I suspect that it is going to happen sooner than later. I have been spending alot of time in Maui, Kona, and Honolulu and I think I might give it a shot sometime soon.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    why do that when you can log on to adam4adam or even use this site to do what you're thinking about for free? you are NOT guaranteed to get your rocks off with an escort and you're losing money. you might as well meet up with someone from grindr, a4a, jub or elsewhere and hang out. don't get an escort unless you're sure of what you want to do with him.
    for most guys, adam4adam, grindr, etc... are just a ton of hassle.

    flakes, guys who aren't into what you're into, psychos, guys who just want to talk when you want to fuck, guys who just want to fuck when you want to talk... I've never hired an escort myself, but I can see the appeal in having near-complete control over an uncomplicated situation (and probably with a hotter guy than one might be able to attract on their own)

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I've never hired an escort, but I don't see anything wrong with it. it's really no different than getting a haircut. You are paying for a service, that's all.

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    There are a few things you need to consider.

    (1) Escorts are people, too. If you're going to go ahead getting one, keep this in mind.

    (2) Having said #1, being an escort is a profession. I've known a few guys who hired an escort and then lost sleep over it from feeling sad that they felt attracted to the escort but realized that chances are they will never be able to get that escort. This doesn't hold true for everyone. I'm sure a lot of guys can get an escort and not feel a thing the next day. But for some guys, it's hard to ignore the physical and mental attraction that developed during the encounter. Make sure you're not the type that would develop feelings for the escort.

    (3) Having said #1 and #2, I suggest that you try out sites like adam4adam, grindr, plenty of fish, etc. Even if you have money to blow, you need to think about yourself and the long term.

    What do I mean by that? Most guys don't look like the escorts. I've dated guys of all sizes, ages, and types. And what I can say is this. One of my ex's was a soldier that had the soldier look (muscle, 6 pack stomach, etc.). After I dated that guy, I found it hard to date someone with less physical attractiveness. Call me shallow if you want. But I think that soldier guy ruined it for me. My current boyfriend, who I'd like to think is my permanent partner, looks like one of those twink types on an escort website.

    While I have never gotten an escort before, I can imagine that the effect of being with such a guy with such perfect body could have the same as me being with that soldier dude.

    Anyway, take it for what it's worth. If you've never been with a guy before, then shouldn't you try to find a date with a guy and get into the game rather than take the easy way in? Up to you, I guess.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Most of you seem to be painting a rosy picture of the underworld known as Male Prostitution.
    It can be a dangerous thing to partake in.. Some of those guys are on some sort of drug, and some may have STDs.
    Also, many of them use fake photos or pics that are years old.

    Just be careful.
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    Quote Originally Posted by -Kane- View Post
    Most of you seem to be painting a rosy picture of the underworld known as Male Prostitution.
    It can be a dangerous thing to partake in.. Some of those guys are on some sort of drug, and some may have STDs.
    Also, many of them use fake photos or pics that are years old.

    Just be careful.
    I'm so glad we have you here to tell us these things. (Nice font-work it.)

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Oh, bullshit. There's no shame in hiring an escort. If you want a very specific type of guy or a very specific type of interaction, there's nothing wrong with paying for it. I don't think the OP is under any illusions. He's not expecting the guy to fall in love with him or anything.

    Oh come on! Go and get it you sex machines. I can't understand how you don't believe you can get theese things for free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Oh, bullshit. There's no shame in hiring an escort. If you want a very specific type of guy or a very specific type of interaction, there's nothing wrong with paying for it. I don't think the OP is under any illusions. He's not expecting the guy to fall in love with him or anything.



    Thing is - if you're looking of a very specific type of guy, you can ask all you want...but they're not guaranteed to say yes. And with those guys, you have to take THEIR considerations on board. With an escort, it's a straightforward thing with no misconceptions.

    Lex
    First of all, I agree with you that there should not be any shame in hiring an escort. But the thing is the OP is only 26 years old. I say this is a really young age to not make any attempt at the gay dating rituals. Getting an escort can be addicting. Keep in mind that male escorts don't look like a normal guy. They usually have the perfect body and they are very clever and conscious at making you feel good about yourself. In other words, there won't be any effort on your part.

    The OP is 26 years old. Does he really want to rob himself of the opportunity of putting himself out there and join the fun with the rest of us?

    Like I said in another post, I know a few guys who have gone and got themselves escorts only to feel bad about it afterward. To the escort, money talks. But to the person who got the escort, it can feel like there's a connection.

    I just don't want the OP to do something he'd regret. He can take the easy route and shell out the cash to get an escort or he can put some effort into it and join in the fun with the rest of us. Get that, OP?

