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    Question For The Married Bisexual Men On The Boards...

    To those of you who are married to women... may I ask a few questions:

    1.) How did your wife find out about your bisexuality (does she know?) and how did she take to it?

    2.) Are you monogamous to your wife?

    3.) Has your sexuality ever been an issue?

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    Re: Question For The Married Bisexual Men On The Boards...

    To those of you who are married to women... may I ask a few questions:

    1.) How did your wife find out about your bisexuality (does she know?) and how did she take to it?
    does not know.

    2.) Are you monogamous to your wife?
    yes

    3.) Has your sexuality ever been an issue?
    for me yes. i want to make love to a guy, but I made a vow to be faithful to her for life. I should have told her when we were dating but I would never now because I don't want to hurt her. It is what it is.
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    This thread needs more tea.

    Too many of y'all claim to be bisexual and married to be avoiding the topic now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BFizzle View Post
    This thread needs more tea.

    Too many of y'all claim to be bisexual and married to be avoiding the topic now.
    I don't know how many bi married guys are here, but I doubt they come here to talk about their wives. I think JUB is where they come to forget they are married.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    I have an ex who is bisexual. He is also married now (25 years after I dated him) and he completely accepts his bi side, as does his wife
    He still has the need to vent his gay side and uses online porn for that purpose.
    Like a previous poster said, he has vowed to be faithful to his wife while married to her and is.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LeicsDom View Post
    He still has the need to vent his gay side and uses online porn for that purpose.
    I'm sure that's all he uses.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    To those of you who are married to women... may I ask a few questions:

    1.) How did your wife find out about your bisexuality (does she know?) and how did she take to it?

    2.) Are you monogamous to your wife?

    3.) Has your sexuality ever been an issue?
    May I ask you why you want to know it?

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    May I ask you why you scurred?

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    2.) Are you monogamous to your wife?
    Quote Originally Posted by EuroSoccer View Post
    May I ask you why you want to know it?

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    I guess that answers #2.

    Now what about the other two?


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    Quote Originally Posted by BFizzle View Post
    May I ask you why you scurred?
    What makes you think I am?
    Who follows me a bit already knows all the answers.
    Last edited by EuroSoccer; March 17th, 2013 at 03:22 PM.

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    Others most likely tend to see me as bi both on this board and I know in real life. Oddly, for women, it seems to be another factor they find attractive, but tend to find pretty open minded chicks though too, so... I may not be married yet and have always known when I find the right woman to marry, she will need to be very special to handle my crazy ass. Safe to say I will probably find that girl in the midst of a threesome with another dude. I wouldn't marry a girl if she wasn't already fully aware of my level of interest in dudes and was ok with it.

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    While the good sisters BFizz and DF







    Imma perch


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    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    To those of you who are married to women... may I ask a few questions:

    1.) How did your wife find out about your bisexuality (does she know?) and how did she take to it?

    I came out to her. She flipped at first but eventually warmed up to the idea. She actually found me my current BF and now she just adores him and the idea of me with men.

    2.) Are you monogamous to your wife?

    No. Monogamish. I have one woman and one man, and that's about all I can handle.

    3.) Has your sexual ity ever been an issue?

    When I first came out it was. She realized that fantasy is much different then reality and it scared the daylights out of her. We went through a very rocky number of months but even overcame it. Going on 20 years married to her (27 years together) and 4 years with my guy.
    ..........
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    ..........

    Few inquires:


    You get to have sex with multiple people. Do the multiple people you have sex with have permission to go out and enjoy the same white privileges you do?


    Do your friends/colleagues know about this? Not you being bisexual, but you doing whatever you consider this. A wife and a boyfriend.

    Also, how does your family take it?
    Last edited by DigitalFudge; March 17th, 2013 at 08:57 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EuroSoccer View Post
    May I ask you why you want to know it?
    Curiosity. I see "bisexual" and "married" in some posters' profiles and I wonder how it works.

    And to be honest, I'd love to hear that women are becoming open to the idea of dating bisexual men, as I have a good deal of attraction to women, myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DigitalFudge View Post
    Few inquires:


    You get to have sex with multiple people. Do the multiple people you have sex with have permission to go out and enjoy the same white privileges you do?


    Do your friends/colleagues know about this? Not you being bisexual, but you doing whatever you consider this. A wife and a boyfriend.

