Asking for Advice

[Aren19]

My boyfriend and I were discussing sex the other night as well as STDs. I'd like some advice on what to do to keep us safe. We're both virgins.

[Coward92]

Keep your relationship monogamous and you will be both protected from every STD.

[Aren19]

We planned on staying together and keep our relationship closed, but aren't we still at risk for STDs even though neither of us have had sex?

[para0402]

Probably not? But I'm not the expert. Based on what I've read, you wouldn't have to worry too much if the anus is cleaned properly. As we all know, it's not the cleanest part of the body... But I don't think you'll get STD from that too, probably some minor infection.

[Coward92]

No.
If none of you have ever had sex and you keep your relationship closed and have sex with only each other, than you will never get infected with any sort of STD ever.
Not through sex anyways.

[justsimon]

Wrap it up.

[Corny]

So how sure are you that he is indeed a virgin?

[mbamike]

If you have any doubt, use condoms.

[Aren19]

So how sure are you that he is indeed a virgin?

Very sure. We've been going out for 4 years and he's never lied to me.

If you have any doubt, use condoms.

I don't have any doubts about him having an STD.

[nafhoosier]

You've been going out for four years and haven't had sex? Remember, many people don't consider oral sex to be sex, so your BF could potentially have sucked a dick or two down the road.

But I recommend using condoms anyway. To me they symbolize a commitment to keeping each other safe and healthy.

Perhaps down the road once you have been having sex for a year or two and feel absolutely committed and comfortable you can ditch your condoms if you so choose, but at the moment that is what i recommend.

[Aren19]

He's bisexual and has had two girlfriends before me. One cheated on him and the other was a close friend. He's never had sex, not even oral. Same with me and we both consider oral sex sex.

[IAMTHATIAM]

Madness or lies... does it matter?