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    I showered for him and everything

    I made a 'date' to get together with a guy I have been with once before. It was during my two months of getting back into the swing of things after a long absence from sex.

    He was ok. He was older than me. Im 48, he was 53. But he was nice and made me feel good because Im about 40 lbs overweight and he referred to me as solid.

    He was hairy and I wasnt into it really. I was honest and told him that I wasnt really into hairy guys. And he liked having his nipples bitten really hard and I just wasnt into that. Maybe if he shaved that area

    But we almost connected up a few weeks later. When Im horny, I ready to go. I was going to go to his place but he said he had the flu. So he is on Squirt.org (hook up website) when he had the flu? That seemed weird to me.


    On Friday night, I was going to go to his place because I had hosted. He had plans. I havent really been fucked much because of my absence so I wanted to do it again. We fucked briefly the last time.

    I said I was going to have a shower and I would be back online at 6 pm. I was to be at his place at 7 pm. I still needed his address. I talked to him and he said "sorry but I have a family dinner I forgot about". I said ok.

    But 5 minutes after that, I saw him in a different room. An hour later, I signed into the room and he was still there.

    Side story: There was a guy that I liked, he was young and I wanted to suck him off but I was too old for him. So I created a profile to see if it would attract him. I dont think I ever tried the profile (Andrew West 007) on him.

    But I signed in and tried it on the guy who cancelled on me. I wanted to see what would happen since he led me to believe that we were going to meet Friday night.

    I talked to him as Andrew and then I told him it was me and I had just busted him for lying to me. I wasnt really mad although I should have been because twice he has made me think we would meet. But since he was "ok", I didnt care that we didnt end up meeting

    I recorded the conversation and here it is. Remember, he lied to me and made me think we were going to meet.

    I showered and everything. Bottoms will known what Im talking about.

    Here is Andrew's photo.



    His name is blocked out (as well as the town name, and the guys cock I wanted to suck




    I tell him that it is me . . .

    Last edited by M10000; February 23rd, 2013 at 08:29 AM.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    My b/f and I see guys holding a drink (usually older) standing in gay bars all the time just watching people... alone. If you're 50 and you still want to hook up with people on the internet... wow... But if that's your thing, more power to you.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Really?

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    You told him that you didn't like that he was hairy and had reluctant sex with him and you're surprised that he's not jumping at the chance to go through it again?
    Someone asked me once how I could know that I'm gay if I've never slept with a woman. I've never shoved shards of glass into my eye, either, but I don't have to give it a shot to know that it's not for me.

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    I would recommend the use of filters when you are telling someone who is in your bed what you like or don't like.


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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by animalius View Post
    My b/f and I see guys holding a drink (usually older) standing in gay bars all the time just watching people... alone. If you're 50 and you still want to hook up with people on the internet... wow... But if that's your thing, more power to you.
    what's wrong with old people trying to have sex?

    To OP, let it go. It's not worth it.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by animalius View Post
    My b/f and I see guys holding a drink (usually older) standing in gay bars all the time just watching people... alone. If you're 50 and you still want to hook up with people on the internet... wow... But if that's your thing, more power to you.
    I don't understand this. People over 50 shouldn't try to hook up? What is the reasoning behind this? I had a husband for 35 yrs. and he suddenly passed away leaving me alone for the first time since I was 17. I'm over 50 and have hooked up with guys on the internet and very successfully I might add. I'm sure you are grateful to have a BF and don't have a need to find someone, I didn't for 35 yrs., you could find yourself alone in your 50's like I did. I don't go to gay bars.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by animalius View Post
    My b/f and I see guys holding a drink (usually older) standing in gay bars all the time just watching people... alone. If you're 50 and you still want to hook up with people on the internet... wow... But if that's your thing, more power to you.
    Oh. By the way?

