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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    There is a thin line between love and obsession.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Love is always two-way. No such thing as "unrequited love". Love is worked for, nurtured and developed with time. Anything else is just infatuation, crushing and obsessing. So no, you can't really "catch" love.
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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Yeah, I was addressing those who used the word "love".
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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    I don't have many gay friends. The ones I have are usually not into me sexually. The one time I had a friend who was into me sexually, he caught feelings. It's an awkward thing to try and set up. I'm also not really attractive enough to expect someone to want to fuck me repeatedly, when there are so many better looking guys out there.
    Gay friends is an interesting issue, I have one gay acquaintance who I know is sexually attracted to me but I'm not interested in him and I've made it very clear to him I only see him as a friend and that's it.

    The thing about feelings is people cannot control it, it just happens sometimes. And with gay men being friends with other gay men I guess it is bound to happen it is just how people deal with these feelings is the real issue.

    If another person can accept that one only wants friendship and nothing more perhaps a friendship can work. But if someone wants more and the other doesn't then it is unrequited love and that's a difficult thing to deal with.

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    Just because others don't accept us doesn't mean we aren't capable of a loving monogamous relationship. Go find what your heart wants. You deserve it.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by kayman23 View Post
    Maybe so, but when I hear excuses like what were given I call them a "cop out".

    You cannot get mad if you knew what was going on the beginning. As a rule goes, "why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free" so if you wanted a relationship then why give up the ass or dick from the jump?
    I have a question, why don't you want a relationship with this other guy? I mean, he's obviously good enough for you to take your clothes off and have sex with him right? So, what is it that's holding you back from getting seriously involved with him?

    Is it because you just don't want a relationship? Or you are comfortable with the friends with benefits situation? Or you feel you are not compatable with this guy for something serious?

    I understand your argument, but I also think if you know someone is really into you wants more but you cannot give him more then you must end it.


    Because eventually something bad is going to happen it is going to become a big mess and someone is going to get hurt.

    I get what you're saying that you are upfront with the other guy, but I can't help but feel bad for the other guy.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by MorrisseyX View Post
    I have a question, why don't you want a relationship with this other guy? I mean, he's obviously good enough for you to take your clothes off and have sex with him right? So, what is it that's holding you back from getting seriously involved with him?
    Well, I am not kayman23, but I can respond for myself. The question is absurd. Any nice guy with decent looks is good enough for me to take my clothes off with. I need about a thousand times more to be in a relationship with someone/
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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    For me personally, being sexually compatible with someone is a hell of a lot easier than being emotionally compatible with someone.
    I think that's the truth for everyone, which is the reason for so many failed relationships - because people feel guilty of having non-"loving" sex, and so convince themselves they're into someone when they aren't.
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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    People should do what (And hew ) they want, do what they are comfortable with and what they can handle within their personal moral/ethical framework.


    When you go to bed the only person there you have to answer to is yourself.


    There is a no standard, there is no "normal" there is only what's true to you.




    Now lets stop this ridiculous amount of disrespect that is coming from both sides in this thread and shame those who deserve it, the bisexuals.
    Last edited by DigitalFudge; March 17th, 2013 at 12:47 PM.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    I think so too.

    I found myself thinking of Cayman's quote today ("Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?"). It's more or less a blatant admission that his view is that a goal of a relationship is for a source of sex, so when that's given away so easily, a relationship is pointless.

    I realize I'm not the biggest champion of relationships on this board... but even in my wildest dreams, I would never sell the point of a relationship so short. If I ever find myself with someone, it won't be because they were a steady, reliable piece of ass. It would be more than that. So much more.
    If you drew that from my comment then that says more about your perspectives about relationships than mine. If you are open and willing to lay in bed with somebody and fuck/or be fucked then you are already opening yourself up to somebody to having a "relationship with them". The problems with "casual hook ups" are they aren't as cut and dry people attempt to make them out to be. Honestly, your acknowledge and drawing of this aforementioned conclusion affirms you have this exact mentality and attempting to project it on to me. Sorry, but no bueno

    Regardless of how you like to paint it, having sex with another human being is a form of relationship. Some of us would rather be out and open than in denial about our actions. Also if you are basing a committed relationship on sex then you have bigger problems...

