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    there's not enough of them. let's celebrate the fails.
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    that's so mean. celebrate in someone else's failure :/

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    Quote Originally Posted by kindabikindagay View Post
    that's so mean. celebrate in someone else's failure :/
    nobody died or got injured so who cares.
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    If they are on Youtube, obviously, they are meant to be shared. If you don't want to share your own failures. Then don't broadcast your dirty laundry for the world to see.

    When people propose in front of lots of people and in front of a video camera, CLEARLY, they want the attention. Well...these guys got the attention...not how they had imagined. But they got the attention nonetheless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    If they are on Youtube, obviously, they are meant to be shared. If you don't want to share your own failures. Then don't broadcast your dirty laundry for the world to see.
    exactly, don't know why some of these people feel the need to put their business outthere doing public marriage proposals.
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    Must...fill...with positivity!!! With a well-choreographed wedding proposal gone RIGHT!


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    That's very sad.

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    Real sad.

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    There's a failure in communication in these relationships.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kien View Post
    Must...fill...with positivity!!! With a well-choreographed wedding proposal gone RIGHT!

    what would have been better is showing a couple who got married either 10 or 20 years ago celebrating their wedding anniversary. most marriages in america are ending in divorce. let's see that for a change. too many people want to get married BUT can't handle that shit. yet us gay people can't get married because it might ruin the "sanctity" of marriage as if it isn't already ruined.

    Quote Originally Posted by CupidBoy View Post
    That's very sad.
    i know. it would be even sadder if they all said yes to a marriage proposal but no to a prenup agreement. protect your assets.
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    Bender...don't say no...in front of witnesses. Or get rid of those witnesses.

    * run out of this thread first *
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    lol, I looked at the YouTube comments - as one of them said, I think it's kind of selfish when a guy makes a public spectacle out of the whole thing and lays pressure onto a girl to say yes by suddenly having like a thousand people watching her.

    But I DO feel sorry for the poor guys. Hopefully they weren't too devastated.

    Vaguely reminds me of a few occasions on U.K. game shows a decade or two ago when the host would say to a couple at the beginning something like "So, Jack, I believe you might have an announcement for Jill tonight?" and he would say something like "Well, we'll see how the game goes."

    In other words - I'll marry you if I win some money - if I don't, forget it. I always found that a bit fake and shallow. I mean, isn't there a line that says 'for richer, for poorer'?

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    Quote Originally Posted by ChickenGuy View Post
    lol, I looked at the YouTube comments - as one of them said, I think it's kind of selfish when a guy makes a public spectacle out of the whole thing and lays pressure onto a girl to say yes by suddenly having like a thousand people watching her.

    But I DO feel sorry for the poor guys. Hopefully they weren't too devastated.

    Vaguely reminds me of a few occasions on U.K. game shows a decade or two ago when the host would say to a couple at the beginning something like "So, Jack, I believe you might have an announcement for Jill tonight?" and he would say something like "Well, we'll see how the game goes."

    In other words - I'll marry you if I win some money - if I don't, forget it. I always found that a bit fake and shallow. I mean, isn't there a line that says 'for richer, for poorer'?
    it seems like it's more of a calculated move by proposing in public because they know that she/he won't reject them. pressuring someone into marrying them is inconsiderate and abusive. why do people have to propose to get married anyway? why can't it be something that both people agree on and just do? does it have to be a big deal?
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    it's hard to find gay marriage proposal fails on youtube. marriage equality needs to be legalized in america to equalize the amount of rejected gay marriage proposals with the straight ones.
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    so beautiful. what a way to come out.
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    How sad for the poor guys. But if you are willing to take the risk by proposing in public, you have to be ready for both answers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    There's a failure in communication in these relationships.
    I find it hard to believe that a marriage proposal would come as much of a surprise to anyone. I mean, you are in love and in a relationship, I would assume that the topic of marriage has come up.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    How sad for the poor guys. But if you are willing to take the risk by proposing in public, you have to be ready for both answers.
    one interesting thing is if the relationships continue on after the marriage proposal gets rejected. the way some of the dudes act, it's almost like they broke up or something.
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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    one interesting thing is if the relationships continue on after the marriage proposal gets rejected. the way some of the dudes act, it's almost like they broke up or something.
    Quite true. If they did break up after a proposal rejection, then you know the relationship was probably never that healthy anyway. Almost as crazy as "If i win a million dollars, I will marry you" type of deal.

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    one interesting thing is if the relationships continue on after the marriage proposal gets rejected. the way some of the dudes act, it's almost like they broke up or something.
    Maybe they weren't ready so they postponed it to another date? I think most people's heart would shatter into a million pieces if it happened to them. Wouldn't it be awkward if they rejected the proposal though. Esp if they are still together. Hey so remember that day you rejected my proposal? Hmmm........