    I'm just dying to see you at 50. With the string of stupid boyfriends you go through who are mostly attracted to you for your money...I suspect that you'll be standing there in that bar one day.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    He contacted me in a message and said (I dont remember what he said). I told him that I prefer guys who arent hairy (and added that I had trimmed my body hair).
    I admit it. I was horny one day and he was there and I said "lets get together". That was the time he said he had the flu.

    Bear in mind that I live in a town where I am closeted. To make a gay comment in public would draw negative attention, or at least, stares from people.

    On that message board, most guys are bi because it is easier to say you are bi than to say you are gay. I say I am gay.
    This isnt the big city where hooking up is easy.

    He never said to me "why do you want to be with me. I thought you didnt like hairy guys" (Actually I would say "hairy older guys")
    You are not going to be wildly attracted to every guy you meet. There are going to be guys who are you prefer.
    I never led him with that impression. But he did leave me with the impression that he liked being with me and I think when I told him I had shaved / trimmed, he didnt like that. He likes hairy guys. (This is something I am just realising now. Maybe thats why he didnt follow through)


    Im 48 and I know that a guy in his 20's is not going to be interested in me because I know what it was like to be 20 and have guys in their 40's interested in me. I wasnt interested but older guys will not take no for an answer.

    I went through a period of being on social apps. I was in the upper third of the oldest guys on there. All the guys around me are in their 20's and 30's. Its strange being the guy that you once didnt want to approach you.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    Oh. By the way?

    I'm just dying to see you at 50. With the string of stupid boyfriends you go through who are mostly attracted to you for your money...I suspect that you'll be standing there in that bar one day.
    That will happen sooner than you thought.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Is he 53?


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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by animalius View Post
    My b/f and I see guys holding a drink (usually older) standing in gay bars all the time just watching people... alone. If you're 50 and you still want to hook up with people on the internet... wow... But if that's your thing, more power to you.
    Whats wrong with you? Are you fucked up in the head?

    Anther smug, stuck up piece of shit remark, that's just mean and nasty like a ass lick would post.

    fuck you and your bf standing around in bars worrying about other people doing the same thing you are. I doubt you are the hot god you think.
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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Yeah well all that information about on screen back and forth crap...."It aint real till it's real"....amazing how people will hide behind a screen. It really doesn't matter what he said because you can't believe any of it. Make a date to meet for coffee and see how fast he even disappears from the screen. He's playing you big time. Forget about it. And the age is irrelevant...thread is going off the rails!
    Your post comments are forwarded to the CIA.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by ibill1 View Post
    I don't understand this. People over 50 shouldn't try to hook up? What is the reasoning behind this? I had a husband for 35 yrs. and he suddenly passed away leaving me alone for the first time since I was 17. I'm over 50 and have hooked up with guys on the internet and very successfully I might add. I'm sure you are grateful to have a BF and don't have a need to find someone, I didn't for 35 yrs., you could find yourself alone in your 50's like I did. I don't go to gay bars.
    You guys misunderstand me.

    People can do whatever the hell they want.

    That said, look at the exchanges posted in the OP. They sure as hell don't look like 2 50 year olds talking back and forth.

    If people just want to hook up for one night stands, then god bless them go for it. I'm just saying it looks like a lonely life to me.

    Yes, I differentiate between hooking up and dating. I speak as a guy who got hit on left and right by older guys who just wanted to hook up during my younger years. My boy friend is 22, and he gets propositioned left and right by older guys who want one night stands.

    But again, if that's what people want to do with their lives, hooking up with random people on the internet for one night stands, then you go you. Just sounds too lonely for me.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by vulgar_newcomer View Post
    Whats wrong with you? Are you fucked up in the head?

    Anther smug, stuck up piece of shit remark, that's just mean and nasty like a ass lick would post.

    fuck you and your bf standing around in bars worrying about other people doing the same thing you are. I doubt you are the hot god you think.
    I apologize to have offended people. Not my intention. I was in a hurry this morning, and my words were out of line.

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    Quote Originally Posted by rareboy View Post
    Oh. By the way?

