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    What should I do with this guy?

    Hello guys,
    Iím new to this site and looking for some advice, hope you can help me!

    A couple of months ago I met this great guy through an online dating site. We really hit it off and weíve met several times since then. He made no secret of the fact that heís a very sexual person and that he has a fuck buddy etc. I on the other hand have made it clear that I'm not looking for only sex. To emphasize that I just wanted to hang out with him a couple of times before getting physical. He also said that he was interested in more than just sex with me.

    At first we kept in touch between our dates every few days by texting, but after a month or so the he kind of stopped sending messages. He doesnít initiate conversations, but if I send him a message or suggest that we meet, heíll reply and heís never turned me down. When we meet heís full of affection that seems genuine. But after the meeting thereís silence that lasts until I break it.

    To add to the confusion, I recently happened to bump into his profile on another dating/chat site. On the site where we met it says that heís single and on this site it says he has a partner. Heís been active on both sites recently so itís unlikely that itís just an old profile that's no longer in use. Iím slightly confused now. He has told me that a lot has happened to him during the past few months before we met, but he hasnít elaborated what it is and it seems that the subject might be difficult for him.

    Could that be the reason for his behaviour, could he have a difficult break-up going on or something? Or am I just fooling myself and heís actually just a player who likes hanging out and having sex with me from time to time but is not interested in anything more? Do you think I should tell him that I bumped into that other profile? Iíd appreciate your thoughts on this!

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    Re: What should I do with this guy?

    I'd say talk to him about it. Be honest, but gentle. If this leads to him leaving you, then he didn't deserve to be with you in the first place.

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    Re: What should I do with this guy?

    Quote Originally Posted by quercus1 View Post
    Hello guys,
    I’m new to this site and looking for some advice, hope you can help me!

    A couple of months ago I met this great guy through an online dating site. We really hit it off and we’ve met several times since then. He made no secret of the fact that he’s a very sexual person and that he has a fuck buddy etc. I on the other hand have made it clear that I'm not looking for only sex. To emphasize that I just wanted to hang out with him a couple of times before getting physical. He also said that he was interested in more than just sex with me.

    At first we kept in touch between our dates every few days by texting, but after a month or so the he kind of stopped sending messages. He doesn’t initiate conversations, but if I send him a message or suggest that we meet, he’ll reply and he’s never turned me down. When we meet he’s full of affection that seems genuine. But after the meeting there’s silence that lasts until I break it.

    To add to the confusion, I recently happened to bump into his profile on another dating/chat site. On the site where we met it says that he’s single and on this site it says he has a partner. He’s been active on both sites recently so it’s unlikely that it’s just an old profile that's no longer in use. I’m slightly confused now. He has told me that a lot has happened to him during the past few months before we met, but he hasn’t elaborated what it is and it seems that the subject might be difficult for him.

    Could that be the reason for his behaviour, could he have a difficult break-up going on or something? Or am I just fooling myself and he’s actually just a player who likes hanging out and having sex with me from time to time but is not interested in anything more? Do you think I should tell him that I bumped into that other profile? I’d appreciate your thoughts on this!
    Leave him.
    He is just leading you on. Do yourself a favor and get rid of him. He just enjoys the attention and diversion you provide. He uses you for amusement, and if you happen to leave him alone he will just move on, because you don't matter to him at all.

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    Re: What should I do with this guy?

    He likes hanging out with you and having sex and is not looking for anything else from you. He either has a partner or uses that profile to alert other guys that it's DL hook ups that he's after. If want want more than what he's offering you ought to keep looking. If he was interested in being exclusive with you it would have already happened.
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    Re: What should I do with this guy?

    I'm confused -ARE you having sex, or are you still waiting. I can't tell from what you wrote.
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    Re: What should I do with this guy?

    I would move on. Sounds like a "user." (Rhymes with "loser.")

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