This will be kind of long, most is backstory, the last 2 paragraphs are what im posting this for.
i really wasnt sure where to post this, so maybe a moderator can move this if they dont feel it goes here.
So i have a good friend whose straight and i have a crush on him but thats not relevant to the story, we visted a friend at college and we were drinking, and then he revealed to everyone that he hooked up with a guy, well my eyes were like saucers because my friend didnt even mention anything to me about wanting to hook up with guys, and hello im gay why wouldnt he ask me? for clarity purposes my friends name is Mike
So Mike says that one of his friends texted him, asking if they could blow him. now Mike, curious about this friend, we will call him John Doe, decides to go over to his apartment, and talk to him about it, because Mike said it came out of no where. So Mike confronts John Doe about it, and John Doe kind of nervously laughs, and anyway things happen.
Mike said the blowjob was horrible to the point where he actually had some bruises on his dick and John Doe used too much teeth, i then explained to him that it was because John Doe had no idea what the hell he was doing. and then what he said next really shocked me. John Doe basically bent over and wanted to try anal!
Mike, was hesitant but the guy was desperate he said, saying please over and over, so no lube, no condom, my friend tried to do the right thing (I guess?) and spit on his hole, but im sitting there like that wont work, and then he got the tip in, John Doe yelled, and it stopped, my friend soon left afterward.
So the point of this whole post is this. Mike wont tell me who the guy is, John Doe. he says that i know him and stuff and that we graduated high school with him, and while i wanted to kind of get the dirt on everything, after thinking about it, i was actually felt sad for John Doe. Here you have this guy who is obviously questioning, and probably pushed his feelings away for so long, that he got Mike who is pretty respectable, and would keep a secret, to try to test things out with him, and the fact that he just gave his ass up like that, worried me.
He probably didnt clean properly, he didnt have lube, was about to have anal sex for this first time without a condom, this guy obviously is very new at this, and i can only sit here and think that if no one talks to this guy, hes gonna end up on craigslist or adam 4 adam and just reply to the first ad, or get tricked by people, because he would just want to be with a guy so badly he wouldnt be thinking clearly. Ive heard the stories of ppl on sites like that being lured some where and they get beaten or killed and its horrible.
So i feel stuck now, i really want to help this guy not even to know who he is, just to help him, to educate him at least, but Mike wont give up his name or anything. So what do you think i should do? Just let it go and let the guy fend for himself? Or try to find another way around this? Or is it not my place? any help on this would be appreciated.
Sorry for the novel.