I've been seeing this guy for a month. He's the most interesting guy I've ever dated, with great personality and intelligence. The downside is that he's leaving in several months back to his country.
We agreed on just dating but not to fall in love. However, we treat each other as a true couple, such as him introducing me to his friends, or us doing a lot of things together. At first I was a bit surprised because I was not expecting that much of commitment from his side, but he turned out to be a guy who does not fool around with relationship or feeling.
My problem now is that I know very well that I'm falling for him despite telling myself to keep a clear head. It's really difficult not to fall for him when we are dating like a couple. He even says really sweet words such as "leaving [my city] is so difficult now as I have someone to care for here". On one hand, it's so hard for me to not let my emotions overtake my reason. On the other hand, there are so many reasons not to fall for him, and I don't want to freak him out.
Has anyone been in such a situation? Should I just follow my emotions and I may just freak him out one day by blurting "I love you" or should I steer away from those feelings? :-(