Hey JUB, I love all y'all.
Hopefully your boy doesn't end up in prison soon.
Long story short, my partner of nearly three years Robert, has become the motherfucker of all motherfuckers.
So recently I moved into my ex partners parents property. They stay in the downstairs building, I stayed upstairs with my partner and his brother.
There have been subtle minor occurrences where our relationship was tumbling where we were friends<boyfriends>friends<occasional lovers<boyfriends<partners. But then came the final straw.
About a week after Valentines Day, I came home from work at about 10 at night and I noticed my ex boyfriends car was in the driveway. My ex boyfriend works graveyard so usually he's already driven off to work. So I knew something was up.
There was a little over twenty grand taken out of his account in some sort of CD withdrawal or some shit. I still don't understand the whole ordeal. Even though I did have access to his account for emergency purposes, on my Mother rest in peace I did not steal from him.
He didn't believe me and he beat the shit out of me, and I beat the shit out of him and I pretty much locked myself in the bathroom for the rest of the night.
When morning came he was gone. I grabbed all my stuff and called my Aunt to come pick me up and told her what happened.
So I figured that was that. Nothing is binding and we didn't have any type of courtship so he's out of my life for good. Thank god we never did get married even though we contemplated it a handful of times. Plus according to a text chat I had with his brother, they were moving back to Croatia so the farther he is from me the better.
I was completely wrong.
In a nutshell, he was stalking me for a good week or so. At first I figured he was only doing this in hopes I would refresh my relationship with him, but I'm not that stupid.
So days after our fight he called the police saying that I assault him and honestly there was a lot of racial profiling on my part and, I was arrested for misdemeanor battery. I was bailed out and I was very very upset.
I lost my job, my family pretty much hates me, and that's not the end of it.
So in an act of revenge. I regrettably did some minor pranks on him which included me egging his car. I also followed him to the laundromat undetected bleached his clothes.
So I find out today he has put a restraining order on me. The court date for that is closer than my battery/assault case so this is my first priority and I want this dealt with.
I am already seeking an attorney and that's pretty much it. I need your advice.
I have even thought of doing one better and putting one against him but that's really confusing.
I also just need to vent and rant. I don't have that many friends and my family are 50% supportive and on my side. :P. But I will overcome this. I'm still young and I won't let these events ruin my life.