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    nervous and worried

    i just recently started dating this guy, and everything goes great, until we get to sex. he gets really nervous and worried about everything. foreplay is good but he falls short when anything starts to happen. he says that when he does the things by himself he is fine, but when i am around it hurts and makes him uncomfortable. i have told him that he needs to relax more, but he tells me that he doesnt know how. how would one go about practicing to relax?
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    Re: nervous and worried

    The best thing you can do is to create a comfortable environment for him. I would not be surprised in the least if he's both nervous and worried so that he can make it good for you. Build up his confidence. Take the lead. Those are just a couple of things you can do for starters. It's not easy to "just relax," like your partner suggests, so help him forget about being nervous. Good luck!
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    Re: nervous and worried

    Yes I agree, make him feel comfortable. Perhaps start with a little massage. The both of you should get to know each others bodies before getting real intimate. Maybe dance for him to get him in the mood. U said he finds it painful. If he's bottoming, have him try out a butt plug and plenty of lube. Never tried one out myself but I hear it really helps with any pain. The best thing is to be patient and understanding. Don't push too hard.

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    Re: nervous and worried

    Have a few foreplay only dates. What exactly scares him? Being penetrated? If that's the case allow him to take control of working it in.
    Last edited by Seasoned; May 11th, 2013 at 09:44 PM.
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