It was three months ago when I caught my ex sleeping with his ex. I was in a serious mess, and it was a very painful breakup. The good thing is he is no longer here in the city as he moved out of state to get together and live with his former boyfriend. My last words for him were "Get the fuck out of my house. I do not want to see you again in this lifetime."
I think I am finally over it and have found ways to turn the volume down. I don't think about him anymore although pockets of memories still popped up here and there as expected. My friends and I don't talk about it anymore. I am still working with my counselor but we now talk about where we are heading from here.
I went to a series of dates in the past couple months. My friends tried to hook me up with some guys, but I decided that I want to be single for a while.
I am just glad my life is now back on track.