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    Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    I went a ride with my friend last weekend. He used disable parking sign he borrowed from his disabled friend. He used that all the time when there is no parking spot/he's being too lazy..

    I was.."HDU!" but Im not confronted him, not wanting to ruin anything but TBH Im disagree with his action and you? What you think?

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Those empty spaces aren't going to park themselves!

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    yes, it is a jerk move. it's something that really irks me. if someone isn't handicapped then they need to take that shit down. no need to take advantage of someone's situation when you're not in that situation or with that person where you need it. it should ONLY be used when they have a handicapped person in the car whether they're a passenger or a driver. at my old job, it used to really bother me seeing people take advantage of having a handicapped decal in the car, slide in and not give a shit. then seeing someone come in that really needs the handicapped spot having to park all the way on the other side of the parking lot because the same idiot that took advantage of the handicap spot is too fucking lazy to walk their ass to the door for some food. like give me a break.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Oh it's no real biggie, as long as he isn't parked there for hours.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    I had back problems and I was able to qualify for a 6 month handicap placard. I did not abuse it, when my back felt better I used the regular parking spaces unless they were all taken up. There were 2 months that I had to walk with a cane and I was grateful to have it.

    He's still taking a risk because you can get a ticket for using someone else's placard unless that person is with you, such as when I would take my mother to the doctor I could use hers. She never had a licence but she was able to get one to use on my father's car.

    and yes your friend is a jerk.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    It is actually illegal in many jurisdictions.

    Otherwise a total dick move.

    Karma being what it is, your friend will hopefully get to use one for real someday only to find out that some able bodied douchenozzle with a fake tag has taken the spot.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    That's really dumb and dangerous.

    What's he going to do when he comes out to find wheelchair scuffs and nicks all over his car, or ugly white cane marks on his tires?

    He needs to learn to take better care of his stuff.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Also someone may be disabled and not look like they physically are so don't judge people either. The cheats know who they are.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    He needs to have his balls crushed between two slamming bricks.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Quote Originally Posted by Harke the Boeotarch View Post
    He needs to have his balls crushed between two slamming bricks.
    Then he might qualify for handicap parking.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Quote Originally Posted by Harke the Boeotarch View Post
    He needs to have his balls crushed between two slamming bricks.
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    Then he might qualify for handicap parking.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Parking across three handicap spaces would be a really jerk move.

    In Baltimore, the space must have a signpost and one on the space, so it's often not illegal.

    I won't do it because I'm not a jerk, and I'm 26; I can walk an extra freakin 50 ft for heaven's sake.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Total jerk move.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    I wouldn't blame him. There's too many of those disabled car spaces in my town!

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Your friend is a jerk. Those spaces should be used by those who truly needs them.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    ... because, being able-bodied, he doesnt have enough privileges as it is? jerk.

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    Get the hell out of my parking spot! Goddamned kids think they can do anything they want these days! Now the battery on my Jazzy is gonna go dead again! And lower that Goddamned devil worship music!

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Selfish cunt!

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Quote Originally Posted by JP. View Post
    I went a ride with my friend last weekend. He used disable parking sign he borrowed from his disabled friend. He used that all the time when there is no parking spot/he's being too lazy.. I was.."HDU!" but Im not confronted him, not wanting to ruin anything but TBH Im disagree with his action and you? What you think?
    Your friend is being very selfish. He's an asshole.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    jerk move, but if it's one of those parking lots that has like 50 handicapped parking spots, none of which are being used, I probably wouldn't judge him too harshly.

    someone once cursed me out for parking in a handicapped spot for about 3 minutes, but my alternative was parking in such a manner that I'd be blocking in 2-3 other cars otherwise... I figured taking the handicapped spot was the better move.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Your friend is an ass. Find better friends.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Jerk move. In the literature which came with my mum's disabled parking badge, there was a warning about misuse, with fines in four digit figures. Moreover, you can't use it as an excuse for getting stuff for the person you're driving for. The disabled person should be with the vehicle when you park. The badge is supposed to be for the convenience of the disabled person, not his/her able bodied driver.


