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    What Real Love is Like (5 Years n May)

    Hey ,

    My name Is Will and lets just say our story is crazy sad fun haha ... relations are ALOT of work and anyone who says otherwise is not 100 percent ...my partner and i have been through
    1- Cheating
    2- Open relationships
    3- trying new relationships
    4- lies
    5- leaving each other for at most a month
    6- arguing
    This seem pretty bad but let me tell you we know each other at our worst and our best my partner is a 3rd year medical student, and i work as a senior pharmacy technician ....our lives had been in shambles and TOGETHER we glued each other life back together stronger than before ....we have alot of love because we always chose to be back with each other.

    we simply just belong we are not afraid to show each other how we want it. Even thought he is super busy n complains he loves me even if i do leave all my clothes at the end of the bed or kick them under ...he will always be the prince to my charm ...WHY because we both want it and we are 100 percent about the work for it .

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    Re: What Real Love is Like (5 Years n May)

    Congrats mate. nothing worth having ever comes easy.

    All the best for the future.
    "You may only be one person to the world, but you may also be the world to one person"
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    Quote Originally Posted by BENDERBOY View Post
    Congrats mate. nothing worth having ever comes easy.

    All the best for the future.
    My thoughts exactly.

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    Re: What Real Love is Like (5 Years n May)

    Right !!! I keep reading on how men find there lovers boring or they are just wanting to leave .... like seriously you want stability you have to work for it ...you want a partner for life ...try showing your worth being a partner with ....so many things in gay culture i find sad ..mostly the mentality its all wants and needs with out actually dealing with things with out the use of drugs and alcohol ehhh whatever to each there own

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    Re: What Real Love is Like (5 Years n May)

    What I find sad is when someone says "gay culture" then holds up the party boy stereotype - when it's painfully clear from places like this that there are TONS of gay men looking for relationships.
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    Congratulations for taking the effort to make it work. Best of luck for the future.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TX-Beau View Post
    What I find sad is when someone says "gay culture" then holds up the party boy stereotype - when it's painfully clear from places like this that there are TONS of gay men looking for relationships.
    Yeah, it's really near-sighted...
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    Quote Originally Posted by TX-Beau View Post
    What I find sad is when someone says "gay culture" then holds up the party boy stereotype - when it's painfully clear from places like this that there are TONS of gay men looking for relationships.
    Not really this site advertises " hey go hook up " and you are right this site is loaded with men who "Think" they want relationships but like so many in previous threads can't even handle 4 weeks with 1 guy and think they are too good lol ... I can prove my point with reality as well as you so no sense in arguing just saying how I felt ...take with a grain of salt

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    The is the porn and the boards are the boards, A MILLION guys saying they want true love. Doesn't mean they are any good at it, have realistic expectations, and saying they are bad at it is not the same thing as saying that "gay culture" is all about selfishness and drugs.
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    My experience is similar to yours, though he drew a hard line on the "open relationship" idea. We've also never been separated for any length of time. Nevertheless, the general idea of it being an "imperfect road" is the same.

    I've actually found much the same to be the case after 2 years, That is not counting a fairly long while before then that we were denying the fact that we had both idiotically blundered into what seemed at the time to be an awkward, horrendously mismatched relationship.

    Oh, and my thing is leaving the pots and pans in the oven when I turn it on.
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    Re: What Real Love is Like (5 Years n May)

    There are all types of relationships, I guess, but the successful ones of which I'm aware all require work and all have involved the need for communication and most have involved setbacks.

    Congratulations.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Seasoned View Post
    There are all types of relationships, I guess, but the successful ones of which I'm aware all require work and all have involved the need for communication and most have involved setbacks.

    Congratulations.
    Thanks man !!! One day ill be married how long were you guys together before marriage ?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Brian Smith View Post
    My experience is similar to yours, though he drew a hard line on the "open relationship" idea. We've also never been separated for any length of time. Nevertheless, the general idea of it being an "imperfect road" is the same.

    I've actually found much the same to be the case after 2 years, That is not counting a fairly long while before then that we were denying the fact that we had both idiotically blundered into what seemed at the time to be an awkward, horrendously mismatched relationship.

    Oh, and my thing is leaving the pots and pans in the oven when I turn it on.
    Hahahaha my guy too it just wasn't workin and even being honest with myself I didn't know how to handle it I thought every date was a marriage proposal lol and I even got a couple ..... But I just needed to realize that in this world the only true comfort was in my babes arms and that's where I belong even if I do want to another him with a pillow while he sleeps sometimes lol

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    The love - hate affect I understand it completely. I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year and a half and we have arguments of course. But when it comes down to it we love each other and we are able to see past all of our immaturity and bullshit. Love is a very weird thing.

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    Re: What Real Love is Like (5 Years n May)

    What an AWESOME thread!!!

    I feel VERY lucky to have been with opinterph for a little over 12 years -- and I'm sure that we've had some issues over time -- but, when they come up, we work together and not against each other...

    THANKS for sharing YOUR story!!!

    "Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it..." Goethe

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    Quote Originally Posted by swerve View Post
    What an AWESOME thread!!!

    I feel VERY lucky to have been with opinterph for a little over 12 years -- and I'm sure that we've had some issues over time -- but, when they come up, we work together and not against each other...

    THANKS for sharing YOUR story!!!


    Wish I could like your comment as if it were Facebook lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by jhonyguy04 View Post
    Thanks man !!! One day ill be married how long were you guys together before marriage ?
    We'll be together 30 yrs this July. Although we don't live in NY, we were married there in 2011, when it became legal.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jhonyguy04 View Post
    Do you realize how dumb you sound go watch the logo channel hahahahah...u have any idea what goes on besides these boards and porn ? Go to a pride and see what is really there ??
    Wow. Such maturity. Way to ruin your own topic. Homophobia is not attractive.
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    That's really amazing and congratulations to you and your partner
    I haven't dated but I hope I can make it work like you and your partner someday

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    At the risk of sounding like a greeting card of the sort that women in office jobs pin to the wall of their cubicles to motivate themselves, I have learned the following:

    A relationship isn't something you have, it's something you do.

    Ugh. It's true though. It's a daily pleasure, the same as eating or drinking. And it's a daily chore, the same as flushing the toilet.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jhonyguy04 View Post

    And out of this whole convo this is what you chose to aknowledge ? Bam !
    Yeah, this is how life works - one ugly, inconsiderate, immature lashing comment can erase everything good you've said. It is a good lesson to learn actually.
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    While showing you clearly have only the vaguest notion of what gay culture actually is.
    That we are capable only of being what we are, remains our unforgivable sin.
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    Re: What Real Love is Like (5 Years n May)

    Lee Brice - Hard to Love

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    I sing this song to my jhonyguy04 but instead of girl I say guy ha ...!!!

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    Real love is getting up in the middle of the night and rubbing your guy's back as he pukes from that day's chemo.
    Only government can take perfectly good paper, cover it with perfectly good ink and make the combination worthless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Durango95 View Post
    Real love is getting up in the middle of the night and rubbing your guy's back as he pukes from that day's chemo.
    OMG !! That's horrible if you ever want to chat about anything just PM ME !!!

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    Re: What Real Love is Like (5 Years n May)

    A very positive story and an inspiration for everyone to hold their chin up and keep trying for someone who is worth it. I am very happy for you and your partner and how all your difficult times have brought you closer. It really can work out in the end. Thanks for sharing.

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    Yes 5 years this month we have been throught soo much I love him dearly !

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    Congrats mate! That's really good to hear. All the best to both of you.

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