So finally came out last March and so far it has been great. I've been meeting a lot of guys my age and fooling around. Most are from Grindr, but some have been people who I've known for a while that just happened to be gay/bi once I told them. I'm really happy with my life right now and finally enjoying some semblance of a social life for the first time.
However, I am having a MAJOR issue with premature ejaculation. I know this is probably normal for someone who is just getting into sex after being a banished semi-virgin before (my sexual encounters were few and far between up till now), but I'm still having such a hard time learning to control it. I'm not even trying to get it over with quickly. As soon as a guy goes down on me it feels amazing for a few seconds, and then I have to stop him because I know I'm gonna blow my load soon. The only time where I'm able to last is when I'm having sex when drunk; then I can last a little longer but still not nearly as long as the other guy I'm with.
After I blow the first time I'm usually still really horny and into it, however. But my penis still goes soft for a while and can take some time to get up. I've been kinda delegating myself as bottom most of the time because I blow before we get to the actual sex part, and then I can't get it up enough to stick it in.
I guess my main question is, how long should I go like this before worrying about it/seeing a doctor? (BTW I'm 20 years old). And in the meantime are there any quick tricks I could try that could stop this? It's really bothering me.