Hey so I'm half way done getting my degree in Management. I decided and set my heart on one day moving out of my small town in NY, moving down south, and owning a bar/club.
I'm a musician, I produce and write my own songs and realistically speaking I know the music industry isn't doing well now but a bar would allow me to DJ and mess with music and actually use my degree as well.
Now me and my best bro are both 21. He's a DJ as well, we're both Puertorican so we love the same music, same food, same types of girls, both have a mind and passion for business and both have the same dream of owning a bar/club.
Except I feel like I'm the only one of us that has enough drive to meet my goals and he doesn't.
He's like motivationally bipolar. One minute he's all into the idea of owning a business, and then out of the blue he just complains, wants to get high, and talks about going back to working for his dad in the family business (which I know for a fact he hates, and only wants to because he sees it as the easy option)
My question to you is what can I say or do to my friend? I don't wanna lose my best bro but at the same time, I don't wanna be surrounded by people who are so negative towards themselves, that it makes me doubt my own abilities. What can I do to fix this?