May 21st, 2013, 09:23 AM
Pain is on my "List of nevers", which are pain, scat, blood, bondage, and fisting. That's not meant to be a reflection on people who enjoy those fetishes. I'm just saying they're not things that turn me on.
Funny thing is, when I've mentioned them to some people, they will sometimes ask, "in which order?", as if there are varying degrees of "never".
May 21st, 2013, 09:38 AM
I've had a few gf's that LOVED pain. They all have said the same thing: "I'm wired wrong".
A lot of it has to do with the release of endorphins, which is a natural high from brain chemicals responding to stimulation - both sex and pain. It just registers with some more than others.
May 21st, 2013, 09:53 AM
In Loving Memory
Many studies have shown that victims of childhood sexual abuse have an inordinate pain tolerance.
I was a victim of childhood sexual abuse. I have a very high pain tolerance. It has manifested itself in my sexual preferences.
May 22nd, 2013, 06:00 AM
Oh fuck yeah, me too! I enjoy a bit of pain play, mainly spanking or having my ass whipped, my balls tugged and I definitely enjoy having my nipples clamped! I draw the line at anything that results in blood or permanent marks though.
Originally Posted by Joe06877
May 22nd, 2013, 12:13 PM
Always fun to discover that a partner, m or f, likes it rough. More so when it's totally new to them, too, and they want more!
May 23rd, 2013, 12:20 AM
You honestly get more sexier the more I read your posts my friend. Haha.
I like a bit of nipple play and just before I cum a good squeeze of my balls, but nothing too out there.
May 23rd, 2013, 06:49 AM
This could have been written by me. These are exactly what I am totally not into. The only other one I wish I was into is rimming because alot of guys really like it. My husband wasn't into any of these either, except being rimmed which I would do for him. After 35 yrs., it wasn't a big deal to stick my tongue up his ass, but only because I loved him so much, I would do anything to make him happy.
Originally Posted by k94694me