So, I'm 18 and I am 100% sure I'm only really into bear types. I don't care about age difference when it comes to dating, but I'm sure if I went to a bear event some people would feel uncomfortable. What should I do to find a man? My friends tell me to go to bear events, but aren't bear events made for bears and bears only? After all, the description of this board is "No twinks in here please, by popular demand." What should I do?
(I don't necessarily think I'm a twink, but I am slim and the opposite of a bear, and can't grow a beard.)