What superficial quality MUST be present in your man? (You can only pick one)

[DigitalFudge]

I'm finding out very quickly especially this past week I've been out and about way more than usual and I literally cannot deal with one thing: Short men.


Mad, yet? That's not even the worst part. I don't think I'd have sex/be in a relationship (Yes, either) with a guy who was shorter than 6'2. Honestly 6'3+ is what I want.

Maybe I've just been spoiled by a steady stream of 6 - 6'2 ish men I've been coming in contact with because there is this roided up (I'm sure he would deny it) 6'4 white boy who has been trying to hit it. Gworls, I'm ready.



Of course no bisexuals, but that goes without saying


I actually find bisexuals hot, tbqh

So what really awful standards that mean nothing in the real world, or any world other than the one you have created do you have?

[loki81]

age... superficially, I couldn't see myself dating anyone 10+ years older than me just because it would feel really weird introducing them to my friends or parents.

(but I'd hookup with an older guy on a no-strings basis if he was hot)

it's a deal breaker on the lower end, but not for superficial reasons. college guys are hot, but I'd never want to date anyone who was in such a transitional period of their life.

[refujiunderground]

i can't really think of none to be honest with you. it's more based on how we get along, personality, amount of fun, chemistry, and etc. i don't really look too deep into someone's physical attributes as much as i look to see how they are as a person, their mannerism, how they act, how they are, their personality and etc. i treat people as people, not like objects. i think that focusing on how somebody looks and etc, is just boring. as for age wise, i would say that it depends on the maturity level. i'm way too immature for an older person to deal with but i'm not too immature for like a 18 year old although i can relate to them to a certain extent.

[bankside]

Self confidence.

Most people would probably think it is deeper and not call it "superficial" but I notice it at both levels. Not worried about the odd moment of self doubt, and not turned on by arrogance, but I need my guy to be self-confident and seem it.

[BENDERBOY]

Apart from smoking there's no real deal breakers.

[Rolyo85]

I'm not gonna say - too offensive

This topic is evil.

[BENDERBOY]

I'm not gonna say - too offensive

This topic is evil.

Would Pat approve ?

[DigitalFudge]

age... superficially, I couldn't see myself dating anyone 10+ years older than me just because it would feel really weird introducing them to my friends or parents.

(but I'd hookup with an older guy on a no-strings basis if he was hot)

it's a deal breaker on the lower end, but not for superficial reasons. college guys are hot, but I'd never want to date anyone who was in such a transitional period of their life.

I find older guys so hot but I can't deal with the whole "Hi friends this is blahblahblah he's 35"


A mess.


Even worse what if you meet his friends that are all his age or older. TF are you supposed to do?

i can't really think of none to be honest with you. it's more based on how we get along, personality, amount of fun, chemistry, and etc. i don't really look too deep into someone's physical attributes as much as i look to see how they are as a person, their mannerism, how they act, how they are, their personality and etc. i treat people as people, not like objects. i think that focusing on how somebody looks and etc, is just boring. as for age wise, i would say that it depends on the maturity level. i'm way too immature for an older person to deal with but i'm not too immature for like a 18 year old although i can relate to them to a certain extent.

That's really evolved of you. We can be soulmates but if I don't have to tilt my head up at you when we're kissing standing up it's not happening.

Self confidence.

Most people would probably think it is deeper and not call it "superficial" but I notice it at both levels. Not worried about the odd moment of self doubt, and not turned on by arrogance, but I need my guy to be self-confident and seem it.

My next need is humor, my kind of humor. I like self deprecating humor basically if you took the superiority complex of British humor and inverse it.

[Huntneo(PT)]

AN ass.

A flat (nonexistent) ass just doesn't work for me.

I'm not gonna say - too offensive

Oh, really? You can't seem to close your mouth about anything else on these boards. Why clam up now?

[Rolyo85]

Would Pat approve ?

MWAHAHAHAHA!

On AT LEAST three different levels!

[Rolyo85]

Oh, really? You can't seem to close your mouth about anything else on these boards. Why clam up now?

How very limp of you.

And "clam up now" because I don't go out of my way to insult groups of people for no reason

[Adrock-JD]

Masculinity.