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by -Kane- View Post
    Most of you seem to be painting a rosy picture of the underworld known as Male Prostitution.
    It can be a dangerous thing to partake in.. Some of those guys are on some sort of drug, and some may have STDs.
    Also, many of them use fake photos or pics that are years old.

    Just be careful.
    No, it is not dangerous, or at least no more dangerous than meeting someone else. I have hired many, and have never met one I thought was on drugs. Anyone you have sex with could have an STD, and escorts are probably more careful than others since they have to be always conscious of the risk. Some use fake or old photos, most do not, because when they show up at the door they do not want to be sent away or experience rejection.
    The OP has not had sex with a man. Meeting an escort will simplify his first experience and make him more confident when he wants to get together with someone else.
    Some here have argued that you should not hire an escort because they are too good looking and it will spoil you for meeting someone else. That sounds like a good argument for giving it a try.
    Last edited by Benvolio; June 10th, 2013 at 05:40 AM.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by ZombieKiller View Post
    First of all, I agree with you that there should not be any shame in hiring an escort. But the thing is the OP is only 26 years old. I say this is a really young age to not make any attempt at the gay dating rituals. Getting an escort can be addicting. Keep in mind that male escorts don't look like a normal guy. They usually have the perfect body and they are very clever and conscious at making you feel good about yourself. In other words, there won't be any effort on your part.
    So instead, put a bunch of effort into finding a less-than-perfect guy who won't make you feel good about yourself?

    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Oh come on! Go and get it you sex machines. I can't understand how you don't believe you can get theese things for free.
    I didn't say you couldn't. I just think your odds increase dramatically when hiring an escort. And that's especially true if you're shy, awkward, or unsure of yourself.

    Lex

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Oh come on! Go and get it you sex machines. I can't understand how you don't believe you can get theese things for free.
    Things are harder if you aren't attractive. Hell, even I struggled to get laid nowadays.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LeicsDom View Post
    I think it is a very sensible way to get over that first step.
    Straights do it all the time.
    HA! It wasn't until I read this that I was reminded that I actually got a female escort when I was younger to get over those goosebumps.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Don't do it.
    You don't need money to get the attention of a hot guy. You need only to be yourself.
    It's that easy? Hahaha.

    Quote Originally Posted by Coward92 View Post
    Hiring an escort is degrading. Shows that you can get the attention you need only through cash.
    It's not that serious. It's not saying you can only get attention through cash, it's saying "I'm willing to pay to have things my way for a set of time."

    He'll be done this experience and go back to being just as desirable as he always was.

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    IDK tbh I get where you're coming from but I guess I'm the whole sappy sentimental type about 'first times' I would'nt do it but it's your life good luck

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by ZombieKiller View Post
    Keep in mind that male escorts don't look like a normal guy. They usually have the perfect body and they are very clever and conscious at making you feel good about yourself. In other words, there won't be any effort on your part.
    What? Looking at the men on rent guys I see a lot of decent good looking guys and many average nice ones too. Some have big dicks, some average, some are muscular, some are thin, some have gray hair, some are smooth. Much like the Sunday T Dance in July at any decent club.
    But I don't see all of these Greek mythical Gods you describe.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    So instead, put a bunch of effort into finding a less-than-perfect guy who won't make you feel good about yourself?
    Well, it's like school. For $30, you can have the answer sheet to this week's homework. Or you can do the homework yourself and at the same time train yourself for the test.

    You forget that whatever the escort says or does to you to make yourself feel good is just an act. I'm told that these guys will make you feel like the most special person in the world at the moment.

    From years of experience and some personal effort, I have gained a physically and mentally very attractive partner. He makes me feel like I'm the most special guy in the world. And he gives me BJ's without me even asking.

    So, if the OP wants to forego the mating dance and shell out the cash for a quickie, I say go for it. Just realize that at the end of the day he hasn't learned a thing and has gained little experience regarding the gay courting ritual.



    I didn't say you couldn't. I just think your odds increase dramatically when hiring an escort. And that's especially true if you're shy, awkward, or unsure of yourself.

    Lex
    My last 3 boyfriends, including my now partner, were all shy guys when I first met them. A few years before that, I was shy, awkward, and had no self confidence at all. Then one day I decided to take a plunge and try to court a guy. Got pretty close to him, or so I thought. Asked him to a dance, and he said yes. He totally stood me up. Ignored my calls and texts. I moved on. My second attempt was with a guy I met at a dance club. Got a number, too. He promptly rejected me as soon as I called the next day.

    I failed several more times before I got anywhere with an honest to god living breathing guy. With each failure in the past, I gained experience. And the combination of those experience gave me confidence.

    Not everyone got a good looking face and a hot body to show for it. I certainly never had a cute face or a hot body. But I never gave up.

