quickest way youve gotten out of a date

[bi-4u2]

I'll go first.
There was this guy with whom there was a mutual atraction, i was flat ass broke at the time when i asked him out so i desided to have a date at my place. The date wasnt going so hot so i turned on the tv and started watching a mexican soap, the male lead cheats on his wife, i show ky dusgust and my date starts to justify the guys actions. As soon as he did that i wanted the date to be over, so i called some of my friends over. As soon as they got there the date was over as we had no privacy in fact i made him feel awkward and payed zero atention to him.

[TheSpectatingLoner]

Da hell? Justifying cheating. HUGE red flag!!

[palbert]

Crude, rude and dishonest.

Why not: this ain't working out.

[ryanboy]

You were rude to him and it wasn't justified. Shame on you.

[borg69unimatrix]

I guess I'm not understanding all the unneeded drama.

Why not just say, "Hey... this isn't working out for me, and I'm no longer interested, but thank you for coming over."

[TheSpectatingLoner]

Agreed with the above comments, btw.

[Kien]

Meanie head!!!!

[EuroSoccer]

I guess I'm not understanding all the unneeded drama.

Why not just say, "Hey... this isn't working out for me, and I'm no longer interested, but thank you for coming over."

Yeah.......that's the two of us

[eastofeden]

I flat out tell someone we aren't clicking and I refuse to pretend that we are. I suck at being phony. I have no problem being honest...it saves everyone alot of time.

[CowboyBob]

I'll go first.
There was this guy with whom there was a mutual atraction, i was flat ass broke at the time when i asked him out so i desided to have a date at my place. The date wasnt going so hot so i turned on the tv and started watching a mexican soap, the male lead cheats on his wife, i show ky dusgust and my date starts to justify the guys actions. As soon as he did that i wanted the date to be over, so i called some of my friends over. As soon as they got there the date was over as we had no privacy in fact i made him feel awkward and payed zero atention to him.

You don't sound like a very good date. You're the reason the date wasn't going "so hot".

Why couldn't you just tell him thanks for the evening and end it amicably instead of acting like an ass?

[crimsonpaine]

The platinum rule "Treat others in the way they like to be treated." I bet your date never asked to be treated like shit. Shame on you!

[JockBoy87]

The only time I've ever ended a date I started feeling sick and wanted to go to bed, so that's what I said and he left. That was easy.

[mikey3000]

One time when a date wasn't going well, he headded to the bedroom and I headded right out the front door.

[bi-4u2]

You were rude to him and it wasn't justified. Shame on you.

Ouch guys. Let me be clarify things. he was a great looking guy and we shared a few laughs as well as a handful of friends. I asked the guy out but he turned me down, he did agree to come over for dinner but i knew that he wanted sex but i was really hoping it would turn into a date as the day went. I asked him to come over since i couldn't go out. When i said it wasn't going so hot, i meant GOOD, it was not going good at all. I turned on the TV when i needed him to stop coming on too me, i knew he watched that soap. It was already clear to me that the "mutual attraction" between us was emotionally one sided, i wanted a relationship he wanted something sexual. it wasn't going to work out with him but when he justified cheating i knew i didn't want to touch him in anyway. I called my friends over because he was getting a little too persistent and i didn't want to have to drive him back to his place, at the end of the night i made sure he found his own ride.

[Yuki Sohma]

I failed to answer the door badd Yuki

[ryanboy]

OK, you get a pass!

Ouch guys. Let me be clarify things. he was a great looking guy and we shared a few laughs as well as a handful of friends. I asked the guy out but he turned me down, he did agree to come over for dinner but i knew that he wanted sex but i was really hoping it would turn into a date as the day went. I asked him to come over since i couldn't go out. When i said it wasn't going so hot, i meant GOOD, it was not going good at all. I turned on the TV when i needed him to stop coming on too me, i knew he watched that soap. It was already clear to me that the "mutual attraction" between us was emotionally one sided, i wanted a relationship he wanted something sexual. it wasn't going to work out with him but when he justified cheating i knew i didn't want to touch him in anyway. I called my friends over because he was getting a little too persistent and i didn't want to have to drive him back to his place, at the end of the night i made sure he found his own ride.