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    What to do when yr BF is boring

    This is just a drunken rant if you don't mind. What do you do if yr BF has absolutely no fetishes (that you know of) and everytime you bring it up he either dismisses you or just isn't interested? Everyone who has seen my posts knows I'm into something but my BF is sooooo boring. He knows I'm into a few things but has no interest but vanilla sex! The only fetish he has is wanking with a few footy guys. And that's it! I wont even go into yummy undies or feet or everything else I've recently posted on here. I wouldn't even dare mention to him what I actually like. That would scare him to death! LOL. Any of you guys in the same situation?

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    Re: What to do when yr BF is boring

    You say you have an "open relationship."

    Find someone who can satisfy these needs.

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    Re: What to do when yr BF is boring

    Not sure since I think I am kinda similarly boringly vanilla like your bf. LOL! Maybe you can try explore it together with him? I think with the right guy, people can actually be "brought to the dark side".

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    LOL. Nope. He's as fucking vanilla as you can get. I've tried to tell him I like "undies" and "nipple pain", etc but he is just so fucking boring! Don't get me wrong, he's the greatest, most awesomest BF you can ever get (apart from the sex) but sex is just no go. No wonder I'm on these bloody websites... LOL

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    Re: What to do when yr BF is boring

    Fuck! He'd have a myocardial infarction if he knew about some of my fetishes. It would be nice to talk to him about this but no bloody chance! Anyone else had to deal with this?

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    LOL! I didn't know much "saint" gays that still exist in this world LOL! I am pretty sure he would eventually grow more comfortable of the idea. You can try watching funny gay movies with him. Since most gay movies have so much sex elements in them anyway lol. I was a super prude around my teens till 18. Then I get cultured shocked when my friends told me they are not virgins anymore and they have daily sex with their partners/and or they have sex toys lol.

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    Well said Scealle. Yes unfortunately they do still exist! But he's often on Squirt so he's not that prudish. Maybe it's me... Sigh

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    Re: What to do when yr BF is boring

    Lol well I am sure you guys will work them out Maybe for a start try finishing the QAF (US) series with him see what he feels. It's old but it's gold And it's very softcore porn-ish btw lol.

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    Re: What to do when yr BF is boring

    Then maybe you don't have as close as a relationship as you think if you can not openly discuss the wants and needs of the both of you.

    your in a open relationship so maybe find what you need outside of this, but then you'll hit the road block that you'll find someone that is really into your wants/needs and leave the vanilla bf and move on.

    One thing is life is to short and one should find what they need to make them happy in life. And if finding another bf is the thing than maybe that's best for both.

    My honey and I have been together for 29yrs this August and there is nothing that we can not talk about. If we want to do/try something diff then we try it and see how it goes but at least we gave it a try.

    his views and opposite of yours and that may never change, so are you ready for the long haul with him in situation? THINK about IT
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    @ Scaelle: QAF is AWESOME. I love that show. I like the UK one better tho because it the beautiful Nathan in it (even though he's now amazing as Jax in Sons of Anarchy). Although the US one is very good too

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    @racer: That's amazing you guys have been together 29yrs. Well done and that's so awesome! I envy u. We're not really I an open relationship but we "stray" sometimes which we both accept. We've just been in a rut for so long that we need... hmmm.. something else? I would NEVER EVER leave him and vice versa. I'm just getting hornier and have more fantasies as time goes on but there's no way in hell that I could ever even suggest some of the shit I like to him. I'm sure I'm not alone...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayden-Oz View Post
    @ Scaelle: QAF is AWESOME. I love that show. I like the UK one better tho because it the beautiful Nathan in it (even though he's now amazing as Jax in Sons of Anarchy). Although the US one is very good too
    What I like about UK Nathan is he has this classic pretty boy look but now grows into the really dirty blonde/manly scuffed look.
    While the other pretty blonde US Justin (Randy) still looks really youthful/pretty at almost late 30's. And don't Brian & Justin makes the perfect couple (How the hell is Gale Harold str8? LOL)

    For your bf you never know till you try Baby steps

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    Yeah well said. Nathan was so super cute in that series and played it very well indeed (especially the initial rimming segment - hot!). But even though he's not as cute anymore as he was then he's amazing in Sons. An absolutely great actor. And yes, Justin in the US series is really cute too and is also a good actor. I guess the US always tries to steal other series (sorry, no offence) like QAF, the NZ series Outrageous, and the UK Shameless, and it's almost always crap. They bleep out the swearing and sex and its always too stereotypical. I'm surprised there were no fucking annoying laugh tracks in those shows! They don't mind showing us murders and rape and blood but God forbid if someone says "shit" on national TV! :=)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jayden-Oz View Post
    @ Scaelle: QAF is AWESOME. I love that show. I like the UK one better tho because it the beautiful Nathan in it (even though he's now amazing as Jax in Sons of Anarchy). Although the US one is very good too
    Wait wait wait. Jax was on the UK QAF?!?!