    Also, how does your family take it?
    My, my. Do I detect a touch of judgement in your tone? Why? My "multiple people" equals two. Is that too many? For me, everyone who needs to know, knows (and approves). Mainly my wife and my partner (and yes, my wife has my blessing if she chose to get a girlfriend). A few friends know too. Do all your family members know all your sexual proclivities?
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    My, my. Do I detect a touch of judgement in your tone? Why? My "multiple people" equals two. Is that too many? For me, everyone who needs to know, knows (and approves). Mainly my wife and my partner (and yes, my wife has my blessing if she chose to get a girlfriend). A few friends know too. Do all your family members know all your sexual proclivities?
    I think he meant do they know about your relationship in general, not necessarily sexually. Do I sense judgement in your tone?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    My, my. Do I detect a touch of judgement in your tone? Why? My "multiple people" equals two. Is that too many? For me, everyone who needs to know, knows (and approves). Mainly my wife and my partner (and yes, my wife has my blessing if she chose to get a girlfriend). A few friends know too. Do all your family members know all your sexual proclivities?


    Ah I see, so your wife and your boyfriend are proclivities. Do they know that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by DigitalFudge View Post
    Ah I see, so your wife and your boyfriend are proclivities. Do they know that?
    n. pl. pro·cliv·i·ties
    A natural propensity or inclination; predisposition. See Synonyms at predilection.

    Is that an inappropriate term? I'll wait till you look it up...

    Again, why the judgemental tone?
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Synonyms: bent, bias, cup of tea, disposition, druthers, facility, flash, groove, inclining, leaning, liableness, penchant, predilection, predisposition, proneness, propensity, thing for, type, weakness

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    Yay, tea... oh, wait...

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    n. pl. pro·cliv·i·ties
    A natural propensity or inclination; predisposition. See Synonyms at predilection.

    Is that an inappropriate term? I'll wait till you look it up...

    Again, why the judgemental tone?
    An inappropriate term? Depends on the noun you are replacing it with. I wouldn't personally replace anyone other than an irrelevant or peasant from High School with such a benign and colorless word.

    At the end of the day you are doing great in your own life, clearly, which is all that matters. You answered my questions which I am satisfied with. However you asked me do I share my sexual proclivities with my family: my brother in law just asked me the other day what kind of men I find hot and we spent the rest of the convo with my sister talking about boys.

    Or do you mean do I draw them pictures and label the positions? Honestly, that drawing would be pretty boring.

    I don't have a complex living arrangement with a wife and a boyfriend proclivities

    You tried.


    Oh and sense we are posting definitions


    mul·ti·ple (mlt-pl)
    adj.
    Having, relating to, or consisting of more than one individual, element, part, or other component; manifold.



    Since you seemed to be having trouble with me using that word.
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    Here we go...


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    Naw, not again. Digitalfudge always tries to engage me just because he doesn't approve of my situation, and that's fine. Don't really care. Me and my partners are content with eachother and our choices. I believe that most people are quite capable of loving and being loved by more than one person anyway. Not everyone can quite grasp that fact.

    Funny though how those with more than one caring partner are usually condescended to by those who usually don't have any partner, and frankly it's getting quite tiring. I thought they'd be more accepting to alternative lifestyles more so than the norm, but obviously not. Maybe it's ok to have random, anonymous sex with multiple people, but not loving relations with just two. See, I'm still kinda new to this whole LGBTQ thing, but learning more and more every day. Like how I just learned that one aspect of the community demands respect and tolerance for their choices while it judges others in the very same community for differing opinions. Nice. No wonder bigotry exists.
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    ...but not loving relations with just two. See, I'm still kinda new to this whole LGBTQ thing, but learning more and more every day. Like how I just learned that one aspect of the community demands respect and tolerance for their choices while it judges others in the very same community for differing opinions. Nice. No wonder bigotry exists.
    Oh, you've noticed that too? Wow, the mere coincidence is astounding. What would life be without hypocrisy, I suppose? Well, thank you for sharing that being bisexual can actually be a legitimate orientation and it's not just about getting more tail with random dudes as many would seem to make it out to be. In an attempt to refrain my soapbox, I'll just say that IMO, sexual orientation labels should be reserved for defining the context of a relationship and not who you are as a person. But that's another story. Carry on. Oh wait, lemme grab a toothpick, got some popcorn stuck in my teeth. *fumbles with tiny box of cheap toothpicks, it falls to the floor spreading them everywhere, remembering the 5 second rule, picks one up anyway and leaves*

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    Funny though how those with more than one caring partner are usually condescended to by those who usually don't have any partner,

    Nnnnnnnn



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    1.) How did your wife find out about your bisexuality (does she know?) and how did she take to it?

    She knows I've done bi in the past, but doesn't know I currently do it. She is aware that two friends of ours want to hopok up with me (one gay, one cur) and is more worried about it being too close to home, so to speak.

    2.) Are you monogamous to your wife?

    No, but she's bi, so we're even.

    3.) Has your sexuality ever been an issue?

    No.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Str8Top14701 View Post
    1.) How did your wife find out about your bisexuality (does she know?) and how did she take to it?

    She knows I've done bi in the past, but doesn't know I currently do it. She is aware that two friends of ours want to hopok up with me (one gay, one cur) and is more worried about it being too close to home, so to speak.