    I'm just dying to see you at 50. With the string of stupid boyfriends you go through who are mostly attracted to you for your money...I suspect that you'll be standing there in that bar one day.
    Haha, not this one, hon. This one kept track of all the money I loaned him and is paying me back $200 every other week.

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    Yeah. We'll see how that all turns out.

    And what the fuck is the problem with an older guy hitting on a younger guy, anyway.

    Get the fuck over it Mary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by animalius View Post
    You guys misunderstand me.

    People can do whatever the hell they want.

    That said, look at the exchanges posted in the OP. They sure as hell don't look like 2 50 year olds talking back and forth.

    If people just want to hook up for one night stands, then god bless them go for it. I'm just saying it looks like a lonely life to me.

    Yes, I differentiate between hooking up and dating. I speak as a guy who got hit on left and right by older guys who just wanted to hook up during my younger years. My boy friend is 22, and he gets propositioned left and right by older guys who want one night stands.

    But again, if that's what people want to do with their lives, hooking up with random people on the internet for one night stands, then you go you. Just sounds too lonely for me.
    The original OP exchanges are not conducive of all internet hook ups. You should know that. The guys I have met on the internet usually started with meeting for drinks or coffee, getting to know each other, and taking it from there. I also don't understand that it sounds too lonely. So one should be alone and lonely, rather than meet someone over the internet? Believe me, if you had to walk in my shoes, losing the love of your life after so many years, you would have a different perspective. I guess maybe I did misunderstand your original response as it suggested that meeting someone over the internet was somehow a lonely exercise in futility and somehow pathetic, at least that is what I garnered from it.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Okay, yes there is a stupid "older people, ewww" attitude that exists on the internet.

    But there is also an "Older people have the potential for way more complex relationships, and though hooking up is great when you're young it is also kind of like going to a beatles concert as a teenaged girl and screaming and weeping; it is one day hopefully something to be outgrown, and that doesn't represent a diminishing quality of life, but the growth that comes from experience."


    Anyway, ignoring the whole young-bashing vs. old-bashing thing cause really I don't care…

    M10000, you are looking for a more complex relationship. People are never going to deliver that for you on squirt. It is a fuck-first-ask-questions later kind of web site, where expectations of honest and deep relationships are misplaced. I'm sure I could find a fabergé egg at a thrift shop or a monet at someone's garage sale, but I'm not counting on it. Yes?

    You've been very honest about some of the circumstances that have put limitations on your social life, and even though hooking up is not my thing, I've been rooting for you over the last few months anyway as you have set foot out into the scene once more. It must be a relief to have that kind of connection and be a little bit more at home in the world….to own just a crack of it...

    But I do believe you want more than the men of Squirt can deliver, and getting into debates with the guys there will ultimately just waste your time. Your response to doubting his story was to basically turn into part-detective, part-stalker. It's not going to change his lying behaviour. But it should be a wake-up call to you about what you can actually expect from random Squirt hook-ups.

    My suggestion is, one day at a time, try pushing yourself to different venues where you can meet guys in different social settings, and slow enough to get to know their character a bit first and so others get to know you. You'll be able to spot the genuine guys from the flakes, which is really helpful before you sleep with any of them. And the genuine guys will give you an honest "no thanks" or maybe even an honest "yes." Which is not what Squirt will give. But it's what I think you're actually still looking for.

    Will you settle for anything less?
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    This guy is 53? I wish I could look that good!

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    He was hairy and I wasnt into it really. I was honest and told him that I wasnt really into hairy guys. And he liked having his nipples bitten really hard and I just wasnt into that. Maybe if he shaved that area
    Before you had your First meeting with that 53yr old Guy you both described yourselves...When he told you online that he was hairy why did you have him Drive to YOUR home and then decide to tell him in the bed that you don't like Hairy Guys?

    Now that's messed up on your part.