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Just because you are incapable or seeing it in a casual way it doesn't mean it's a universal fact.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    I've never developed emotional feelings for a fuck buddy unless I was also socializing with him and getting to know him.

    When all you do is meet, fuck and leave there isn't much room for emotional connection... even if you've fucked him 100 times.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by Laufey View Post
    I've never developed emotional feelings for a fuck buddy unless I was also socializing with him and getting to know him.

    When all you do is meet, fuck and leave there isn't much room for emotional connection... even if you've fucked him 100 times.
    How do you invite someone into your bed and into your body, kiss them, hug them, look into their eyes and not feel anything for them?
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Fuck kisses and romantic kisses are very different from each other in my experience.

    I don't cuddle with my fb's or look them much in the eyes when having sex.

    It's just for the physical release nothing more.

    I just don't see sex as such a big deal and I can easily separate it from romantic feelings. I'm still a very romantic person when I'm with someone I'm emotionally connected to but like I said before I can separate the two.

    I have strong physical sexual urges and I'm not gonna be a nun just because I'm single.

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    No, you could be a priest. They have more sex.
    Everyone wants to be heard. No one wants to listen.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    How do you invite someone into your bed and into your body, kiss them, hug them, look into their eyes and not feel anything for them?
    I think he just misspoke. You feel sympathy, synergy and a general positive vibe. But you don't feel anything romantic.

    In other, very sad, deeply tragic news, my best fuckbuddy found a boyfriend and has become unavailable to me ;_;
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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by sixthson View Post
    How do you invite someone into your bed and into your body, kiss them, hug them, look into their eyes and not feel anything for them?
    I too find it strange that people can have a deeper connection with the clerk at the grocery store than someone they swap orgasms with.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    I too find it strange that people can have a deeper connection with the clerk at the grocery store than someone they swap orgasms with.
    Can they? Why is everything on one plane with you? There isn't just ONE scale of "connection" that everything is set on. Whatever connection I could possibly have with the clerk at the grocery store, it has nothing to do, and no base to compare with someone I swap orgasms with.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bankside View Post
    I too find it strange that people can have a deeper connection with the clerk at the grocery store than someone they swap orgasms with.
    I don't mind people being different in that way and not understanding... just as long as they don't preach to others about it somehow being wrong just because they feel different.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Deeper connection? Define that.

    My favorite fuck buddy before I met my lover was a guy who was a contractor...I met him while he was building a luxury hotel. He flirted with me in front of all his guys and asked me what I was doing later. I told him I worked in a bar and had to open that day at 3:00. He walked in a 3:05 and I pulled his pants down over a bar stool at 3:06 and fucked him.

    I love that he was honest and knew exactly what he wanted...and after maybe the 100th time we fucked and I was on my way out the door he asked me if I thought we should make it "official" and become lovers. We both looked at each other and shook our heads and in unison said...nah...at the same time.

    Our connection was great...we were honest and we often spoke without saying a word. We understood each other's body, mind and soul in some ways alot deeper than alot of people who are married. We didn't have to pretend anything to each other in order to maintain the status quo.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by TheSpectatingLoner View Post
    Not at all.

    "Why buy the cow when you can already have the milk for free?" Describe that in your words. You seem to be comparing the milk for sex. So the question is why date a guy when he put out so easy?

    I don't date men just to have sex with them. Never have, never will. A stronger connection is a must.



    It's a purely physical relationship.
    That's a question you need to be asking yourself. I don't have to explain the simplicity of a casual relationship versus a committed relationship because those are pretty self-explanatory.

    However, you ought to be asking yourself this: What and why do you get out of just seeking out of sleeping with a bunch of random dudes on a regular basis?
    Last edited by kayman23; March 18th, 2013 at 01:01 PM.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    To get sexual release while you are not in a relationship.

    Sex wasn't "invented" for love.

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    Re: Why are gay guys so promiscuous?

    Quote Originally Posted by Laufey View Post
    To get sexual release while you are not in a relationship.

    Sex wasn't "invented" for love.
    You could argue that sex was "invented" for procreation, at which point we're mostly all fucked (and not literally.)

    I could also argue that one could achieve sexual release without the need for another person.

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