    2.) Are you monogamous to your wife?

    No, but she's bi, so we're even.

    3.) Has your sexuality ever been an issue?

    No.
    Her being bi makes it okay for you to deceive her?

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    Nothing against ya, Mikey. I love that you are open and honest with your wife and that it's working out. I just found this quote funny:

    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    Funny though how those with more than one caring partner are usually condescended to by those who usually don't have any partner.
    1.) You say that as if having a partner automatically makes one a better person. (i.e. "How dare you say anything when you don't have a partner?")

    2.) The two most condescending people on this board on the topic of relationships are both people with one partner, who basically both settled down and married the first dick that ever flopped in their faces.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Str8Top14701 View Post
    1.) How did your wife find out about your bisexuality (does she know?) and how did she take to it?

    She knows I've done bi in the past, but doesn't know I currently do it. She is aware that two friends of ours want to hopok up with me (one gay, one cur) and is more worried about it being too close to home, so to speak.

    2.) Are you monogamous to your wife?

    No, but she's bi, so we're even.

    3.) Has your sexuality ever been an issue?

    No.
    It's a competition?


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    Quote Originally Posted by ElmosToe View Post
    Oh, you've noticed that too? Wow, the mere coincidence is astounding. What would life be without hypocrisy, I suppose? Well, thank you for sharing that being bisexual can actually be a legitimate orientation and it's not just about getting more tail with random dudes as many would seem to make it out to be. In an attempt to refrain my soapbox, I'll just say that IMO, sexual orientation labels should be reserved for defining the context of a relationship and not who you are as a person. But that's another story. Carry on. Oh wait, lemme grab a toothpick, got some popcorn stuck in my teeth. *fumbles with tiny box of cheap toothpicks, it falls to the floor spreading them everywhere, remembering the 5 second rule, picks one up anyway and leaves*
    LOL!! Trust me, if it was just about the tail, I'd be like, the worst bisexual ever! For me, it really is about the love, affection and companionship. His life was very lonely and I've opened up my family to him. We all go on vacations together and he spends much time here in my home with my wife and daughters too. He really has blended right in quite nicely. He sometimes even helps my kids with their homework, he and my wife cook up a storm in the kitchen and even go get groceries together. It is so bizarre but it works for us. But also, when I need some time away, some guy time, I go to his place for days with my wife's total blessing. My testosterone gets a boost and she gets the TV all to her self. Win-win-win!

    Quote Originally Posted by DigitalFudge View Post
    Nnnnnnnn



    Get them drags in there Mikey, I ain't mad @ ya
    It's ok if you are, cause I've been down this road with you before, so I kind of expect it now.

    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    Nothing against ya, Mikey. I love that you are open and honest with your wife and that it's working out. I just found this quote funny:



    1.) You say that as if having a partner automatically makes one a better person. (i.e. "How dare you say anything when you don't have a partner?")
    That is not what I said at all. I was defending myself from unjustified judgements. I totally respect those who choose to remain single for their reasons. Sometimes I wonder if I made the right choice too, but hindsight is 20/20, no? Believe me, I'm no better than anyone else, but neither is anyone else better than me. That goes for all of us.
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    LOL!! Trust me, if it was just about the tail, I'd be like, the worst bisexual ever! For me, it really is about the love, affection and companionship. His life was very lonely and I've opened up my family to him. We all go on vacations together and he spends much time here in my home with my wife and daughters too. He really has blended right in quite nicely. He sometimes even helps my kids with their homework, he and my wife cook up a storm in the kitchen and even go get groceries together. It is so bizarre but it works for us. But also, when I need some time away, some guy time, I go to his place for days with my wife's total blessing. My testosterone gets a boost and she gets the TV all to her self. Win-win-win!

    It's ok if you are, cause I've been down this road with you before, so I kind of expect it now.


    That is not what I said at all. I was defending myself from unjustified judgements. I totally respect those who choose to remain single for their reasons. Sometimes I wonder if I made the right choice too, but hindsight is 20/20, no? Believe me, I'm no better than anyone else, but neither is anyone else better than me. That goes for all of us.

    So, he's not a live-in or permanent bed 'partner', he still has and lives at his own place?

    I assume that this is the same wife who told you to throw out the "thousands of dollars worth of wedding photos".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kahaih View Post
    So, he's not a live-in or permanent bed 'partner', he still has and lives at his own place?

    I assume that this is the same wife who told you to throw out the "thousands of dollars worth of wedding photos".
    Yes, he lives about an hour away, in another country.

    The wedding pictures were heavily damaged in a house fire. A lot got damaged in that fire, including our marriage. She could have just as easily thrown me out too, but she didn't. .
    Inspired - but too tired.

