last week my friend and i made plans to hang out yesterday. he even asked if we were still hanging out this week and we confirmed it. but it didnt happen. i called him yesterday afternoon and there was no answer. i sent him a text and called it good.
i have known him for a couple years, we dont usually hang out outside of work, there was only a couple times we did and it was a group setting. never done anything by ourselves.
so now im just waiting, waiting to see if he says anything. i am afraid he either got what he wanted from someone else and decided to ignore me or is just afraid of being found out by someone if we were to be closer outside of work.
normally i dont feel this insecure and i am trying not to feel that way now, but if a friend ive known so long wont even say anything, i have to believe he doesn't want me as a friend.