    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    On Friday night, I was going to go to his place because I had hosted. He had plans. I havent really been fucked much because of my absence so I wanted to do it again. We fucked briefly the last time.
    How long does a Brief Fucking last? Did he cum quicker than you expected?



    Quote Originally Posted by EuroSoccer View Post
    Is he 53?
    That Pic of the guy laying on the bed is "Andrew 007" the fake username/Profile made-up by M10000...He can't show us a pic of the 53yr old he messed around with...
    Last edited by MisterMajestic; February 23rd, 2013 at 01:45 PM.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by MisterMajestic View Post
    That Pic of the guy laying on the bed is "Andrew 007" the fake username/Profile made-up by M10000...He can't show us a pic of the 53yr old he messed around with...
    Oooh, I thought he was well fit for a 53 y/o (no offense to the over 50)

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    Quote Originally Posted by ibill1 View Post
    The original OP exchanges are not conducive of all internet hook ups. You should know that. The guys I have met on the internet usually started with meeting for drinks or coffee, getting to know each other, and taking it from there. I also don't understand that it sounds too lonely. So one should be alone and lonely, rather than meet someone over the internet? Believe me, if you had to walk in my shoes, losing the love of your life after so many years, you would have a different perspective. I guess maybe I did misunderstand your original response as it suggested that meeting someone over the internet was somehow a lonely exercise in futility and somehow pathetic, at least that is what I garnered from it.
    I'm sorry for the misunderstanding.

    I meant dating versus hooking up for sex. Again, people can do whatever they want.

    What I'm saying is this. And I'm talking from personal experiences from my younger years. I was 5'7, 130lb, runner, etc. Also young and dumb. The older guys who approached me were never interested in a relationship. They just bounced from one younger guy to the next. That, to me, is a lonely existence.

    I'm not talking about your situation where you lost the love of your life and now you're trying to get back into dating.

    My b/f and I went out to get stuff from the grocery to try to make a new recipe of chili. You can't do something like that and enjoy it with someone you intend to hook up for a night and go onto the next guy.

    Again, I don't consider hooking up "dating". But if that's your thing, then you go you.

    Added by edit.

    And please don't accuse me of being an ageist. When I was 23 I dated a man that was in his 60's. We dated for a long time.

    I know I sound like a jerk on here. But trust me, I'm not. I'm just not politically correct.
    Last edited by animalius; February 23rd, 2013 at 01:50 PM.

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    Do young guys being hit on by old guys assume that all they want is a one night stand? I don't know why that would be.

    <I speak as a guy who got hit on left and right by older guys who just wanted to hook up during my younger years. My boy friend is 22, and he gets propositioned left and right by older guys who want one night stands.>
    Last edited by MarkScott; February 23rd, 2013 at 02:14 PM. Reason: accidentally posted early

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    Quote Originally Posted by MarkScott View Post
    Do young guys being hit on by old guys assume that all they want is a one night stand? I don't know why that would be.

    <I speak as a guy who got hit on left and right by older guys who just wanted to hook up during my younger years. My boy friend is 22, and he gets propositioned left and right by older guys who want one night stands.>
    Let me ask you this. Do you consider asking for sex the first night you met someone a prelude to a nice romantic dating period?

    If you forego the getting to know each other, going out on dates, etc. and just go straight to sex, don't tell me that's a prelude to a long term relationship.

    I'm not blind. I dated a man who was in his 60s for a year back in my early 20s. I know the difference between meeting someone for potential dates and just wanting 1 night fuck.

    Now, look at the OP again. Does that look like a prelude to a nice romantic dating period?

    Edit.

    But like I said, I'm not very politically correct. If you want sugar coated versions, better look for someone else to talk to.
    Last edited by animalius; February 23rd, 2013 at 02:34 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pat grimshaw View Post




    This guy is 53? I wish I could look that good!
    No, That was the photo I used for Andrew, who was 33.



