I am a bi/bi-curious male and I have a buddy who is 10 years younger then I, (we work a part time job together) He messed up at work and I had to take care of something for him. When he text me a few nights later he said " if I give you a hj (hand job) will you not be mad. of course I took this as a joke. I replied well if you were serious maybe but it's a joke so no. Well after a few texts he kept saying I'm serious in so many words. I said ok but no backing out, and he said "down". then we went back and forth like when and where kind of stuff. So I asked again so you are down and he said super. I asked what does that mean and he replied "really down", " let's do this" I asked for real? he said for real. SO now I am thinking holy shit, this might happen.... I asked so are you bi or curious he said curious. I asked what he was doing and he said just chillin. I asked want to just do this now? and he said let's do this....and told me to come to his place. Said I had to shower and will come over and again asked you sure? and he said "down" grab beer too. So I grabbed a quick shower and headed out. Could not believe this might happen. So half way there he kinda freaks and says wow not sure I'm serious, to which I said ok we can just drink. Long story short he pulls the plug saying he's at his place then he left. I just said no worries and went home. He text me later that night/morning and said whoa the shit he smoked was strong. Said he was talking with this girl. I told him I was jerking off at home and said Skype me if you want to see what I was doing. He kept saying he was trying but couldn't get it to work. I left it alone. The next day he text me sorry bro i was super wasted. I said not a problem and joked about it. I don't worry it was just me he let the secret out to, he said lol fuck. I have asked him a week later if he cared he told me he was curious and he said not at all. So here is my question, been joking about it but also trying to get it started. Sometimes he still says he is down, others he avoids it. I do not want to push it of course but what do you think I can do to get him over the reservations.