And I don't mean just simply stating things you're turned off by, rather things that are conditional or have made you question why you feel a certain way towards something...
If you're comfortable...share them here.
I started this thread mainly to see if I find anyone can relate to my strange "issue".
Okay the thing is: I am very pro-rimming (just the thought of it makes me euphoric),but when it comes to men I'm in relationships with and/or dating seriously...it turns me off (giving, that is). I have no desire to do it whatsoever.
When it comes to hookups, friends-with-benefits, etc. I'm ALL ABOUT IT...but if it's a man I'm even close to thinking about becoming serious with...it's suddenly not appealing. Now, I've been through all sorts of little mental analyses of myself...and it's definitely nothing to do with shame or anything of that nature. I don't know. It's just odd how something I love so much can become so bland/unappealing when I think of a man as someone I want to 'be with'.
Sounds crazy? Yeah, I know.
anyone have any similar odd/conditional hangups?