I am in United States, Ft Lauderdale. I have met a group of Ukrainian divers who are at a diving gathering. They speak Russian, and so do I. I found them on a gay beach. Turns out that they are for the most part, not gay. At least most of them are into girls and some do have girlfriends, and they did not know they were on the gay beach. And I bet still don't know they were, as I did not tell them.
They are busy with various training events and now, the competition events. I find it enjoyable to hang out with them, which I did three times now, and have not yet told them that I am gay, although they were some opportunities, but I guess I did not feel entirely comfortable revealing that yet, even that perhaps I should, and I do want to hang out with them and don't want to take a chance of them suddenly stopping our hang outs if they get scared off.
So, I have options -
* continue to hang out with them, without telling them I am gay, even though they are leaving soon, in 3-4 days, so just basically enjoy their company
* tell them I am gay with no other motive then just to come out to them, aka share a part of myself to them, and continue to hang out, if it so works out. Not intending, or warranting any hooking up activities
* come out to them somehow and try to gently yet actively hook up with one or more of them, aka hinting that I am interested more heavily than in the previous choice.
As I've mentioned, they have their competition on their mind and are mostly busy with themselves and their activities. They do not speak much English so I have been so far acting as a guide and a hang-out partner. They have talked about gay dudes in their country and in ours on one occasion. I have mentioned to them a nearby gay bar, on our walk, and they asked some questions about it and we moved on. They have been asking me about my life, whom I live with if I'm married, and if my friend buddy whom I live with is married, so maybe they were fishing more info out of me, or maybe not. So far they did not talk me into a corner where I have to come out, so I am basically "passing" for a dude without committing to my sexuality and avoiding coming out to them. I wonder if they wonder if I am gay or not.
So there, any suggestions as to how to proceed?