    My first was a guy I knew who took pity on me. Yeah, he had pity sex with me. My first real catch was with a guy that weighed more than twice my weight. I was a skinny dude. After him, things took off for me. And eventually, I had enough experience and self confidence to sort after those guys that look like those models from magazines. Heck, one of my ex's was a fashion model. We broke up because he had to go to New York to pursue his acting career.

    The point is for some people the gay courting ritual is second nature. But for the rest of us, it's ridiculously difficult. Sure, I could have spent the money to get an escort. But at the end of the night, it was still an escort and I had not achieved anything.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by vulgar_newcomer View Post
    What? Looking at the men on rent guys I see a lot of decent good looking guys and many average nice ones too. Some have big dicks, some average, some are muscular, some are thin, some have gray hair, some are smooth. Much like the Sunday T Dance in July at any decent club.
    But I don't see all of these Greek mythical Gods you describe.
    You kidding me? Some of them are downright gorgeous.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I would head over to DaddysForums.com and check out their forums. They are dedicated to helping guys hire escorts.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    As a review of my prior posts will show, I eagerly defend escorts and their clients, having been an escort myself. Had many good experiences with many good men.
    But I'm responding for another reason. I looked at the pictures you posted three or so months ago, and I thought, there's no good reason why this guy can't look enormously better. He's 26 years old, it's never going to be easier for him the get in shape, harden up and put on some muscle. He should do it now. Change your diet and get to the gym. With discipline and consistency you can transform your body in three months. There are any number of online diet and exercise programs for you to look at, and youtube videos to provide direction and inspiration. You probably know the drill already. The energy you're putting into fantasizing about getting fucked should be going into creating a great body. Accomplish that, and you'll create many more opportunities for yourself, sexual and otherwise. You could start by cutting out the junk food. Your soft body looks like a junk food, high glycemic carb body. At 26 you're coursing with testosterone. It will never be easier. You shouldn't look this way. You can be the one who looks like a Greek god. One last piece of advice: shave your chest and abs.
    Last edited by LatimerRd; June 10th, 2013 at 09:42 PM.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by PABear View Post
    I would head over to DaddysForums.com and check out their forums. They are dedicated to helping guys hire escorts.
    Sorry, that should be DaddysReviews.com

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    I wasn't fully read your back story- pardon me. But now I see...it's related to your first time.

    TBH..you dont need to do with an escort, you just need to put up on your profile (honestly and thoroughly) and wait, let the applicants to contact you. It doesn't need escort, trust me..there are guys who understand your situation.

    Although...you might have more underlying problem?

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    If you can afford it, GO FOR IT!

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by ZombieKiller View Post
    You forget that whatever the escort says or does to you to make yourself feel good is just an act. I'm told that these guys will make you feel like the most special person in the world at the moment.
    Whenever I read arguments like these, I get confused.

    What person actually is paying for an escort to think that their actions are anything other than being paid for? Who actually deludes themself into thinking their escort is actually in love with them or attracted to them for any reason other than money?

    The idea is that you are attracted to their body and are willing to pay for a sexual arrangement that revolves around your needs alone--not that you are convincing yourself that they are into you.

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    I wouldn't hire an escort for any reason.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Basically, you want a live blow up doll to interact with you, only on your terms, without any possible attachments or consequences.

    Be careful what you wish for, you just might get it.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by ZombieKiller View Post
    Sure, I could have spent the money to get an escort. But at the end of the night, it was still an escort and I had not achieved anything.
    Except having sex (or spending time interacting) with a hot guy. Which, of course, is the OP's entire reason in doing this.

    Lex

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    Whenever I read arguments like these, I get confused.

    What person actually is paying for an escort to think that their actions are anything other than being paid for? Who actually deludes themself into thinking their escort is actually in love with them or attracted to them for any reason other than money?

    The idea is that you are attracted to their body and are willing to pay for a sexual arrangement that revolves around your needs alone--not that you are convincing yourself that they are into you.
    Well, what you said makes perfect sense. But human nature often times not logical. I know a couple guys that felt really down because they were actually into those escorts they hired.

    Just sayin'. Hire an escort if you want. Just keep in mind that at the end of the night you haven't gained anything. The escort is gone and you're alone again.

    I have a partner that is probably the most lovely and warm guy I have ever known in my life. The bonus is he also is pretty darn hot. He looks like one of those twinks off of an escort site. I've put a lot of effort into getting him. And I'm happy with the result. No need to empty my bank account for a couple nights of pleasure with no lasting effects.

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    Re: So I'm thinking of hiring an escort...

    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    Except having sex (or spending time interacting) with a hot guy. Which, of course, is the OP's entire reason in doing this.

    Lex
    As I explained before. It's like spending $30 to buy the answer sheet to a homework. You can either do this and gained points without any effort and suffer in the long run or you can do the homework yourself, gain the experience, and ace the exam.

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