1. Versatile of the "it depends on the guy and my mood" variety
2. I prefer long, slow, deep strokes to start, then some in and out teasing and finishing off with some fast paced, hard, deep thrusting. I'm usually very vocal, telling my guy to go harder and harder.
3. Standing up, preferably in front of a mirror so I can see him slamming into me. I also find that in this position my prostate gets a good slamming making me leak like crazy.