What do I do?

[mikey3000]

I think my new work partner has a little crush on me.

He is a beautiful kid who can be a little cranky at times, but he and I get along great. He often calls me beautiful and sweet heart in front of other co workers. A few days ago I found out he is refusing any other assignments at work and only wants to work with me. Now I haven't declared my sexuality to anyone at work but I have made some gay positive comments in situations that called for them, and got no negative responses at all. One time someone even confused us as father and son and he was totally flattered. I was stunned. He really is that beautiful looking. Did I mention he's 24 and has an ass to die for? He caught me looking at his undies when he bent over and proceeded to tease me all day.

Did I mention I'm old enough to be his father?!?!?!? Oh man!! I'd never touch him as it's a work relationship, but I'm just happy to spend all day looking at him and having him as a great friend, but the electricity between us is becomming more palpable by the day and I'm getting nervous. Oh, and a few times he said he didn't care if I was gay, but he says he's straight.

What say you?

[TheSpectatingLoner]

My initial response: He needs to realize it's work, be more professional, no how to talk to you in front of others, and not make work decisions (like refusing other assignments) based on his lust for you.

My response after you described his ass: Maaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaan you better stop playin' and hit that shit!!!

[BENDERBOY]

Fuck his brains out, it won't take long.

Though to be serious for a sec, i haven't got a clue what you should do.

NAIL HIM.

[mikey3000]

Fuck his brains out, it won't take long.

Though to be serious for a sec, i haven't got a clue what you should do.

NAIL HIM.

I have totally fantasized about it many times, but I couldn't. Could I?... Oh man!!! He even calls me his bromance. I'm so flattered. He is like, model material and I'm not even close to his standard, I'm sure. That's why I'm shocked and at a loss.

[ChickenGuy]

Your status says.... married?

[kaBOIng]

I wish I had a co-worker like that... All of the gay boys in my town are so deep in the closet that they would bash another gay boy just to keep their sexuality a secret.

[Scealle]

He sounds hot lol. Though on a serious note work relationship is not a good idea. Also you mention you are married?

[star-warrior]

I agree with some of the folks above - it's work and as such you should be professional about it.

Will it spill out into after hours? A social get together as buddies, go bowling or something?

[JP.]

OMG..your cowork is so cute- I dont know if Im in your position

he is yours mann!!

[eastofeden]

I used to tell the inexperienced bartenders when they asked a similar question (the guy has a crush on them and they are flattered) that if they found someone building them a picket fence or a pedestal...smash it to pieces. Fantasy is great but in a work situation where you can't escape what seems innocent now could be your worst fucking nightmare someday. Sorry if that sounds really negative but been on the receiving end of that way too many times and since you asked.....

[RazorzEdge88]

Add him to your harem. You could be a regular Joseph Smith.

[EuroSoccer]

Go for it.

[Keeland]

Excuse the bucket of cold water, but he could be a sadistic tease or it could be a setup. Is your employer a 'phobe?

[Dejavudoo]

The whole thing could be your undoing.

[HollisterBoy93]

I'd say be careful. Avoid it until he really puts himself on you because I mean (& this is the conspiracy theorist in me), what if he's just trying to somehow get you to sexually assault him for money or something crazy like that...

I'm just saying think about alllllll the possibilities, good or bad.

[Dejavudoo]

I'd put odds on the affections being sincere, homosexual or otherwise, but merely foolish in an office, and unwise beyond measure.

[AshyPhoenix]

I'd put odds on the affections being sincere, homosexual or otherwise, but merely foolish in an office, and unwise beyond measure.

I agree with this. Don't piss where you eat.

[Vannie]

Why not go on a double date with Elroy and his Dad?

[EuroSoccer]

Why not go on a double date with Elroy and his Dad?

Actually, that's not such a crazy idea.............

[palbert]

I'd put odds on the affections being sincere, homosexual or otherwise, but merely foolish in an office, and unwise beyond measure.

Agree completely. Cool the work stuff.

[CupidBoy]

Wait......

You have a wife, a boyfriend, and now a 24 year old possible ghey that wants to fuck you? Please, tell me your secret.

[BENDERBOY]

It's been 24 hours, have you fucked him yet ?

[mikey3000]

It's been 24 hours, have you fucked him yet ?

No. And I wouldn't. Everyone is right, not with a co-worker. Besides I don't need/want another sex partner (can barely handle the ones I got now). I just enjoy the obvious flirting and teasing. Lord knows if he tried anything on me, I'd probably faint first. But boy is he adorable!! The curly dirty blonde hair really gets me. Today he grabbed my nipples!

[Huntneo(PT)]

go home and jerk off while thinking about him.


Leave it at that.

[dereperez]

No. And I wouldn't. Everyone is right, not with a co-worker. Besides I don't need/want another sex partner (can barely handle the ones I got now). I just enjoy the obvious flirting and teasing. Lord knows if he tried anything on me, I'd probably faint first. But boy is he adorable!! The curly dirty blonde hair really gets me. Today he grabbed my nipples!

I don't know what work place allows this kind of shenanigan to go on.

Next time he'll go for the crotch.

[mikey3000]

Oh, he has gone for the crotch, but he just pats it. So weird. I've never had this happen before, so it's kinda fun. He flirts like wild but it's just fun. Although... last week he brought me a toasted bagel for breakfast when he picked me up for work. We've hugged tightly and two days ago I gave him a reach around hug to check his shirt size. LOL!

[G-Lexington]

I like this. Don't jump him right away. Draw it out. Stick with hugs for now. Keep lengthening them. Move to hs ass in a week or so. Kisses can join within a month. This'll be awesome.

Lex

[mikey3000]

LOL! Every day, 5 times a day, he's on a ladder and I'm holding it, with his booty right in my face. Today I was going in to meet with clients to close a sale and he offered me a good luck kiss with a silly smirk on his face. I asked, 'tongue or no tongue?' He roared laughing. We are thinking of opening a company together. The wife loves the idea but the BF is not quite on board. Hmmm...

[G-Lexington]

You'll be fucking in the supply closet by the end of June.

Lex

[M10000]

Be careful. Its easier to get fucked than it is to get another job

;-)

[Dejavudoo]

Trouble brewing. . .

[mikey3000]

I know. I feel it too, but I don't know how to handle it. I brush off his innuendos and comments, but sometimes he gets mad at me and doesn't talk to me. He's a great kid, and I am so attracted to him, but his flirtiness doesn't help matters much too. Oh, and, he lives 5 minutes away from me.

[FPNY]

Oh what a tangled web we weave......

[mikey3000]

Latest update... My work partner is gone and I am so sad . He accepted another job and last Friday was his last day. We still text every day and will get together, but I terribly miss spending my days with him. He really made the work fun, though the company absolutely sucks. He had to go, there was no choice left. Besides I felt the sexual tension growing so strong between us that it actually scared me, and I know he felt it too. Now I think the job is finished for me too. I can barely get out of bed in the mornings to go to a job shitty without him. Good grief!! And him texting me every day hurts too. He keeps talking like we're best buds, but I know that'll peter out too. I know how stupid this sounds, but I never thought it'd hurt like this.

[rareboy]

Well at least now you can fuck him the next time you get together.

[mikey3000]

You think? Um, he just called. He's coming over tonight for beer and pizza. Whoot whoot!!!