    Bankside,
    M10000, you are looking for a more complex relationship.
    - Im not looking for a relationship. I think you can find love where you find it. I met a boyfriend at a bathouse. We went out together for 3 months until he was transferred to Toronto. He started training with Air Canada the Monday after we met, then he was tranferred. He asked me to go with him but I said no because I didnt know him long enough.

    You've been very honest about some of the circumstances that have put limitations on your social life, and even though hooking up is not my thing, I've been rooting for you over the last few months anyway as you have set foot out into the scene once more.
    - Thank you. I was getting my feet wet by going back in the water and having sexual encounters with several guys over 2 months.

    It must be a relief to have that kind of connection and be a little bit more at home in the world….to own just a crack of it...
    - Yes, it is a relief that I can get back on the bike and I think the longer I put it off (which had been 17 years), the better it is for me to know that I can do that if thats what I want to do. But its not really waht I want to do. Like I said, Its easier to spend 5 minutes, get off, rather than be on social apps looking for someone you are interested in (keeping in mind the guys around you are younger than you and probably not into you). I live in a town of 60,000 people. I dont live in Vancouver. I live in the suburbs.

    But I do believe you want more than the men of Squirt can deliver, and getting into debates with the guys there will ultimately just waste your time. Your response to doubting his story was to basically turn into part-detective, part-stalker. It's not going to change his lying behaviour. But it should be a wake-up call to you about what you can actually expect from random Squirt hook-ups.
    - I was taking it for what it is. Horny guys looking to have fun. Guys on social apps can give you the attitude that they arent on the app to 'hook up' but then again, you are being told how far away someone is from you.

    My suggestion is, one day at a time, try pushing yourself to different venues where you can meet guys in different social settings, and slow enough to get to know their character a bit first and so others get to know you.
    - there are no venues where I live. There used to be a gay group - where guys just get together socially, no sex - but that no longer exists. Because I have no car, the bathouse (if Im looking for sex) is a 90 minute bus ride and I havent gotten to travel on a bus for 90 minutes to go there. There are no venues for gay guys to meet where I live. Thats just how it is and thats why Squirt is probably the most common place, beside social apps, that guys try to meet others in my town. This is the town where I was the token fag at school
    and not much has changed.
    You may ask why would I live there then and it is because my family is here and I didnt like the pressures of living in Vancouver when, frankly, I got fat. I went from being noticed to being invisible. So circumstances led me to moving back to my hometown.


    You'll be able to spot the genuine guys from the flakes, which is really helpful before you sleep with any of them. And the genuine guys will give you an honest "no thanks" or maybe even an honest "yes." Which is not what Squirt will give. But it's what I think you're actually still looking for.
    - Im not really looking. I have work to do on myself to get to feel like someone would want to be with me.
    I think guys seem to settle down out here after they have met someone but thats just my guess.


    Will you settle for anything less?
    - Hopefully not.

    Mister Majestic,
    Before you had your First meeting with that 53yr old Guy you both described yourselves...When he told you online that he was hairy why did you have him Drive to YOUR home and then decide to tell him in the bed that you don't like Hairy Guys?
    Now that's messed up on your part.
    - I dont know if thats how it happened. I had my sights on getting fucked and its not that I dont like hairy guys but maybe it was because he was 'older and hairy', he had an upper denture which I didnt know about until I kissed him, and he had a Ace bandage around his waist which I never asked him about until 8 days ago. His reply was "Ill tell you about that later". There were things he didnt tell me about. Is a guy required to tell you he has an upper denture? No.

    How long does a Brief Fucking last? Did he cum quicker than you expected?
    - Geez, youre disecting this thing apart, arent you? lol
    I rode his cock and I didnt think I was going to cum that way and I suggested using my dildo because that is my standard method. I have unfortunately become to use to using a dildo while getting off. I cant just jack off. I need the anal stimulation as well. But I know thats not a good thing so I did come without using the dildo.
    Last edited by M10000; February 23rd, 2013 at 03:38 PM.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    Quote Originally Posted by EuroSoccer View Post
    Is he 53?

