I just recently got into a relationship with this guy. It's been 3 months already and he is a good guy and thinks the same about me. Lately I have been having second thoughts about this because he's really not one to take initiative. I have to decide what we are doing for dates, i have to initiate conversations or Skype dates and I have to do the nice gestures (such as meaningful gifts) and he wants to give me a gift but has been stumped on what to get me. He also seems a bit like a pushover. Everything I do is "perfect". I really am not perfect and I have flaws. Am I wrong for wanting him to take initiative or for thinking he is a pushover? And yes I have talked to him about it but his answer is always "well what do you want me to do about it?"