SO! I got out of the military 2 months ago and started dating this guy ive known for about 4 years, this have been ok, but a big issue has come up and i could use some help.
He works a set schedule and I work retail so mine changes every week. He knows i dont get my schedule until thursday. He has sat sun mon tues off. he made plans with friends on sat and mon which is fine, i found out my only day I can see him is monday. I brought a drinking problem back from being in the military so i have chosen to quit drinking and not go to bars. When he is with his friends all he wants to do is go to the bar. So I asked if he could ask his friends to switch to Sunday instead of Monday, he tells me no because he would be too tired from going out saturday night. So now I feel like im not a priority in his life that he cant even try to see me. So I called him adn explained how I felt and he said he will not change plans with his friends like he did all the time when he had his last boyfriend. So i am pretty much left to the side and feel like im not all that important to him, he wasnt even willing to find a alternate thing to do monday night rather than go to bars. So im just trying to decide if continuing dating him is a good idea, should I keep trying? thanks boys!