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    How much do I suck?

    No, not cock. A recently reacquired friend needed a ride today but I said NO.

    She used to be my roommate and was engaged to my best friend. When she and my roomy broke up she moved away, stopped texting me, and unfriended me on Facebook. Two weeks ago, after a three month hiatus, she started texting saying she wanted to hang out again. I decided to go with it and we have gone out clubbing the last two weekends.

    She wrecked her car on Monday and needed a ride to the repair shop today to pick it up. Girl lives an hour from me and it's another hour to her dad's repair shop. You call me at 7:30pm and want to drive around for over 4 hours?? I'm lazy and I have to work in the morning. GTFO


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    Re: How much do I suck?

    don't blame you

    ..I would've said no, myself

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    I don't blame you. I don't blame your best friend for braking up the engagement with her either.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Nope, don't suck, except sometimes...when you wanna...
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    Re: How much do I suck?

    I'm not sure you don't suck, but if you do, you have a right to.

    We help as much as we can, be it friends or family.

    When we reach our limit, we reach our limit.
    There are TWO kinds of people in the world -- the kind who believe there are two kinds of people, and the kind who don't.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Presumably there are some people you would drive four hours for.

    If you didn't help them, you would suck.

    What makes them different from this girl?

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Too soon back into the friendship for such a big ask.
    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Yep, after three months she waltzes back in your life and now she wants you to owe her something. Doesn't work like that...she's gotta earn you going the extra miles for her, so to speak!
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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Only in inches, which isn't what you're talking about.

    Only way I'd have done it is if she filled my tank.
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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Given the 4hr. "thingy", you were perfectly in your right to say, "NO!, Sorry!"

    However, about the Sucking "thing" ... Um ... that's a Different topic!

    I'd GLADLY drive the 14hr. it would take me to get to YOU!

    Keep smilin'!!
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    Re: How much do I suck?

    MP, you did the right thing.


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    Re: How much do I suck?

    My golden rule: Do unto others as they have done to you.
    Personally, I would help out a friend if they've been good to me in the past, but not if they've been assholes.
    A few months ago, I got my car stuck, and I couldn't get out no matter what I tried (My car gets stuck on a single snowflake!). I texted a friend who drives a 1 ton and has all the proper equipment (and lives 10 minutes away)... his response was "You're fucked". From now on, he can go to hell. I had to call a tow truck, and that cost me about $50.

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    I'd have helped her, but that's just the kind of friend I am.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    If you'd been her only hope you should have taken her. But you say it's her dad's repair shop. He couldn't arrange transport for his daughter? Maybe she's 'unfriended' him too.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    she's a "user" dude, distance yourself---before you know it she'll want her bloody pussy sucked and then where will you be bruh?
    okay bye!

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    I'd have helped her, but that's just the kind of friend I am.
    run and play cupidboy, the grownups are tryna talk lad
    okay bye!

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    If she were male and hot, then maybe. Guy's gotta have standards, though.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Not at all. I would do the same. That is just too much for someone who threw away a friendship once. People sometimes just don't think further than the end of their nose.
    I may be bad, but I'm perfectly good at it.



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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Quote Originally Posted by ShihTzuTylenol View Post
    run and play cupidboy, the grownups are tryna talk lad
    Please don't patronize me for being young and having an opinion on a subject.

    This is getting as old as.......
    Last edited by CupidBoy; May 9th, 2013 at 05:39 AM. Reason: Keeping it cute

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Everyone has the right to do what they want to do so there was, I would agree, no reason for you to say yes.

    But, yes there is always a but; kindness is doing something you don't want to do to people you can't be bothered to help.

    You will feel guilty about this I am certain.
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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Quote Originally Posted by MidnightPrism View Post
    You call me at 7:30pm and want to drive around for over 4 hours??
    Clearly, this is a "me, me, me" & "I want it now now now" mentality. She did not take your time & your work schedule into consideration. Trust me, not having a car for an extra day is NOT the end of the world. I've been there. This is not a health emergency situation. If she needs your help, she should have made plans with you ahead of time or give you an option to take her to the repair shop tomorrow so you could plan ahead.

    As a mature adult, the lack of planning on her part (to get you to help her) does not constitute an emergency on your part. Beggars can't be choosers.
    Last edited by HunterM; May 9th, 2013 at 07:58 AM.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    you did nothing wrong, as long as you declined politely, which I assume you did.
    You cant change the way the wind blow's, but you can change the angle of your sail to take you somewhere else!!

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    She unfriended you on FB, that's like un-take-back-able... I say you made the right call to let her down on that 4hr request.

    Besides, if her dad is a mechanic, shouldn't he be driving his pickup truck and getting his darling little missy himself?


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    Re: How much do I suck?

    If the car is at her fathers garage, why doesn't he drive the car to her, then she can drive him home while checking the car to make sure it's been repaired correctly?

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Quote Originally Posted by The Fly View Post
    If the car is at her fathers garage, why doesn't he drive the car to her, then she can drive him home while checking the car to make sure it's been repaired correctly?
    4 hrs trapped in a car with someone who has a crush on Midnight maybe...


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    Re: How much do I suck?

    If it had been an emergency I most certainly would have done it. She was at home, so it's not like I left her standing on the side of the road. I think she has maxed out on help from her parents as well.


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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Quote Originally Posted by MidnightPrism View Post
    If it had been an emergency I most certainly would have done it. She was at home, so it's not like I left her standing on the side of the road. I think she has maxed out on help from her parents as well.
    Well you're enough of a gentleman that should it have been an emergency, you would have done it. She was taking you for granted, and with what she did in unfriending you in the first place, who the hell was she to do that? Since she unfriended you for several months and just had tried to reconnect with you, she hadn't re-earned your friendship to that degree you be at her beck and call so hell no way you suck...in the not so nice way!
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    Re: How much do I suck?

    That will teach the bitch to unfriend you on Facebook.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    I would have said no too. After everything that's happened, she doesn't seem like much of a friend
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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Nope you don't suck. I would probably do the same. She's just milking whatever she can get from you in my opinion.

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    I like to help out a friend and alll, but damn... some notice, maybe? That's a lot to ask on short notice. I'm with the OP.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    I don't know why but I am beginning to feel sorry for the poor girl. She can't be such a self-centred bitch as we are all assuming she is.

    I don't really understand Face Book but it seems de-friending someone should be a capital crime.
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    ^ Oh wait. I didn't put 'lol' after my previous post.

    A De-friending on Facespacebookpage is about the 21st century equivalent of defenestration.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    I would have said no too. Although not having a license means no one asks crap like that of me anyway.

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    That will teach the bitch to unfriend you on Facebook.
    lol! straight to the face!

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    Re: How much do I suck?

    how much do you suck? like a mosquito, gotta slap you to stop. XD okay I know you said not cock but I had to say that.. sorry

    back to topic, you don't suck.

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