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    *For some reason I cant edit my last post* Anyway, I have a question for anyone here, when we talk (wich wont be for two weeks),what should I say so I dont screw up completely? I mean, obviously my dumb mind is hoping for the whole "I know ou had a crush on me, and I like you too..." blah blah, but in realiy, I know it will be an experience that will leave us feeling awkward.

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    Okay, so I texted him last week, and we agreed to stay friends. So yesterday, I'm at dinner alone, because my friends didnt know I was back, and a cute baseball player was totally checking me out (he kept trying to catch my eyes, and succeeded), but that's not important right now. Today, I'm going to lunch, and I see one of our friends, he gets a phone call from you know who, and asked him if he wanted to go eat somewhere other than the cafeteria, he always asks us, but he "forgot" to ask me, I'm pretty sure our friends know what's up, cause I got a long-ish knowing stare from my friend out of nowhere. So, I finally see the guy at about 12 in the lab, and he barely lifts his head up and says "what's up?" quietly. So, I'm thinking about the baseball boy, because we played peek-a-boo again at lunch, and I had a lot to do in the lab. So, my other two friends are in there and they're all cheery and noisy, except you know who. I barely acknowledged him or anyone really due to my heavy work load today, and he begins making plans with one of our friends a bit loud, to let everyone know his plans for the day. I just keep to myself, and everybody does their usual thing, but what got me was that when I make a joke, he's laughing like it's the funniest thing ever told, and when I'm talking to a friend, he's trying to give another friend a pencil, but he's staring straight at me. This is either the most hilariously cutest way of him showing that he likes me, or a sad attempt to shut me out. Either way, if he's interested, that's cool, but until then, I like playing peek-a-boo with my new sports buddy.

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    *Wanted to add (since I cant make the friggin edt), that he had a silly little smirk on his face everytime he looked at me.

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    ^ I say "PLAY BALL" toots....... .......

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    Yikes, I meant my first crush was giving off a smirk, not my ball player(uhh), but it doesnt matter, since I plan to "play ball"

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    ^ Or if you DO get lucky.......maybe play BALLS........

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    Something's missing. Did you have "the big talk" then?

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    No, actually, we talked via text and decided that "as long as we both know we're good" (his words), there's no problem. But, that stupid little smirk, the avoiding (understandable to a degree, he doesnt know how to process it yet), and then obviously looking at me makes me think he wants to talk, but just can't. Added with the fact that I didnt get to go to dinner, I figured out that if I hang out with my other set of friends, and our friends (and he just misses me due to having a lot on my plate right now in terms of work), he might be the one to patch things up between us. For now, I'm not going to do what I did last time and practically beg with my eyes to make him acknowledge me, instead, I'll let him talk to me.

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    So, you remember a while back when I said we were an "unofficial couple",well we are really acting like one now. So Mon., we dont talk to eachother at all, so I get the feeling he needs his space, Tues. pretty sure he tried to play footsie with me, but I was not in the mood, so we see eachother last night with our different set of friends, and we're kind of talking to eachother, we make sort of eye contact, and today, I say "hey *his name*, and he jumps up, acting like he;s never heard my voice in forever, and a close friend and I are walking to lunch, and we pass him and one of his close friends, we didnt say a word to eachother. So, we're more or less acting like a couple that broke up at this point. All I want to know is what gives? Does he find me unsettling to him? Does he want us to be "us" again? I'm trying to give him his space, but it seems harder now that he's glancing at me, giving a depressed look and trying to mirror me in ways that scream "CAN WE PLEASE MAKE UP?"

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    ^an "unofficial couple" would at least hold hands and kiss let alone do something like oral or whatever. You're still at that point where you're not even sure he's bi or gay. You haven't really talked about "the elephant in the room". You haven't done anything to really nurture any kind of romantic interest. The flirting can get old after awhile and until you have the balls to make a move with just you two alone, there's really no point to all this.

