I will keep it real short! I have been seeing this guy for a month or so ...I thought we were exclusively dating (because I asked him if that's what he wanted..and he said yes)..anyway I was checking messagess on gaydar today and saw him on line..he said he couldn't see me today because he was going to see his son..anyway it wasn't a problem at all because something migh have come up and he didn't get to see his son or he forgot to turn off his computer before going out or something....also the fact he was on gaydar wasn't a problem either...because I was on too..
but the thing is that when you are on gaydar, there is this section that you choose 'Right now I am....' thingy... like right now I am 'looking to hook up now',,,'chatting'..'.travelling in your area' etc...and if you don't choose, it just goes 'checking messages'... (mine is always 'checking messages')
He was 'Looking to hook up now'....
obviously we are not in a serious relationship yet and I haven't met anyone else since we've met because that's what we have agreed to do??
so what now? should I ask him about this? in a very gentle and kind way? or don't ever contact him at all?....or just forget about this and act normal? or do I look for some fun as well? or asking him again about what we want and are looking for (relationship or casual fun)?
Sorry about a rather long post and sounding like a nagging girlfriend.....and thank you all for your replies in advance!!