    He is straight up to my bill.

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    Re: I showered for him and everything

    I'm sorry, but I never dreamed guys MY DAD'S AGE had this much drama going on. You really expect to find any answers on a chat forum that will help the situation? Here's the solution....Accept that the guy is an ass because he stood you up. It has happened to a lot of people. But creating a fake profile sounds like high school stuff.

    Right? Right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JP. View Post
    He is straight up to my bill.
    I would fuck that ass all night long...........

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    Quote Originally Posted by fundavid101 View Post
    I'm sorry, but I never dreamed guys MY DAD'S AGE had this much drama going on. You really expect to find any answers on a chat forum that will help the situation? Here's the solution....Accept that the guy is an ass because he stood you up. It has happened to a lot of people. But creating a fake profile sounds like high school stuff.

    Right? Right.
    You would have to know a bit about me but you have 13 posts. What I didnt say, because I have already said it on here several times is that I have an anxiety issue has stopped me from meeting guys and as I say above, I was getting my feet wet again.

    Childish? Im being honest in admitting I did that. I did feel a bit sneaky, as he said, when I spoke to him as Andrew. But at the same time, it could be seen as clever because I am not wasting my time on him and he will not give me another excuse I had chosen to meet with him another night.

    He could have said "Mark, you said you werent into hairy guys so I think we should go our separate ways". He is a 53 yr old who made me think I was getting laid that night"

    Quote Originally Posted by EuroSoccer View Post
    I would fuck that ass all night long...........
    If I was a top, I would too ;-)
    Last edited by M10000; February 23rd, 2013 at 05:01 PM.

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    .
    Online hookups.
    Just expect the unexpected and you will be fine.
    After you showered just don't assumed someone will turn up for sure. Of course you'd feel abit annoyed but what can you do?

    Just tell him off and move on, he is not hot and not your thing anyway.
    Last edited by Telstra; February 23rd, 2013 at 05:22 PM.


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    If he blew you off just move on.. no need to investigate. It's not like you two were looking for anything more than a fuck. But these ARE the risks you run with online hook ups like Telstra mentioned.

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    When you think about, going to a guy's place - however you met - can be dangerous

    You dont know if the guy is a Luka Magnotta or Jeffrey Dahmer.

    I realized this after reading this on the message board at Squirt.org
    He didnt know the guy would rob him. He was there to meet an escort

    I read the following on the message board at Squirt . . .

    HELP ME!!!SCAM!!!
    I went to this guy's home early today,told him did some curreny exchange cause will travel to NYC tomorrow .I just left my bag at chair. After meeting, he ask me to have shower! i won't. but he said i should. then left bag out of my eyes
    when i back,found i lost 2000 USD. almost all. but i put all the money on envelope. if i drop it,i must lost all. but i just lost 20 100bills!!!
    i send msg to him, ask he took or not...of course you said NO...then i go back to the bank...didn;t find anything...i didn't went anywhere unless his place and my bag always with me..who will stole it and why you ask me to shower alone...
    i called the 911!!!but the cops BUSY BUSY!!!fuck!!!why give u ticket,it;s just a second thing!!!when you wanna help!they BUSY,BUSY!!!!

    I wrote:

    This is not a scam
    Its called stupidity
    You tell a stranger you have $2000 with you (who does that?)
    You lost it
    Youve learned a lesson

    'Dont tell strangers you have cash with you'

    ===============
    He replied:
    i know am stupid...
    i did not told him amount...he took most of them

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    On occasion, I wonder what it might be like to be single. I think I might join an online site, read some profiles, go hook-up, and just have a good time.

    Then posts like this come along.

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    On a social app, I have had a guy say to me "Are you kidding? Do you think someone like me would want anything to do with you?"

    I guess its Karma, because I would think the same thing when I was 20 yrs old. And here I am , a 48 yr old guy talking to a 20 yr old guy. He was 300 meters away from me so I decided to talk to him.