I'm 100% gay male. Not bi, not curious or anything else.

This may have something to do with why I'm completely turned off by feminine guys. Even slightly feminine.

Even an above average looking guy can't over come it.

On the other hand, an average or slightly below average looking guy who's masculine is very sexy.

Probably the reason a majority of the men I've dated have been bisexual.

[refujiunderground]

That's really evolved of you. We can be soulmates but if I don't have to tilt my head up at you when we're kissing standing up it's not happening.

i'm either 5'5 or 5'6 and i'm guessing you're well over 6 feet so that answers that.

seriously though, i really would like to get to know who i'm dealing with as a person though because a lot of guys rely on a whole lot of bullshit because they know who they are aren't desirable enough to even get involved with. looking @ okcupid for example. it's really easy for someone to put up some pics of themselves, make themselves sound like a decent person but you can tell that their personalities aren't shit because they don't know how to interact with people that they're not fucking or trying to date. it doesn't hurt to talk. not every single guy that says hello is trying to get into their pants unless they're overt with it.

it reminds me of talking with some women where they think that because you're talking to them as a guy, it means that you want to have sex with them or date them. it's basically a lame way of inflating their ego up. a bit narcissistic if you ask me.

[eastofeden]

A Republican. I could be hot for someone and if I find out they are a Republican I will turn cold as ice and ignore them on the spot. I don't even go through a transitional period. It is instant.

[DigitalFudge]

And "clam up now" because I don't go out of my way to insult groups of people for no reason

Nnnnnnn who cares? This topic is messy by design.



A superficial quality you need in a man.

Go!

A Republican. I could be hot for someone and if I find out they are a Republican I will turn cold as ice and ignore them on the spot. I don't even go through a transitional period. It is instant.

Sis, I realized I lead with a negative "Short men" and should of started with I like tall guys (A positive) but the whole point is not to tell us what you hate it's to tell us what you love.


So you MUST have someone who is progressive?



I use

[EuroSoccer]

Prima Donnas..............they get on my tits pretty easily.
Also people who cannot laugh at themselves and take themselves way too seriously.

I really appreciate lads with a wicked or even silly sense of humor.

[DigitalFudge]

Guys, this is supposed to be about what you want.




This isn't a pet peeve thread

[Rolyo85]

Ok, I want a moaner I don't like mimes in bed.

[eastofeden]

Sis, I realized I lead with a negative "Short men" and should of started with I like tall guys (A positive) but the whole point is not to tell us what you hate it's to tell us what you love.


So you MUST have someone who is progressive?

Got it...and yes...it is a MUST!

[DigitalFudge]

Ok, I want a moaner I don't like mimes in bed.

Y-A-S


Especially when I'm giving some neck, I need dat feedback

[Stoowii]

Aww sis, so I can't hit it? I'm 5'9" =\ Oh well, least we could still be besties and talk about all the trade.

And yeah, I'm an ass man, but he doesn't have to have one in order for me to date him. What I'm looking for is, as JD mentioned, masculinity.

Especially when I'm giving some neck, I need dat feedback

Yas! Giving me Janet tease.

♪ Strum stroke me like a guitar now up my amplifier, when you get some feedback, keep going take me higher. ♫

Who else peeped it?

[refujiunderground]

Ok, I want a moaner I don't like mimes in bed.

so you like to hear your men in pain while you're shoving your frankfurter up their ass? heard that no lube does the job perfectly.

[EuroSoccer]

Guys, this is supposed to be about what you want.




This isn't a pet peeve thread

Sis........you just listed 2 of your pet peeves in your OP or did I misread?

[DigitalFudge]

Aww sis, so I can't hit it? I'm 5'9" =\ Oh well, least we could still be besties and talk about all the trade.

And yeah, I'm an ass man, but he doesn't have to have one in order for me to date him. What I'm looking for is, as JD mentioned, masculinity.


Yas! Giving me Janet tease.

♪ Strum stroke me like a guitar now up my amplifier, when you get some feedback, keep going take me higher. ♫

Who else peeped it?

