okay so I've been reading a bunch of threads on here and I see a lot of married men cheating on their wives or guys cheating on their girlfriends and saying things like 'I do it on the down low so nobody will ever know' that doesn't make it right, does it? I mean tbh the way I see it, if you're gay, your partner has the right to know and if you're bi you make a choice and commit if it doesn't work, break it off.. I mean I don't know I guess I'm venting or something.. as a guy who's been played, seriously not cool lol.
But I guess I'm asking you guys for your opinions.. do you think it's all good? What justifies it for you?