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    Quote Originally Posted by EuroSoccer View Post
    May I ask you why you want to know it?
    Why not? I find male bisexuality very interesting because society doesn't really know a lot about these guys. There needs to be more research done on bisexual men. Male bisexuality is still treated as a taboo in society and it shouldn't be. There needs to be more books, films, television programs, documentaries on bisexual men.

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    Nnnnnnnn



    Get them drags in there Mikey, I ain't mad @ ya


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    ^ I like how one of the girls being interviewed was clear to point out that it's ok for her to be bi or mess around with chicks but it's not ok for the man she may with to be bi...gotta love hypocrisy.

    Quote Originally Posted by mikey3000 View Post
    For me, it really is about the love, affection and companionship. His life was very lonely and I've opened up my family to him. We all go on vacations together and he spends much time here in my home with my wife and daughters too. He really has blended right in quite nicely. He sometimes even helps my kids with their homework, he and my wife cook up a storm in the kitchen and even go get groceries together. It is so bizarre but it works for us. But also, when I need some time away, some guy time, I go to his place for days with my wife's total blessing. My testosterone gets a boost and she gets the TV all to her self. Win-win-win! .
    I found this to be very cute and touching. Thank you for sharing.

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    For any of you girls out there who are thinking about pouncing on the bi-sexual marrieds with this thread.

    Don't.

    You have no right to judge anyone unless you have lived their life.

    We've already had Medusa try this shit.

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    I am amused that you think married bisexual men are going to answer your questions honestly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    For any of you girls out there who are thinking about pouncing on the bi-sexual marrieds with this thread.

    Why would you think that us girls would pounce on this thread. And...Medusa was a man.
    " For all there is to feel, let it be felt"
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Why would you think that us girls would pounce on this thread. And...Medusa was a man.
    I think he didn't mean actual girls, Missy

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Why would you think that us girls would pounce on this thread. And...Medusa was a man.
    See Eurosoccer's response.

    lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    See Eurosoccer's response.

    lol


    Oh Im sorry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissAnne View Post
    Oh Im sorry.

    I apologize.

    Yes, MissAnne, rareboy was throwing the term 'girls' out there to insult anyone who dares to disagree with him in advance - you know, 'girls' is bad - in usual/typical JUB misogynistic fashion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jdbadboy View Post
    I am amused that you think married bisexual men are going to answer your questions honestly.


    Quote Originally Posted by Kahaih View Post
    Yes, MissAnne, rareboy was throwing the term 'girls' out there to insult anyone who dares to disagree with him in advance - you know, 'girls' is bad - in usual/typical JUB misogynistic fashion.
    Yep, I'm glad I'm not the only one who caught it. Rareboy has been exposed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kahaih View Post
    Yes, MissAnne, rareboy was throwing the term 'girls' out there to insult anyone who dares to disagree with him in advance - you know, 'girls' is bad - in usual/typical JUB misogynistic fashion.

    Oh gee.

    You caught me out.

    I called out Jub's self appointed morality squad of pinch faced mean girls before they eviscerate the bi-guys again.

    my bad.

    Have at it.

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    I wouldn't say that anyone is trying to "eviscerate" the bisexuals. Just trying to understand them a little better. I personally don't believe there's anything wrong with being bi. Gurls can be hawt, too.

    However, I think a lot of people use being bi as an excuse to dip their dick into anything that moves. As if you can't be faithful to Adam just because you like Eve, too. I think the general consensus regarding the married bisexuals in open relationships on the forum is that they’re messy, so we're just trying to give them a platform to enlighten on why it works for them. If it's nothing to be ashamed of I don't understand why more people aren't posting openly about their experiences, or why some aren't even telling their partners.

    P.S. I find it interesting that you once again chose to reference us as "girls" in a negative connotation. Are you implying that only females can be mean-spirited?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BFizzle View Post
    However, I think a lot of people use being bi as an excuse to dip their dick into anything that moves.
    You don't have to be bi, married or even in an open relationship to do that.

    Quote Originally Posted by BFizzle View Post
    I think the general consensus regarding the married bisexuals in open relationships on the forum is that they’re messy, so we're just trying to give them a platform to enlighten on why it works for them.
    What about all the gay men who are married and in open relationships or the straight dudes or the few females? Why is this consensus only reserved for the bi dudes? Would it be more accurate to say you may question the the legitimacy of ones happiness of anyone in an open relationship?

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    The point that you avoided is these married bisexuals use the crutch of saying I like both, therefor I should have both, to avoid monogamy. I never once said that it applies to all bi people, or that any person of any sexual orientation couldn't do the same, but that it's used as an excuse to lay it low and spread it wide.

    You only replied for the sake of arguing and offered nothing to the discussion, so now that I've gotten you together, you can see yourself out. Good day.


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    I think it's cute who here is playing the victim. Talk to me when you have forum rules instated to stifle your posting habits.

    No one is attacking anyone, if you detected shade, maybe you should step out into the sun.

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