    At the same, I have had a young guy contact me and start talking to me, calling me "daddy". That made me cringe.

    I dont bother with social apps, although I did post a new photo because I thought of this idea and I have had someone already say "how did you do that?"



    I added a watermark to protect my photo. It doesnt mean someone hasnt made a floating ipod photo, but you never know
    Last edited by opinterph; February 23rd, 2013 at 07:52 PM. Reason: late edit requested by OP

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    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post

    I went through a period of being on social apps. I was in the upper third of the oldest guys on there. All the guys around me are in their 20's and 30's. Its strange being the guy that you once didnt want to approach you.
    I think this may be one of the most sobering and honest sentences I've read on this website.
    This should serve as a reminder to those of us in our 20s and 30s that we too will grow older and we should make an effort to treat our older brothers with a little respect (even when they make creepy advances towards us )
    Rejoice and Behold the pungency of my nuts for I have arrived!

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    The thing is - I occasionally have younger guys hitting on me here on JUB. Usually between 20-30. And they never seem to approach me as anything but an equal. I've never been called "daddy" or told anything like that. They just say "I think you're pretty hot, and I like the way you think" or stuff like that. And I respond in kind, and away we go. I'm assuming it wouldn't be like that on a dating site, where the first thing they'd have to respond to would be a face picture.

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    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    although I did post a new photo because I thought of this idea and I have had someone already say "how did you do that?"
    How DID you do that???

    "Whatever you do, or dream you can, begin it. Boldness has genius and power and magic in it..." Goethe

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    Quote Originally Posted by swerve View Post
    How DID you do that???

    Well, I guess it will come out if I dont say it, (cant keep a secret here) but it was photoshopped.

    I have seen photos of guys holding cameras to take their photo. And as Oprah would say, I had an "a ha" moment

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    Quote Originally Posted by G-Lexington View Post
    The thing is - I occasionally have younger guys hitting on me here on JUB. Usually between 20-30. And they never seem to approach me as anything but an equal. I've never been called "daddy" or told anything like that. They just say "I think you're pretty hot, and I like the way you think" or stuff like that. And I respond in kind, and away we go. I'm assuming it wouldn't be like that on a dating site, where the first thing they'd have to respond to would be a face picture.

    Lex
    Yeah but have you ever heard of a "young" gargoyle.....the very word does not conjure up visions of youth...


    Your post comments are forwarded to the CIA.

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    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    On a social app, I have had a guy say to me "Are you kidding? Do you think someone like me would want anything to do with you?"

    I guess its Karma, because I would think the same thing when I was 20 yrs old. And here I am , a 48 yr old guy talking to a 20 yr old guy. He was 300 meters away from me so I decided to talk to him.

    At the same, I have had a young guy contact me and start talking to me, calling me "daddy". That made me cringe.

    I dont bother with social apps, although I did post a new photo because I thought of this idea and I have had someone already say "how did you do that?"



    I added a watermark to protect my photo. It doesnt mean someone hasnt made a floating ipod photo, but you never know
    It is ok a 20 yo called you daddy. Anyone over 30 can be a daddy. Just play along with it.


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    You don't really like him, told him as much, and then wonder why he's not interested in hanging with you?

    Sounds beyond desperate and I'm saying this from experience.

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    @OP: Just leave him. Pondering about him is useless. Find a new one. There are lots of fish in the sea.

    Quote Originally Posted by animalius View Post
    My b/f and I see guys holding a drink (usually older) standing in gay bars all the time just watching people... alone. If you're 50 and you still want to hook up with people on the internet... wow... But if that's your thing, more power to you.
    Please.

    With the story of your BF (with all his stupidity), you will use one or be on a gay bar sooner or later. Besides, suppose you two go on quite long enough and suddenly you passed away, leaving your BF at 50s, he would be using one too.
    come now, my child. if we were planning to harm you, do you think
    we'd be lurking here beside the path in the darkest part of the forest?