    If it were me, I would have swallowed his cum already. I would have figured a way to get us alone, comfortable and turned on. I would let my actions speak for themselves, shoot first, talk later. If you're alone and watching something that could turn you both on (not necessarily porn) then just have at it. Get close, look into his eyes, touch his hand...there is a lot to be said for subtly when it comes to figuring out where you stand with someone. Like I said, your ACTIONS should speak for themselves. You don't always need to have some long drawn out discussion on how you're bi and you want to know if he is too blah blah blah.

    If you don't want to use subtly, then just make a point to gawk at his ass and then look up into his eyes and smile. If he doesn't kick your ass, then maybe he will get the hint to make some alone time for you two...

    But then again maybe i'm just talking out of MY ass. Don't worry too much about it, I get the sense you like to obsess and over think things. You can't plan everything dude, sometimes you just have to let thing be and let things happen naturally.

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    Actually, I quit trying a while ago. Last night we we're finally talking to eachother again, but I just quit analyzing and caring, the way I see it, I already told him how I felt, we agreed to be friends, and he's still giving off the vibe even though he said he is straight, but I'm looking for someone who is interested in me at this point. Not someone who is constantly questioning themselves, so if he likes me great, if not, I dont care, now until further notice, I think I have a date with a cute basketball and baseball player (basketball player says he has a gf, but i know baseball player is bi).

    Oh, something funny to me was that I'm pretty sure my obsession muttered under his breath "fuck me" and "you're such a fag" towards me.

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    Ooooooooooooo.........so you ARE going to play ball!
    Knock one out of the park.......and be SURE to tell us about it!.......

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    Quote Originally Posted by iminluv86 View Post
    Oh, something funny to me was that I'm pretty sure my obsession muttered under his breath "fuck me" and "you're such a fag" towards me.
    Yeah, can we say closet case...someone needs to plow his ass and get it over with already, poor dude.

    Quote Originally Posted by iminluv86 View Post
    Actually, I quit trying a while ago. Last night we we're finally talking to eachother again, but I just quit analyzing and caring, the way I see it, I already told him how I felt, we agreed to be friends, and he's still giving off the vibe even though he said he is straight, but I'm looking for someone who is interested in me at this point. Not someone who is constantly questioning themselves, so if he likes me great, if not, I dont care, now until further notice, I think I have a date with a cute basketball and baseball player (basketball player says he has a gf, but i know baseball player is bi).
    Good to hear! Good luck dude. As always, keep us posted.

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    *sigh* I didnt "play ball" so to speak, but I'm just doing some harmless flirting right now, but what's got me in a little funk is that Thurs. I did something that had me cut off from everyone until Sun. and today, I'm beginning to get out of the funk I'm in, and I see him, and so I sit in front him (now remember we havent seen eachother for 3 days), and I'm a bit of a downer and quietm and he's the exact same. We small talk, but it's obvious now that I have some genuine feelings for this guy, and he might (wishful thinking i know), because we locked eyes once, and we were all chit chat to everyone, but after we stopped looking at eachother, we were the quietest at the table, and our friends noticed. Even crazier is that when I put my feet up toward the table, I distinclty felt his foot on top of mine, and then he left...

    So confused right now, but not confused enough to put so much effort into him again, baby steps I guess.

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    ^ ..........and

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    Iminluv...I think it's a lost cause. Go find a new guy, enjoy life..don't dwell on this because it's just drama and games. You're only making yourself miserable.

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    Funny you post this because... I think I caught another basketball player's (who is single) eye. Yeah, I moved on, from what I saw today (actions speak louder sort of thing), my orignal crush is def. being hot and cold around me, well, I think I found someone who is hot all the time (see what I did there, aint I clever?!); but, in all seriousness, It's obvious he wants to tell me something now, but if he can't, oh well.

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    I agree with ElmosToe. I would have swallowed his cum and blown my load up his bum by now. But seriously though, this guy clearly doesn't know what he wants. Life is too short to waste on him. Move on and find a guy who is capable of saying he likes you!

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    Hi iminluv86....any updates on this situation specifically of on you moving on?

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    yeah. we're all curious

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