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    What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    If it's with people, i try to remove myself from the situation and calm down, though i have taken a swing at a couple of folks in the past.

    So what do you do when the red mist descends ?

    Are you angry with anyone at the moment, perhaps even a company or political party ?
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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    Depending on the situation I throw things, curse, yell, I might punch a wall or a person .... other times I use the punching bag on the patio. Some times I write and just get all the frustration out that way.

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    Shut my mouth and glare. Then walk away and take deep breaths.
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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I'm not a very angry person but when I do get angry I try to remove myself from the situation or avoid the situation in the future. Most times it isn't worth get upset about so I try to not let things get to me.

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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I get quiet, and retreat in my mind, usually making me angrier as I dwell on why I was angry and want to be in total silence. I focus on my thoughts until something distracts me and I forget (for a little while) about being angry. Though even the smallest thing can make me remember even if years later and the anger in me is just as strong. Sad, but true, and something I am trying to work on. I find it hard to forget, I may forgive, but I will always remember.
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    Fume about it for abit. Maybe make some twisted scenarios in my mind about killing said person over and over again. Then read a book or draw and basically ignore the person that pissed me off.

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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I've mellowed with age and generally will take a deep breath and walk away from the situation. Not so in my past though, I used to throw things and get very loud vocally. If my anger was brought on by some inanimate object that I was having issues with, said object usually met a dire fate (usually flight lessons across the room). With people, I would get quite vocal, but not physical.

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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    If it's with people, i try to remove myself from the situation and calm down, though i have taken a swing at a couple of folks in the past.

    So what do you do when the red mist descends ?

    Are you angry with anyone at the moment, perhaps even a company or political party ?
    I try to get away from the situation too

    and when I do get away from it, I have to get involved in something distracting to take my mind off of it for a while, or I'll stew over it

    sometimes I come to Jub,...watch a movie or something

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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    Quote Originally Posted by johaninsc View Post
    I try to get away from the situation too

    and when I do get away from it, I have to get involved in something distracting to take my mind off of it for a while, or I'll stew over it

    sometimes I come to Jub,...watch a movie or something
    I listen to some music or go for a run.
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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I go jack off

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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    Sometimes I can't get away from what pisses me off, especially if I am at work. If I am at home I usually just lock myself in my room and carry this aura of "leave me alone"

    If I am at home could get in my car an go somewhere, but that uses up my gas and right now gas ain't exactly cheap, but if I really need to get away I will.
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    I always try to walk away from a situation that upsets me, if I get really pushed I can become violent with yelling and throwing things, but that doesn't happen often.

    If someone I really like is angry at me it can make me cry, especially when I don't know what to do to fix it.

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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    If i get mad, i just shut down my mind, and just walk way.. or If i am really angry, i would blow up and yell at someone until I feel better..
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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I decide how important it is to be angry about whatever it is and then act accordingly.

    If it's somebody that's pissing me off and I feel like it could get repetitive, I tell them to knock it off and shove it in as many colorful words.

    If it's road rage or something similar, I take a breath and laugh at the absurdity of it all. Turn the music up just a bit more, and be thankful that I'm alive and relatively healthy.
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    I strap on a bomb and blow myself up. I'm looking for a new outlet though, that one seems to get negative reactions from most people when I do it.
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    Yes I mad that Gary didn't win Big Brother.

    I usually throw my shoes at the wall or cuss. I then flash my dick at people on chat roulette.
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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I resort to hiding in my flat and get wasted when I'm angry. Probably a terrible way to go about it.. but it seems to work.

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    I resort to verbal abuse and if he succeeds to push me further, physical violence.

    If its a woman, I avoid direct confrontation and do stuff that will make her uncomfortable, preferably without her knowing about it.
    Women have this wonderfully annoying ability that they possess the support of the crowd only because they are women, so it is never a good idea to face them in public or amongst friends. There is just no chance whatsoever that a woman can ever be wrong and you can be right. Forget it. They are right, even if they are wrong.
    If they make me angry I find waays to channel that anger and ruin their day.

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    I get quiet.

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    I shout and swear, or if it's someone I can't shout and swear at, I get snarky and sarcastic and don't let it go for many moons. I also tend to mutter a lot afterwards, for a long time afterwards.

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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I must damage something- usually stuff
    'question is...really angry right?

    If Im really angry I must making hole on the wall, better than I hit target.

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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I go for a run which gives me time to be alone and think, soon I'm no longer angry.
    In extreme cases I might just hit the gym and take it out on a punching bag, that always helps
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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I break things which can be costly at times. Example, worst case: I slammed my medicine cabinet door and the mirror broke (I don't remember what got me off). I put the broken cabinet in the garage. The next day, I backed out of it and the medicine cabinet was sticking out just enough so that it scrapped and dented the rear fender. Cost to fix the drama was $1500, which I had to pay out of pocket (claim would have jacked the premium).

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    I usually suck it up and push past it. But I've found that bottling things up is unhealthy. So if I'm not able to resolve the issue, I meditate until I'm calm.

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    When I feel rage I'll go out for a walk to clear my head while listening to some good music, that usually does the trick
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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    It takes a lot to make me angry, but when I am, I tend to clam up. I think it comes from being raised in a violent household and not knowing how to deal with it. While I will eventually express myself, usually after a time of reflection, I have learned to understand that most things are not worth my anger and certainly not my resentment.

    Doing something physical also helps to let off steam.
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    Re: What Do You Do When You Get Angry ?

    I usually just walk away, but when I was younger I'd start throwing punches. Thankfully as I've matured I've realised most things aren't worth getting angry over, and it wont change anything anyway. So I just walk away and figure a way to change it, fix it, or fuck it. It's not worth the aggravation.

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