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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    A lot of time you can't see the person's disability, which causes people to confront the person using the handicap space, and that causes problems.

    Knowingly using the space with a borrowed placard is a jerk move.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    This really annoys me.

    My grandmother has a disabled badge and I basically drive her everywhere. It is infuriating when you see someone park in the disabled bay and then walk out their car, without aid, into the store/mall/cinema etc. I completely understand that not all illness have a visible symptom, ie many illness cause fatigue an that is not necessarily visible to someone who does not know you, but if you are capable of walking then you use a normal space.

    On a sub note, I have noticed a lot of stores now have the disabled spaces a fair distance from the front door and were the disabled spaces used to be there is either mother & child or no longer disabled spaces. I know having a small child, or multiple children with you, can be hectic but really the spaces nearest the door should be disabled spaces.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Meh, what's the likelihood that he's taking a spot away from someone who genuinely needs it? Stop into any store or strip mall, and it's very rare to see anyone (genuinely handicapped or not) pull into the handicapped spot. Lots of stores/malls have more than one handicapped spot anyway. And besides, there are many people who cheat the system in one way or another. This is just one of the ways they do it. I don't approve of able-bodied people who sit around getting government assistance, but what can be done about it? That's just part of the society we live in.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    I know enough handicapped people to say - yes, it's a jerk move.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Jp,

    Your friend, he's an ass. Sounds like you know that already.
    My question, why is the disabled friend letting him borrow the disabled sticker in the first place....?
    I would be equally annoyed with the other friend for enabling an asshole.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    I noticed this was very common among lesbians in P-town last summer---can't tell you how many bull dykes had these signs and parked in handicapped parking---don't know if they were all disabled (sports injury?) or if this was some kind of secret thing lesbians do.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    jerk move, but if it's one of those parking lots that has like 50 handicapped parking spots, none of which are being used, I probably wouldn't judge him too harshly.
    I have never seen this, ever.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    You should have said something

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Quote Originally Posted by RazorzEdge88 View Post
    I have never seen this, ever.
    really? I see it all the time.

    my office has an entire row of handicapped spaces... I've never seen a single car parked in one of them, ever. also seems to be common at big box stores with huge parking lots (Walmart, Target, Home Depot, etc)

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    I only see a lot at big box stores, and they're almost always used up, or at least very close.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Quote Originally Posted by youngoutlaw View Post
    This really annoys me.

    My grandmother has a disabled badge and I basically drive her everywhere. It is infuriating when you see someone park in the disabled bay and then walk out their car, without aid, into the store/mall/cinema etc. I completely understand that not all illness have a visible symptom, ie many illness cause fatigue an that is not necessarily visible to someone who does not know you, but if you are capable of walking then you use a normal space.

    On a sub note, I have noticed a lot of stores now have the disabled spaces a fair distance from the front door and were the disabled spaces used to be there is either mother & child or no longer disabled spaces. I know having a small child, or multiple children with you, can be hectic but really the spaces nearest the door should be disabled spaces.
    Yes, yes. I agree.

    From my understanding, stores can place the handicap spots where they want, they are required to have so many handicap spots to regular spots ratio though most put them up front. also if I remember correctly, if your parking lot is not paved and or does not have dedicated parking spots with lines etc, then you aren't required to have reserved handicap spots, but I could be wrong and or that might have changed.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Pretty dick move. There aren't all that many disabled parking spots to begin with.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Its a jerk move.

    I remember being uncomfortable when I was in the car with someone that was using a disabled parking sign and they were not disabled.

    Bad karma.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Holy..I wish he is here so he can see y'all grill him I feel bad for him, he's a good friend tho, too bad that he's irresponsible at times.

    Quote Originally Posted by Just_Believe18 View Post
    Those empty spaces aren't going to park themselves!

