my roommate is also my stepbrother (did not meet him till i was 17). physically he is everything i like, and his personality gets on my nerves sometimes but we work through it. No one knows i am bi and i have only been with one guy before (more of a fuck buddy) . i do not want anyone to know, but he is talking about moving in to a house together in October. we have been roommates for 2 years. neither one of us has ever brought a girl home.
now for the weird things. i bring up topics that are considered gay, and he joking (i think) tells me to get on my knees. one night we went out drinking, and i got totally messed up. i passed out on the floor at his feet and in my drunken stupor i started feeling him up starting with his feet and working my way up to his package. he woke up when i started messing with his feet again, followed by me going to bed. lately he has been telling me he is free balling in basketball shorts and to not accidentally look up them. he has been sleeping in the same chair that i groped him in and he is now sleeping with his legs spread and both his hands (fingers laced) behind his head.
i would like some advice on how to tell him i have been trying to out myself in ways that dont involve me actually talking (gay porn sites in my history, accidentally sending a text message saying i am bisexual claiming it was autocorrect to gauge his reaction, ect)