^ I read your posts and I can relate because I'm struggling with self esteem issues . Beautiful people are confident because they receive compliments from other people. Facebook for example, attractive people get more likes while those that aren't don't. I sometimes wish I was uglier so I could at least pass for ugly cute. I also noticed my need to be perfectionist. I don't know why but I have very high standards in everything I do and if I don't meet those standards I'm a failure. I workout weekly and when I look in the mirror I still feel like I'm a fat ass.
I recently applied for a job at my university and the interview went great in my view, but I found out I didn't get the job. I don't know why. It's one thing to be rejected by strangers but it another thing to be rejected by an institution like a college. It means that there is something really wrong with me.