Yeah...I have limits.
For me...I dont' think I have ever said aloud nor even thought to myself that anyone is "ugly" because of their appearance. Neither do I grade people based on their appearance. I find that behavoir obnoxious and incredibly boring and I am embarrassed for anyone who does that....I feel like taking a shower after being around them. I think that it is alot more interesting to try to be kind to other people...and yourself. I did let people know they were crossing my boundaries when I heard that crap. Working in a gay bar I heard it all the time and sometimes I could actually feel my skin crawl.
Oh yeah...Gay Republicans...I can't/won't/don't accept them...I tried to get past it but gave up because it is a total turn off for me and I see no reason to put any more effort into getting past it.