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    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    On a social app, I have had a guy say to me "Are you kidding? Do you think someone like me would want anything to do with you?"

    I guess its Karma, because I would think the same thing when I was 20 yrs old. And here I am , a 48 yr old guy talking to a 20 yr old guy. He was 300 meters away from me so I decided to talk to him.
    This is why I never said anything mean comments to anyone regarding on their appearances.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cgymike View Post
    Yeah but have you ever heard of a "young" gargoyle.....the very word does not conjure up visions of youth...


    Every gargoyle was young once. But I'm aware most young folks don't like thinking about that. It implies things like age and mortality. Luckily, you can always turn the music up louder and dance faster.

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    Quote Originally Posted by freefall View Post
    @OP: Just leave him. Pondering about him is useless. Find a new one. There are lots of fish in the sea.



    Please.

    With the story of your BF (with all his stupidity), you will use one or be on a gay bar sooner or later. Besides, suppose you two go on quite long enough and suddenly you passed away, leaving your BF at 50s, he would be using one too.
    People on JUB have the worst reading comprehension skills I've seen in my life. Either that or they love quote-mining people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by M10000 View Post
    I made a 'date' to get together with a guy I have been with once before. It was during my two months of getting back into the swing of things after a long absence from sex.

    He was ok. He was older than me. Im 48, he was 53. But he was nice and made me feel good because Im about 40 lbs overweight and he referred to me as solid.

    He was hairy and I wasnt into it really. I was honest and told him that I wasnt really into hairy guys. And he liked having his nipples bitten really hard and I just wasnt into that. Maybe if he shaved that area

    But we almost connected up a few weeks later. When Im horny, I ready to go. I was going to go to his place but he said he had the flu. So he is on Squirt.org (hook up website) when he had the flu? That seemed weird to me.


    On Friday night, I was going to go to his place because I had hosted. He had plans. I havent really been fucked much because of my absence so I wanted to do it again. We fucked briefly the last time.

    I said I was going to have a shower and I would be back online at 6 pm. I was to be at his place at 7 pm. I still needed his address. I talked to him and he said "sorry but I have a family dinner I forgot about". I said ok.

    But 5 minutes after that, I saw him in a different room. An hour later, I signed into the room and he was still there.

    Side story: There was a guy that I liked, he was young and I wanted to suck him off but I was too old for him. So I created a profile to see if it would attract him. I dont think I ever tried the profile (Andrew West 007) on him.

    But I signed in and tried it on the guy who cancelled on me. I wanted to see what would happen since he led me to believe that we were going to meet Friday night.

    I talked to him as Andrew and then I told him it was me and I had just busted him for lying to me. I wasnt really mad although I should have been because twice he has made me think we would meet. But since he was "ok", I didnt care that we didnt end up meeting

    I recorded the conversation and here it is. Remember, he lied to me and made me think we were going to meet.

    I showered and everything. Bottoms will known what Im talking about.

    Here is Andrew's photo.



    His name is blocked out (as well as the town name, and the guys cock I wanted to suck




    I tell him that it is me . . .

    Congrats on getting back in the game, it must be refreshingly wonderful feeling. But do remember that online hook-ups are just lightweight possible get together opportunities. Take everything with a grain of a salt and be ready for sudden quick changes. Honestly the guy wasn't even worth your time and effort to expose him. In the end...so what??

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    Quote Originally Posted by animalius View Post
    People on JUB have the worst reading comprehension skills I've seen in my life. Either that or they love quote-mining people.
    - I can misread and I have but if he had been 50+ lying on the bed, I would have have re-read that part ;-)


    Derek
    - Online opportunities didnt exist the last time I was sexually active. (1995) The options were the clubs, baths, cruise sites ;-)

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    I find it comic that you're 48 and you think 53 is too old for you.
    I find it stupid that you'd try to attract someone using a picture that isn't your own.
    You need to fucking grow up!

    You've got the makings of an attractive guy.

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    You should shower him with love and kisses

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