Nnnn GET IN






@Refuji I'm actually just 5'8ish ish.

Sis........you just listed 2 of your pet peeves in your OP or did I misread?

Like I said, I wish I didn't lead with the "short" crap but that Bisexual stuff is a long standing joke after a few years ago there was that slew of anti-Bisexual threads.


I just do it for kiis.

[youfiad]

Where to start?

I would say, attractive face. Everything else can be corrected

[JP.]

Maybe I've just been spoiled by a steady stream of 6 - 6'2 ish men I've been coming in contact with because there is this roided up (I'm sure he would deny it) 6'4 white boy who has been trying to hit it. Gworls, I'm ready.[/IMG]

If you're looking for 6.4, I think good sis maxpowr has it

you can get the receipt at recent pictorial-thread ^^

as for me..a nice "spread" is a must
http://www.xtube.com/amateur_channel...i&type=preview

[Phantas33]

good question, but yes, like Youfiad, I'm a face-in-first type of guy. If I like your face, I'm hooked lol.
Apart from that, [self-]confidence. I'm more an insecure kind of type so any self-confidence is appreciated. I need a man whom I know can keep me warm and safe hmm?

[DigitalFudge]

If you're looking for 6.4, I think good sis maxpowr has it

you can get the receipt at recent pictorial-thread ^^

Let me go investigate

[TheSpectatingLoner]

A nice ass.

[JockBoy87]

Must smell nice.

[CupidBoy]

No smokers.

[Scealle]

I would say face / facial features especially the eyes. But it's not like I am super picky or anything. I can find cuteness/beauty in any guy. As long as i think the guy is cute I can be totally smitten. Other than that not much. Body can be obtained through training.

[blackbeltninja]

If they come off as even slightly ignorant about anything I think someone of their age should know, it's not going to happen.

-d-

[AshyPhoenix]

I refuse to date (or even have sex with) anyone who's taller than me. Luckily I'm 6'2", so that leaves a lot of options.

[CupidBoy]

Oh, what MUST be present? Hmm.....as lame as it sounds, he's got to have a good heart, a good guy.

Wait.....

Superficial? A pretty D.

[BENDERBOY]

6" or above.

[CupidBoy]

6" or above.

Hey stud.

[BENDERBOY]

Hey stud.

Hey fella, you packing ?

[The Fly]

Masculinity is a must. Not the hyper-masculine personality type, but a guy who's a guy and doesn’t apologise for it.

[CupidBoy]

Hey fella, you packing ?

Come see for yourself.

[borg69unimatrix]

I refuse to date (or even have sex with) anyone who's taller than me. Luckily I'm 6'2", so that leaves a lot of options.

That explains the midget you were dating.

[njcollegekid]

Of course no bisexuals, but that goes without saying


I actually find bisexuals hot, tbqh

So what really awful standards that mean nothing in the real world, or any world other than the one you have created do you have?

was gonna ask why no bisexuals, but then in the text box i noticed the text you shaded light grey.

i require someone under 30 (i am 20), and i generally only go for guys that are relatively masculine (i know what the some people on here think about that; sorry, sexual arousal is not a conscious choice).

[DigitalFudge]

A pretty D.

I use

[eddielee]

Good manners are required in any man I date. I don't date guys that belch and "break wind" loudly in public.

[RaKroma]

The thread is about superficiality but you give us rules? Superficial people don't follow rules.

1) Must have pretty face!!!
2) Not taller by more than 3 inches
3) Less body hair, the better
4) No love-handles

[Rolyo85]

6" or above.

You're mine ^_^

[DigitalFudge]

The thread is about superficiality but you give us rules? Superficial people don't follow rules.

You will deal

[72-Jay]

but...
but...
there's no way I only pick one thing...
LOL

[wilbur33]

Dark skin. It doesn't matter if he's tall or short, fat or thin, packing or lacking.....if his skin has got some colour, he will have my full attention.

That's about as superficial as it can get - do I win?

Ok, I want a moaner I don't like mimes in bed.

Agreed - NOBODY wants to see an o-face like this:

[wilbur33]

Oops! I forgot to add it doesn't matter if he's young (at least 18, of course) or old.....