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    Quote Originally Posted by loki81 View Post
    jerk move, but if it's one of those parking lots that has like 50 handicapped parking spots, none of which are being used, I probably wouldn't judge him too harshly.

    someone once cursed me out for parking in a handicapped spot for about 3 minutes, but my alternative was parking in such a manner that I'd be blocking in 2-3 other cars otherwise... I figured taking the handicapped spot was the better move.
    It's actually completely non hypothetical. I've BEEN in that kind of parking lot before where there are 3-5 empty slot of disable parking spots while jammed in a rather tight, cramped public parking lot.

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    Jp,

    Your friend, he's an ass. Sounds like you know that already.
    My question, why is the disabled friend letting him borrow the disabled sticker in the first place....?
    I would be equally annoyed with the other friend for enabling an asshole.
    That placard actually expired (that I was heard) he might borrowed/took it from his roommate friend.

    Quote Originally Posted by nycguydowntown View Post
    I noticed this was very common among lesbians in P-town last summer---can't tell you how many bull dykes had these signs and parked in handicapped parking---don't know if they were all disabled (sports injury?) or if this was some kind of secret thing lesbians do.
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    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    You should have said something
    I said: What if police officer caught you? He said that's not gonna happen..they don't check in detail. I really want to giving him cold hard prove of why he SHOULD NOT doing it, but traffic law isn't my expertise, so...

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    It doesn't matter if your an expert in traffic law. It's a matter of common courtesy to others. Open your mouth and tell him what he's doing is WRONG! He's too lazy to walk an extra 50 feet for God's sake. My mom is handicapped and in a wheelchair. Several times we've gone to a store and the spots were taken up. It's hard to get her chair out of the car, get her in it and get her into the store. Especially in the winter. She can't handle the cold and its hard to push her through the snow. Your friend and anyone that parks in a handicapped spot that doesn't need it is an asshole. When my mom got her permit we were told if anyone uses it illegally she risked losing her permit permanently and both people would be fined. Honestly I don't think the fines are high enough. Something has to be done to keep morons like your friend from abusing handicapped spots. It really pisses me off that people are so inconsiderate of others and think theres nothing wrong it.

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    ^
    Thank you. I will tell him, dont worry.
    For courtesy sake- yeah that's actually my first and only reason.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Quote Originally Posted by JP. View Post
    I went a ride with my friend last weekend. He used disable parking sign he borrowed from his disabled friend. He used that all the time when there is no parking spot/he's being too lazy..

    I was.."HDU!" but Im not confronted him, not wanting to ruin anything but TBH Im disagree with his action and you? What you think?
    It is so tempting fate!
    Karma will one day come round and bite his ass
    He will genuinely need a disabled parking spot one day

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Quote Originally Posted by nycguydowntown View Post
    I noticed this was very common among lesbians in P-town last summer---can't tell you how many bull dykes had these signs and parked in handicapped parking---don't know if they were all disabled (sports injury?) or if this was some kind of secret thing lesbians do.
    Surely being a bull dyke is a legitimate disability?

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    I am legally blind so I always use them when I drive, I see no harm in it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by peeonme View Post
    I am legally blind so I always use them when I drive, I see no harm in it.
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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Quote Originally Posted by youngoutlaw View Post
    My grandmother has a disabled badge and I basically drive her everywhere. It is infuriating when you see someone park in the disabled bay and then walk out their car, without aid, into the store/mall/cinema etc. I completely understand that not all illness have a visible symptom, ie many illness cause fatigue an that is not necessarily visible to someone who does not know you, but if you are capable of walking then you use a normal space.
    I did once go up to a woman who had parked in a disability bay and was obviously not disabled and had no sticker and said 'It must be such a shame thsat your disability doesn't show'. She had the good grace to blush

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    Uh no..if there was karma,the car itself would become disabled.

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    Re: Using disability sign when you're not disable, is that a jerk move/ok move?

    I would call the police. I qualify for a disabled permit and I do not have one...I still limp across the parking lot.

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