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    Quote Originally Posted by Scealle View Post
    Maybe they weren't ready so they postponed it to another date? I think most people's heart would shatter into a million pieces if it happened to them. Wouldn't it be awkward if they rejected the proposal though. Esp if they are still together. Hey so remember that day you rejected my proposal? Hmmm........
    I get your point but I do have a friend that accepted a proposal from her then boyfriend on the second-go-around. I'm sure it was awkward when she rejected his first proposal, but they stuck it out and she decided to say yes on the second try. It wasn't out of pressure either...she told me she realized that he was a great guy and may lose him forever if she said no again. They are happily married today.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    Quite true. If they did break up after a proposal rejection, then you know the relationship was probably never that healthy anyway. Almost as crazy as "If i win a million dollars, I will marry you" type of deal.
    exactly, a rejected marriage proposal is a whole lot better than an unhappy couple getting married only to get divorced later. they're receiving a huge favor being told no.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Scealle View Post
    Maybe they weren't ready so they postponed it to another date? I think most people's heart would shatter into a million pieces if it happened to them. Wouldn't it be awkward if they rejected the proposal though. Esp if they are still together. Hey so remember that day you rejected my proposal? Hmmm........
    they shouldn't take it the wrong way. maybe they're not ready or everything is happening too soon.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dereperez View Post
    I get your point but I do have a friend that accepted a proposal from her then boyfriend on the second-go-around. I'm sure it was awkward when she rejected his first proposal, but they stuck it out and she decided to say yes on the second try. It wasn't out of pressure either...she told me she realized that he was a great guy and may lose him forever if she said no again. They are happily married today.
    Wouldn't know if people would survive the 2nd rejection. Shattering hearts twice?
    That's pretty sweet to hear that they are doing great


    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
    they shouldn't take it the wrong way. maybe they're not ready or everything is happening too soon.
    You are right. I'd be weird of someone date you for a few weeks and ask you to marry them the next. But hey some people move fast.
    I had a classmate (junior) who just started dating a girl, and on the 5th day, she brought him to a family dinner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by refujiunderground View Post
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    it's hard to find gay marriage proposal fails on youtube. marriage equality needs to be legalized in america to equalize the amount of rejected gay marriage proposals with the straight ones.
    That's probably the strangest argument I've heard for same-sex marriage.

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    Most of us have known guys or gals who were entirely delusional about their relationship statuses.

    In the first video posted by the OP, it wasn't even clear that the couple was actually dating, although could have been. He nattered on about how she ate her cupcake. It wouldn't be hard to imagine him being in a stalker-like delusion, although that's not required. Frankly, she would have been within her rights to decline based on that choice and rendering of Sweet Caroline.

    The fact that the guys could propose in public and not know the answer before asking almost proves they have deluded themselves, as no one who has any doubt is going to publicly ask a partner. I'm not psychologist, but it would seem likely that these guys sublimate their doubts and self-esteem issues, essentially living in a house of cards.

    Sadly, these rejections only occur because the girl has a strong will and sense of self, reminding us that many other couples DO get married when the mix is not right, but cave to the pressure to get married (pressure from their own desperation, family expectation, social competition.)
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    This would be my biggest fear, proposing to someone and them saying no.

    But then again I probably wouldn't be all flashy about it and do it in public in front of so many people.
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    For most couples, a rejected marriage proposal IS tantamount to a break-up. I personally know a few couples where te guy proposed and was turned down (albeit not publicly), and in all cases, the relationship ended immediately or soon after. The turn-down gets the guy thinking "maybe I'm with the wrong girl if she won't marry me", or he feels he has to break up to "salvage hs pride".

    Only tangentially related, but a college friend of mine was engaged to a woman years ago. They picked a date not quite a year in the future, then set about booking a venue. The place that they really wanted to get married in was booked that weekend, so he tentatively booked for a date a month or two later - they didn't see the big deal, since nothing had been set in stone yet. No invitations were sent, or anything like that. The father of the woman flipped out though. He accused my friend of intentionally delaying the wedding to...well, I'm not sure what. But the father got a bunch of family members together, including the bride-to-be, and gave him an ultimatum. "Either you marry my daughter on the day you first selected, or you do not marry my daughter at all." My friend asked his fiancee "Are you with them on this?" And she meekly said yes. So he turned to the father and said, "OK, I choose not to marry her at all." He walked out, and from what I understand, they never spoke again.

    And while I can't claim to enjoy watching these videos, as pointed out, they're often using peer pressure to get a "yes" from a girl they might not otherwise get one from. I wonder how many girls say "yes" in public to this sort of proposal, then tell them "no" privately once they get home.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kester View Post
    This would be my biggest fear, proposing to someone and them saying no..
    I can't see that happening.

    It would be great to learn a JUBBER had proposed. We never hear that on here.

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