I am not meaning to be insensitive here, but am just curious.
I've seen the website and videos of this guy - http://www.lifewithoutlimbs.org/ - who was born with no arms and legs. He travels the world as a motivational speaker and has learned to do a lot of things on his own like move around and talk on the phone - a lot of ordinary things that we all do in our daily living.
I'm curious how someone like him goes to the bathroom or pleasures himself. What does one do in those situations? I imagine he needs help getting dressed - putting and shirt on, which takes some dexterity and some strength. Who do you think he has to help him with these sort of things - someone like a personal assistant? I know there are people would would be assistants like that to help someone like an elderly person use the toilet, so that's not so unusual, and they aren't there to do anything sexual. But what does this guy do to satisfy his sexual urges besides doing his everyday bathroom business?
Maybe a good comparison would be quadriplegics who still have all of their limbs but can't use them at all. How do they get along in these matters?