    You have just given me a reason to watch the UK version. Excuse me!
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    Re: What to do when yr BF is boring

    If you have been together for 15 years and you still cannot talk about fetishes and what you like to do in bed, you may need some help. We have been together 30 years this July and there is nothing that is off limits when it comes to conversation and getting to know one another. However, it has not always been that way. Communication is so important and absolutely essential to any relationship. My partner was so vanilla and shy about sex that it almost destroy our relationship several times, but I am no fool and I know that sometimes people need a bit of encouragement. I have conquered!

    I started by talking to him about his fantasies and if he had any. I explained that the best way to get what you want is by asking for it. I also told him about everything I have done in the past, in detail and without leaving anything out. These kinds of chat got him so hot, that often he would end up with a raging hard on, sometimes I would provide relieve by having sex and other times and on purpose, I would simply change the subject and leave him to suffer with his frustrated hard on.

    Long story short, now I have molded my vanilla lump of clay into a sexual animal that is not afraid of trying anything. We have toys that we both enjoy, we have costumes and accessories and believe me, he has even manage to surprise me a few times with demands for nipple play, ass play and even golden showers.

    Believe me it can be done, and a lot of the fun can be in the trying part. Best of luck to you.

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    Re: What to do when yr BF is boring

    Quote Originally Posted by Jayden-Oz View Post
    LOL. Nope. He's as fucking vanilla as you can get. I've tried to tell him I like "undies" and "nipple pain", etc but he is just so fucking boring! Don't get me wrong, he's the greatest, most awesomest BF you can ever get (apart from the sex) but sex is just no go. No wonder I'm on these bloody websites... LOL
    Quote Originally Posted by Jayden-Oz View Post
    Well said Scealle. Yes unfortunately they do still exist! But he's often on Squirt so he's not that prudish. Maybe it's me... Sigh
    Hey, I can identify with you buddy. My partner and I have been together for many years. He is definetly more vanilla than me. I could have sex everyday, in a variety of positions, and with a number of fetishes. He is happy with an occasional blowjob. It's just a difference in personal style and needs. I don't think that any one person would ever satisfy all my needs. I remember that my previous boyfriends weren't sexually perfect either.

    It's good that you and your BF understand an occasional stray.

    I think that we're all on these websites for the same reason. We (some of us, anyway) want and need more sex. Hell, I'm on Squirt, too. And, XTube.

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    I had a boyfriend who was boring sexually but exciting and outgoing in other aspects, he was fun until it came to the bedroom. He had no fetishes and only liked to make love in missionary position in the bedroom. I tried to talk to him but he said that sex was supposed to be romantic and intimate not kinky. I ended up cheating on him and although I'm not proud of it, it ended up prolonging the relationship for a while.

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    Just do your fetishes one day. I'm sure he will enjoy the attention. Just don't do the more dirtier ones yet .

    My problem with the guy I am seeing is that he isn't always up for sex. He says he can't just turn it on and off. So I was sexually frustrated especially since he has been staying with me for the past 3 weeks. So the one day he left and stayed at his sisters, I invited a big 9" cock to come over and fuck me. Lucky for me, my guy fucked me the next day, then wanted some more last night but couldn't stay up. I think its time for some viagra . BTW he's 56 im 26. Guy in picture is in his 40's. Who knows where I can post a 40 second clip of him ramming me By the way, thats a liter bottle not 20oz lol

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    I'm the non-fetish guy in my relationship. I really like good, no-nonsense fucking, and I would gladly do that as often as humanly possible. It's not that I mind fetish accessories or whatever, but they seem like an unnecessary distraction, and it is a turn off if a guy depended on it to get off or enjoy his sex life.

    Happy to go along with it, but my own style is: I'm awake, you're awake. I'm horny, you're horny. Let's fuck. Wait, you need a (whip/restraint/outfit/toy/backstory/pony costume)???
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