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    Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    I have never been with a guy before as I have posted ....being straight and ridiculously curious(and horny of course), I really want to have a guy go up my ass..
    So will lots of lube make it less painful? I do finger my hole every now and then, but I know a finger is not a cock!
    Being on all fours, cheeks spread and up in the air sounds so hot... Gotta feeling my tight hole is going to be really sore after the first time..yes?

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    If i were you or if i was with you i would prep you alot before the intial sex but it would still probably hurt and be sore after but prepping is a must and i would do it alot b4 i entered you. (kisses)

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by vampsrock1992 View Post
    If i were you or if i was with you i would prep you alot before the intial sex but it would still probably hurt and be sore after but prepping is a must and i would do it alot b4 i entered you. (kisses)
    Good advice..thanks!

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    physical irritation can cause some inflamation, so if you are in pain after the fact, ibuprofen can help. i am yet to bottom, but i when i do, i might premed and take some before bottoming (they do the same thing with surgery, give a patient some NSAIDs right before cutting to stay ahead of the inflimation) lol.

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by njcollegekid View Post
    physical irritation can cause some inflamation, so if you are in pain after the fact, ibuprofen can help. i am yet to bottom, but i when i do, i might premed and take some before bottoming (they do the same thing with surgery, give a patient some NSAIDs right before cutting to stay ahead of the inflimation) lol.
    Ouch..my hole is hurting just thinking about it!

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by SWEETASSDUDE View Post
    Ouch..my hole is hurting just thinking about it!
    Lol you should be fine just relax lots of rimming you will feel ur ass relax then you will know you are ready remember if any discomfort stop ... This shouldn't hurt at all !

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Relax, Lube it up, don't rush the fucking. Have the guy really get you feeling good.

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    If you are going to have Anal for the 1st time then the most painless position is on your side with your knees drawn up , just like they
    do when you have a prostate exam , as said before plenty of water-based lube (does not rot the Condom) then when you feel more
    comfortable , let your mind take over , the 1st time depending on how gentle the guy is will be a little sore .

    Though once both your Sphincters are relaxed.............,, .

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    ^ Hmm...I don't understand. Could you demonstrate it for me?

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    It's not that difficult from a top's perspective.

    You start with your tongue, work a finger in there, after a bit put another finger in there and, depending on how big the guy is, work a third finger in there too. Once you've got three fingers in the guy is loose enough to take it.

    Sure it's gonna hurt but no pain, no gain.

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by HunterM View Post
    ^ Hmm...I don't understand. Could you demonstrate it for me?
    Aww Hunter , you taught me that...... , don`t tell me you were joking... . .

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    I have been told it hurts initially so don't try and take the whole cock all the way; when I have devirginized guys it was after many drinks and some shower or pool fun and a long rim session and lots of sliding of my cock in their crack teasing their hole. My experiences are that we start in a spoon position with him on the side to start initially allowing his hole to open up and adjust to my head inside then I have them sit on my cock as they can control the depth of my insertion and then I flip them over and look in their eyes as I hit the spot and watch their eyes roll back.

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    I like to have the guy on his back with his legs bent towards his chest. This way I can tease his nipples, abs, etc while a slowly slide it in with lube and keep his mind off of it. After I get it in, I let it stay there while I continue to tease. Once he's used to me "being there" I go to town, slowly at first.

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by bijockdude View Post
    I have been told it hurts initially so don't try and take the whole cock all the way; when I have devirginized guys it was after many drinks and some shower or pool fun and a long rim session and lots of sliding of my cock in their crack teasing their hole. My experiences are that we start in a spoon position with him on the side to start initially allowing his hole to open up and adjust to my head inside then I have them sit on my cock as they can control the depth of my insertion and then I flip them over and look in their eyes as I hit the spot and watch their eyes roll back.
    That sounds hot! I can imagine that you're a great top!

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    When I get an anal virgin I make sure he knows that I'm fine with him controlling the depth and speed, etc. I've found the new bottom takes to it much better and we get to much better fucking when he knows he can trust me to not hurt him. Just lay down a few rules to the guy you want to fuck your for the first time, and walk if he doesn't agree to to them.

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Yeah, being on your side with your knees curled up is definitely the best position to start in. I was devirginized this way and it didn't hurt at all. Granted the dude was like 5" and skinny, but still...

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Great advice... Just need the lube and a willing cock

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    come over to my place, id love to play with that ass

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    It definitely needs some attention!

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    So what exactly is driving you to get fucked? I'm not making fun of you...just curious? What do you imagine you are going to get out of it?

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Quote Originally Posted by tomhrdhat View Post
    So what exactly is driving you to get fucked? I'm not making fun of you...just curious? What do you imagine you are going to get out of it?
    Well, I do like fingering my hole..so........

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    sexual desire is the main thing, i think, lol.
    your not from nj by any chance are you?

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    I must be weird because bottoming ALWAYS hurts for me. No matter how long a guy "preps" me down there it hurts.
    That is so fetch!

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    Well, I think my asshole is ready!

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    I haven't been entered that many times, but I think this helps: my instinct was to squeeze my anal muscles IN (for obvious reasons). But that just makes the cavity tighter and more painful. I realized I needed to push my muscles OUT, as if I was having a bm. Felt much less painful -- and NO, I didn't have an elimination, having gone to the bathroom -- and cleaned myself-- earlier.

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    I hope my sweet pussy ass can handle it the first time!

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    You'll probably be a little sore, but the advice to prepare with toys is a good call. The two biggest things to remember are:... don't tense up... and don't tense up. Ive taken it comfortably from some pretty well endowed men, then taken another smaller guy uncomfortably because I wasn't relaxed. Lube is important too of course....

    On the bright side, there really IS a male G-spot. Its not common, but I've actually been fucked skillfully enough that I climaxed spontaneously.

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    This is also why toys help a lot. Find a small dildo and work up.

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    Re: Ok, so is this really going to hurt?

    It always hurts...at first. Always sore (in a great way) afterwards.

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